I have Neptune Square Sun and Venus with someone in our composites. We also have the Neptune op moon.We don’t have really any Neptune influences natally. We also don’t have these planets aspecting in synastry. We have very well aspected moon sun and Venus in synastry.
Moon Venus and sun fall into our composite 7th house. Moon Venus and sun are otherwise well aspected (Venus even conjuct sun)
How this has played out for us is a high idealization/opinion of each other. There’s no deception, just mutual affection. You can just feel good about each other and how they fit into your life.
Astrology is the study of energy so I believe it always matters how energy is handled. If one of us had badly aspected Neptune (to Venus moon or sun)than I believe that energy would have played out completely (which is true for a lot of couples who have this placement). The Neptune person would have continued to Idealize the partner in an unhealthy way like they do to other people in their lives. The bubble would burst, leaving them disappointed and ready to move on.
Us having no affliction to Neptune natal or even in synastry just allows the positives of this connection to flow. I think it’s rare for two people who don’t have this natally or in synastry to suddenly have it in composite-but I think this has to do with the other well aspected placements.
Has this been true for anyone else?