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hannaramaa | What placements and aspects both natally, and in synastry cause this kind of relationship? |
mercuranian | venus and / or moon square / opposite pluto in synastry |
sand | wut like YOU are no good but I am? ..or you are no good.. coz ima scoundrel? |
ueharaa | I am not sure one aspect in itself would bring such contradictory feelings. The venus / pluto opposition is more about "I love you so much that the weight of my love for you is destructive to me" so the person is no good, not because of her/his qualities but because of the love you have for them and that you can't control. I think it would be a mix od venus/moon conjunction or opposition along with a sun square Saturn or opposition saturn. The saturn person would feel tremendous love for the sun person because of the moon/ venus aspect but they would somehow look down on the sun person, constantly reevaluating their worth. Now, maybe by "you're no good for me" you were actually referring to "loving you is no good for me" rather than "your self, individuality is not good enough for me" |
C1ND3R | I'd say venus or mars & neptune. Speaking of, i'm having a cocktail.. Once it kicks in, i'll come back and type my little heart out. Just ypu wait & see. EDIT: *you* Well, whatdya know.. It's kicking in already. |
Lotis White | My guess would be too many squares and oppositions in the synastry, that are not balanced with enough flowing aspects... Lots of passion but a feeling that the relationship is hopeless. That's not to say that a couple of hard aspects in synastry is a big problem. Especially if they're compensated for with a ratio of two soft aspects/conjunctions to every square/opposition. It's when the number of squares and oppositions greatly outnumber the amount soft aspects and conjunctions that there may be a problem. There's also personal development to take into account. Like if someone hangs out with criminals and has substance abuse problems they won't be good for anyone. |
Gabby | quote: Originally posted by Lotis White: My guess would be too many squares and oppositions in the synastry, that are not balanced with enough flowing aspects... Lots of passion but a feeling that the relationship is hopeless.That's not to say that a couple of hard aspects in synastry is a big problem. Especially if they're compensated for with a ratio of two soft aspects/conjunctions to every square/opposition. It's when the number of squares and oppositions greatly outnumber the amount soft aspects and conjunctions that there may be a problem. There's also personal development to take into account. Like if someone hangs out with criminals and has substance abuse problems they won't be good for anyone.
Oh, wow...i was just sitting here thinking about my grandma, missing her and wishing i'd known her before she died...and i saw your name, it made my heart jump...her name was Louis White! Awe...thanks! |
ail221 | Sounds like a Venus trine pluto, mars square pluto combination |
Gabby | quote: Originally posted by C1ND3R: I'd say venus or mars & neptune.Speaking of, i'm having a cocktail.. Once it kicks in, i'll come back and type my little heart out. Just ypu wait & see. EDIT: *you* Well, whatdya know.. It's kicking in already.
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Lotis White | quote: Originally posted by Gabby: Oh, wow...i was just sitting here thinking about my grandma, missing her and wishing i'd known her before she died...and i saw your name, it made my heart jump...her name was Louis White! Awe...thanks!
Well I'm gland I made you happy. Even if it was just a crazy coincidence. |
hannaramaa | quote: Originally posted by C1ND3R: I'd say venus or mars & neptune.Speaking of, i'm having a cocktail.. Once it kicks in, i'll come back and type my little heart out. Just ypu wait & see. EDIT: *you* Well, whatdya know.. It's kicking in already.
Lmao! |
hannaramaa | quote: Originally posted by ail221: Sounds like a Venus trine pluto, mars square pluto combination
You guys are so good on here! We have Mars conjunct Pluto, and I have Sun square Saturn. Also, I meant "loving you is no good for me" too, to the poster who asked for clarification. |
Desiring Shadows | Outlook really. Composite: Venus square Uranus, its hot but we have nothing in common! Venus square Neptune, its hot but I can't stop disorienting who you truly are! Mars square Neptune, loving you makes me weak! Mars square Pluto, loving you is dangerous! |
Gray | quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: What placements and aspects both natally, and in synastry cause this kind of relationship?
What are we talking, in the sense of being detrimental to the person in some way, like being with the other is self-destructive? Pluto and 12th house is what came to mind for me. I just remembered another one that probably doesn't bode too well - probably harsh Chiron aspects, either in the synastry, composite or both.Wounding. |
Ami Anne | Nessus and Dejanira in Synastry. This is too bad, too combustible, too wild, too wonderful, too destructive, tooooo much----to last ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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sand | quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Nessus and Dejanira in Synastry. This is too bad, too combustible, too wild, too wonderful, too destructive, tooooo much----to last
those actually conjunct in my natal. in the tenth house. |
Cynnared | An afflicted Venus, for sure. Venus in Pisces is a dead riinger for thus sort of stuff. Throw Neptune in the mix and you've got your bad relationship cocktail of settling for the first person to come along. Throw Uranus in the 5th as well and you get weird mates that are there one minute and gone the next. The yo-yo type of relationship - enough to destroy those who want a stable relationship. |
Ami Anne | quote: Originally posted by sand: those actually conjunct in my natal. in the tenth house.
I know. I remember when IQ told you you were a wild beast ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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lilithpluto | quote: Originally posted by Lotis White: My guess would be too many squares and oppositions in the synastry, that are not balanced with enough flowing aspects... Lots of passion but a feeling that the relationship is hopeless.That's not to say that a couple of hard aspects in synastry is a big problem. Especially if they're compensated for with a ratio of two soft aspects/conjunctions to every square/opposition. It's when the number of squares and oppositions greatly outnumber the amount soft aspects and conjunctions that there may be a problem. There's also personal development to take into account. Like if someone hangs out with criminals and has substance abuse problems they won't be good for anyone.
Just curious... what if the synastry has a lot of squares and opposites but in composite is more harmonous. Or synastry is harmonous with conjunction, trines and sextile but composite has squares or scattered planets. Which is more preferable in your opinion? |
lilithpluto | quote: Originally posted by sand: those actually conjunct in my natal. in the tenth house.
Do you know what it means? I'm curious!! What does it mean to have Nessus and Dejanira in Natal Chart? Abusive towards self or too hard on oneself at work? |
sand | not specifically no.. quote: One danger is fantasy about abusive sex, you must resist the temptation to play this out even with a willing partner
quote: It is the Pluto conjunct Ascendant + Nessus conjunct Dejanira + Nessus Square Venus + Mars in Scorpio + Taurus Sun combination.
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lilithpluto | I remember. is that fr iQ? |
sand | yep! |