O, I feel for you on this one. ![](http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/frown.gif)
My Aqua friend had/has the same troubles.
And when all got to be too difficult for him to bear, he put me on "the back burner", business before pleasure.
But I told him so many times, it is a choice, it is all about the choices we make.
Then I began my long swim away, deep, far to be with those of my kind. To flee the icy air and float in the warm waters, with my kind.
And now I am healing.
You will, too.
Pray for him, love him for who he is, but do not get pulled down with him.
sending blessings
T~~~