Hi, all! I am recently romantically involved with a man I have been friends with for a while. I didn't know his birth time at first, so I was using 8am to estimate. It seemed that we had great synastry and it matched up pretty well. The estimate seemed to align pretty closely.However, when I asked for his birth time he told me it is 3am. He is definitely not sure of this time, but he says it must be around that time because his dad used to always call him around that time on his birthday. Needless to say, it changed everything and got me pretty disappointed once the houses moved. It doesn't seem like him at all, but some does. For example, I guess I could see him as a Taurus Ascendent but he is not Scorpionic at ALL to have that stellium in the 8th house. It also oddly makes it seem unrequited on my end since now my overlays into houses aren't that great. That doesn't seem right since he has been the pursuer and says we have a close emotional bond that he hasn't had with anyone before. Also, when using the other times it put transits from neptune/pluto to his inner planets and vice versa that completely aligned to troubles in his life right now. The new time doesn't makes sense with that.
Could you look at the synastry and composite and give me feedback on it? I will update in future with new charts if he finds out his exact birth time. MY birth time is exact.
Approximate 3am birth time synastry chart:
Approximate 3am birth time synastry table:
Approximate 3am birth time composite chart:
And these are my initial estimates:
Synastry:
Synastry table:
Composite: