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T O P I C R E V I E WSolar_Leo_QueenSomeone just recently tried to tell me I should stop posting memes on Facebook because of how future employers will perceive me. I got so agitated and my stubborn side came out. I told them the employer would have to be an idiot to fire me or not give me the job just because I have a sense of humour and a personal life. I'm not a robot. Facebook profiles are for social media--you can use it however you wanna use it, unless it's a professional Facebook page (which I have separately and no stupid posts there). I fought them back with all my willpower, telling them I'm not gonna just change just because someone thinks I'm too much for them. I want to be myself, regardless of who I am dealing with. I, of course, follow certain social rules... but come on! It's Facebook. Who cares unless it's a professional page.I have always thought myself to be more mutable because of all the mutable energy in my chart. As the person was saying it, my Virgo mercury started re-evaluating myself. However, I stood my ground and I told them no. I am not changing for anyone. This is the most Leo I have probably gotten. The fixed fire energy just got triggered and there's no one who can change my mind about this. I told them to leave me to my personal business and if they want to sensor themselves, they can. But don't be telling me I have to because of someone I won't even care about in a few years. I am who I am and I WILL do whatever I please.Solar_Leo_QueenCn someone move this to Astrology 2.0? I just realized this js the wrong forum... thanks!MelinnAs a 9th house Mercury-Sun in Taurus (oppo pluto in 3rd), I feel you!I also have lots of mutuable enrgy in my chart,virgo rising also saturn energies. Especially saturn trine mercury I think, helps one re-evaluate things people say.But oh boy, good luck changing my mind about something if its somethings attached to my core beliefs! With one word IMOPSSIBLE.But things about health, science psychology, I'm open to change my mind and I like learning new things very much! I love exchanging ideas. Maybe I thought this and that was good for the health etc, but you learn me its not good etc.Or maybe I act or talk in a way that is percieved in a certain bad way. I will try to "better" and Improve myself, just because I believe in improvement and "Personal development".I would as you describe in your post, never cave for that type of conveniant behaviour either, to hell with that haha! --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------I have one Leo mercury-sun friend. And, he is Impossible, and this is coming from a taurus, so you can imagine!I can talk about how good d3 is, or how this or that as a diet is good, or this or that training methods, excircise etc. He will listen, make you believe he is taking it in (libra venus). But he will never ever follow what you say or even try it out! He is so set in his ways that it maks me crazy inwardly haha. I have never seen a person being stubborn, just to be stubborn about his beliefs (life style etc). He won't even re-evaluate things!Can't be just a leo thing of course. Just happens he has leo merc-sun.--------------------------------------------------How much Leo do you have? How is your progressed chart looking? Any midpoints in Leo or Aries? I believe you did and said the right thing! You go girl!hypatia238 quote:Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:Someone just recently tried to tell me I should stop posting memes on Facebook because of how future employers will perceive me. I got so agitated and my stubborn side came out. I told them the employer would have to be an idiot to fire me or not give me the job just because I have a sense of humour and a personal life. I'm not a robot. Facebook profiles are for social media--you can use it however you wanna use it, unless it's a professional Facebook page (which I have separately and no stupid posts there). I fought them back with all my willpower, telling them I'm not gonna just change just because someone thinks I'm too much for them. I want to be myself, regardless of who I am dealing with. I, of course, follow certain social rules... but come on! It's Facebook. Who cares unless it's a professional page.I have always thought myself to be more mutable because of all the mutable energy in my chart. As the person was saying it, my Virgo mercury started re-evaluating myself. However, I stood my ground and I told them no. I am not changing for anyone. This is the most Leo I have probably gotten. The fixed fire energy just got triggered and there's no one who can change my mind about this. I told them to leave me to my personal business and if they want to sensor themselves, they can. But don't be telling me I have to because of someone I won't even care about in a few years. I am who I am and I WILL do whatever I please.You freaking GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I have your back on this 100%.Its good you have a sense of humor and can be playful, those are strengths, don't let anyone convince you otherwise ever!I just saw the movie TAG last night, I actually cried at the end even though it was a comedy, my venus conjunct mars in leo was moved by it. Its a movie about adults keeping their inner child alive, okay I am just getting teary again.hypatia238Do you have Uranus aspects? I feel this is LEO in combo with Uranus. Like my partner has venus in leo ruling his chart square uranus on the DC.I have venus/mars in Leo and chart ruler jupiter conjunct uranus.Dumuzii have a leo mercury (in tropical anyway, leo sun in sidereal)even if i know i'm wrong halfway through an argument i'll just keep going til it's over just because it's easier to apologize later than back down for me (i know it's bad, but i mean, once i'm in it i'm in it) though honestly ive been in the middle of some very insignificant arguments (mostly with my brothers this will happen) where i've just kept going til ive won the argument knowing i was wrong halfway through then never revisiting it i don't back down at all if i feel or believe something strongly, for anything (though if someone raises a lot of valid points i might eventually change my mind on something at some point because facts...but if i never have to mention it i won't) even if there's consequences for itif i think i'm right thats good enough for me no matter what anyone else says (again i can be swayed with facts and good perspective but it takes a lot) and i don't put much weight on other people's opinions about most thingsi'm always confident about what i think so i never see any reason to not stick to ithypatia238 quote:Originally posted by Dumuzi:even if i know i'm wrong halfway through an argument i'll just keep going til it's over just because it's easier to apologize later than back down for me (i know it's bad, but i mean, once i'm in it i'm in it) "once I am in it, I am in it" hahahaI can relate.Dumuzi quote:Originally posted by hypatia238: :thumbsup:"once I am in it, I am in it" hahahaI can relate.yeah i just get like "well i'm wrong but i can still win" 😂and i'll be passionately wrong until i win, then you know...apologize later if i have toi can't even help it, i just autopilot run my mouthSolar_Leo_Queen quote:Originally posted by Melinn:As a 9th house Mercury-Sun in Taurus (oppo pluto in 3rd), I feel you!I also have lots of mutuable enrgy in my chart,virgo rising also saturn energies. Especially saturn trine mercury I think, helps one re-evaluate things people say.But oh boy, good luck changing my mind about something if its somethings attached to my core beliefs! With one word IMOPSSIBLE.But things about health, science psychology, I'm open to change my mind and I like learning new things very much! I love exchanging ideas. Maybe I thought this and that was good for the health etc, but you learn me its not good etc.Or maybe I act or talk in a way that is percieved in a certain bad way. I will try to "better" and Improve myself, just because I believe in improvement and "Personal development".I would as you describe in your post, never cave for that type of conveniant behaviour either, to hell with that haha! Yeah I thought it would be more of a fixed Mercury thing to not back down. But then again, for me, it wasn't my ideas that felt attacked. I felt strongly about it because it threatened my self-expression. I used to be worse when I was younger because everything had to be "perfect" to align with my thoughts.I do have a lot of midpoints in Leo and Aries.Solar_Leo_Queen quote:Originally posted by hypatia238:Do you have Uranus aspects? I feel this is LEO in combo with Uranus. Like my partner has venus in leo ruling his chart square uranus on the DC.I have venus/mars in Leo and chart ruler jupiter conjunct uranus.I'm surprised you thought of that! You guessed correctly. I have Sun opposite Uranus by 2 degrees. It is one of the strongest influences in my chart.DualGemV2I'm on the fence on this one...At one hand of the equation if your page only contains 5% of useful material and the rest is pointless material that clogs your page then I can see her point.On the other hand its not Linkedin account and you whouldn't have added people you don't approve of what your doing anyway.Unless your doing something completely foolish say take a picture of yourself committing a crime and posting it on your facebook account then I can't see any real harm in it. On a side this is exactly how you defeat a Fixed Sign, you play on there stubbornness and there stubbornness destroys them later as there rigidness blocks them from seeing the bigger picture which costs them later.For example, it probably won't happen but its worth being mindful from a security perspective. If your page lags because of content from other sources or even worse you may become a victim of a site cross-site scripting attack https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cross-site_scripting then continue what your doing of course I could warn you but a fixed sign whould continue disregarding the risks.@Solar_Leo_QueenYour pretty cool person, I've read your posts so I have no beef, just grumpy I have an Applied Calculus test.My Planets=========================================☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑RandallBump!
