With two personal planets in the eighth house, a moon in scorpio and pluto aspects, I'd say you're very plutonian which would calm the natural impulsiveness of an aries sun, so you're definitely not a typical aries. Your husband has venus aspecting pluto and saturn, so he's probably not the playboy type. Usually, these are signs of someone who takes relationships very seriously.
I'd say overall you both are compatible.
If a house is empty, then that means that nothing significant is going on in that house. This doesn't mean it's not important though as it can still tell you about your personality. For instance, an empty tenth house would mean you prefer a life of leisure rather than work.
An Aries moon isn't "bad" per se, but aries isn't particularly happy in the moon. The moon rules cancer, which is very feminine and aries is about as masculine as you can get. Aries is the sign of the warrior and is very aggressive while the moon is supposed to be nurturing.
Negatively, the Aries moon can be selfish and can be like an infant in the sense that they'll scream and shout until their emotional needs are satisfied. They are also known for their quick temper, but they are also quick to forget. On the upside, they're feisty, courageous, honest and loyal.