I told them the employer would have to be an idiot to fire me or not give me the job just because I have a sense of humour and a personal life. I'm not a robot. Facebook profiles are for social media--you can use it however you wanna use it, unless it's a professional Facebook page (which I have separately and no stupid posts there). I fought them back with all my willpower, telling them I'm not gonna just change just because someone thinks I'm too much for them. I want to be myself, regardless of who I am dealing with. I, of course, follow certain social rules... but come on! It's Facebook. Who cares unless it's a professional page.
I have always thought myself to be more mutable because of all the mutable energy in my chart. As the person was saying it, my Virgo mercury started re-evaluating myself. However, I stood my ground and I told them no. I am not changing for anyone. This is the most Leo I have probably gotten. The fixed fire energy just got triggered and there's no one who can change my mind about this.
I told them to leave me to my personal business and if they want to sensor themselves, they can. But don't be telling me I have to because of someone I won't even care about in a few years. I am who I am and I WILL do whatever I please.
I also have lots of mutuable enrgy in my chart,virgo rising also saturn energies. Especially saturn trine mercury I think, helps one re-evaluate things people say.
But oh boy, good luck changing my mind about something if its somethings attached to my core beliefs! With one word IMOPSSIBLE.
But things about health, science psychology, I'm open to change my mind and I like learning new things very much! I love exchanging ideas. Maybe I thought this and that was good for the health etc, but you learn me its not good etc.
Or maybe I act or talk in a way that is percieved in a certain bad way. I will try to "better" and Improve myself, just because I believe in improvement and "Personal development".
I would as you describe in your post, never cave for that type of conveniant behaviour either, to hell with that haha! --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
I have one Leo mercury-sun friend. And, he is Impossible, and this is coming from a taurus, so you can imagine!
I can talk about how good d3 is, or how this or that as a diet is good, or this or that training methods, excircise etc.
He will listen, make you believe he is taking it in (libra venus). But he will never ever follow what you say or even try it out! He is so set in his ways that it maks me crazy inwardly haha.
I have never seen a person being stubborn, just to be stubborn about his beliefs (life style etc).
He won't even re-evaluate things!Can't be just a leo thing of course. Just happens he has leo merc-sun.--------------------------------------------------
How much Leo do you have? How is your progressed chart looking? Any midpoints in Leo or Aries? I believe you did and said the right thing! You go girl!
quote:Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:Someone just recently tried to tell me I should stop posting memes on Facebook because of how future employers will perceive me. I got so agitated and my stubborn side came out. I told them the employer would have to be an idiot to fire me or not give me the job just because I have a sense of humour and a personal life. I'm not a robot. Facebook profiles are for social media--you can use it however you wanna use it, unless it's a professional Facebook page (which I have separately and no stupid posts there). I fought them back with all my willpower, telling them I'm not gonna just change just because someone thinks I'm too much for them. I want to be myself, regardless of who I am dealing with. I, of course, follow certain social rules... but come on! It's Facebook. Who cares unless it's a professional page.I have always thought myself to be more mutable because of all the mutable energy in my chart. As the person was saying it, my Virgo mercury started re-evaluating myself. However, I stood my ground and I told them no. I am not changing for anyone. This is the most Leo I have probably gotten. The fixed fire energy just got triggered and there's no one who can change my mind about this. I told them to leave me to my personal business and if they want to sensor themselves, they can. But don't be telling me I have to because of someone I won't even care about in a few years. I am who I am and I WILL do whatever I please.
You freaking GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have your back on this 100%.
Its good you have a sense of humor and can be playful, those are strengths, don't let anyone convince you otherwise ever!
I just saw the movie TAG last night, I actually cried at the end even though it was a comedy, my venus conjunct mars in leo was moved by it. Its a movie about adults keeping their inner child alive, okay I am just getting teary again.
I have venus/mars in Leo and chart ruler jupiter conjunct uranus.
even if i know i'm wrong halfway through an argument i'll just keep going til it's over just because it's easier to apologize later than back down for me (i know it's bad, but i mean, once i'm in it i'm in it)
though honestly ive been in the middle of some very insignificant arguments (mostly with my brothers this will happen) where i've just kept going til ive won the argument knowing i was wrong halfway through then never revisiting it
i don't back down at all if i feel or believe something strongly, for anything (though if someone raises a lot of valid points i might eventually change my mind on something at some point because facts...but if i never have to mention it i won't) even if there's consequences for it
if i think i'm right thats good enough for me no matter what anyone else says (again i can be swayed with facts and good perspective but it takes a lot) and i don't put much weight on other people's opinions about most things
i'm always confident about what i think so i never see any reason to not stick to it
quote:Originally posted by Dumuzi:even if i know i'm wrong halfway through an argument i'll just keep going til it's over just because it's easier to apologize later than back down for me (i know it's bad, but i mean, once i'm in it i'm in it)
"once I am in it, I am in it"
hahaha
I can relate.
quote:Originally posted by hypatia238: :thumbsup:"once I am in it, I am in it" hahahaI can relate.
yeah i just get like "well i'm wrong but i can still win" 😂
and i'll be passionately wrong until i win, then you know...apologize later if i have to
i can't even help it, i just autopilot run my mouth
quote:Originally posted by Melinn:As a 9th house Mercury-Sun in Taurus (oppo pluto in 3rd), I feel you!I also have lots of mutuable enrgy in my chart,virgo rising also saturn energies. Especially saturn trine mercury I think, helps one re-evaluate things people say.But oh boy, good luck changing my mind about something if its somethings attached to my core beliefs! With one word IMOPSSIBLE.But things about health, science psychology, I'm open to change my mind and I like learning new things very much! I love exchanging ideas. Maybe I thought this and that was good for the health etc, but you learn me its not good etc.Or maybe I act or talk in a way that is percieved in a certain bad way. I will try to "better" and Improve myself, just because I believe in improvement and "Personal development".I would as you describe in your post, never cave for that type of conveniant behaviour either, to hell with that haha!
I would as you describe in your post, never cave for that type of conveniant behaviour either, to hell with that haha!
Yeah I thought it would be more of a fixed Mercury thing to not back down. But then again, for me, it wasn't my ideas that felt attacked. I felt strongly about it because it threatened my self-expression. I used to be worse when I was younger because everything had to be "perfect" to align with my thoughts.
I do have a lot of midpoints in Leo and Aries.
quote:Originally posted by hypatia238:Do you have Uranus aspects? I feel this is LEO in combo with Uranus. Like my partner has venus in leo ruling his chart square uranus on the DC.I have venus/mars in Leo and chart ruler jupiter conjunct uranus.
I'm surprised you thought of that! You guessed correctly. I have Sun opposite Uranus by 2 degrees. It is one of the strongest influences in my chart.
At one hand of the equation if your page only contains 5% of useful material and the rest is pointless material that clogs your page then I can see her point.
On the other hand its not Linkedin account and you whouldn't have added people you don't approve of what your doing anyway.
Unless your doing something completely foolish say take a picture of yourself committing a crime and posting it on your facebook account then I can't see any real harm in it.
On a side this is exactly how you defeat a Fixed Sign, you play on there stubbornness and there stubbornness destroys them later as there rigidness blocks them from seeing the bigger picture which costs them later.
For example, it probably won't happen but its worth being mindful from a security perspective.
If your page lags because of content from other sources or even worse you may become a victim of a site cross-site scripting attack https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cross-site_scripting then continue what your doing of course I could warn you but a fixed sign whould continue disregarding the risks.
@Solar_Leo_QueenYour pretty cool person, I've read your posts so I have no beef, just grumpy I have an Applied Calculus test.
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