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Topic: hate towards my father
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sd09 unregistered
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posted May 27, 2006 08:23 PM
its been for long time seens i was a kid cant stand him maybe cause i see lot of siame feauters that i have anyway long story shorth what happend just moment ago he almost die and same thing happend on friday faitheng low blood preasure and cuse he is drinking on thop of all anyway just curios whats in the stars for him does he wil live long his burday march 25 1955IP: Logged |
Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 982 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 27, 2006 08:36 PM
sd ~There are obscure and esoteric ways to find out when death is possible from a chart -- there was a thread on just this topic here about a month ago. But I'm not going to look, just offer you my sympathies These natives are having their Chiron Return right now -- if they have filled their karmic bank account with positive experiences, they will breeze thru this period of life. If, on the other hand, they have squandered resources and time, it may be a very difficult stage. It sounds like your dad hasn't taken very good care of the temple of his soul..... but there's nothing you can do about that, besides you're thousands of miles away, yes?? What do you want to do about the situation?? Zala IP: Logged |
sd09 unregistered
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posted May 27, 2006 08:48 PM
well i dunno yeat he is here,but i feel that we grown aparth from the begining unfothetnlly but its thryIP: Logged |
DayDreamer unregistered
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posted May 28, 2006 12:25 AM
Why do you hate your father? Maybe you should get your father some help...has he gone to see any doctor or health professional about his low blood pressure and drinking problems?IP: Logged |
sd09 unregistered
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posted May 29, 2006 12:13 AM
thank U Daydreamer but it wasent this question at 1stIP: Logged |
BerrySweet unregistered
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posted May 29, 2006 07:15 AM
I'm so sorry. Sounds like this relationship has caused so much pain for you.IP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
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posted May 29, 2006 09:07 AM
I know of a few men who have hated their dads....my hubbie being one and my father too...... I often think people who struggle with their parents,sometimes go on to be independant and strong individuals....and then maybe as they get older learn how to heal the rift. Keep talking sd.....people here are very understanding....so keep on spilling yer beans..... You are not alone.....!!!! IP: Logged |
zeldatiara unregistered
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posted May 30, 2006 02:51 PM
sd-You said you thought you saw some of his "bad" traits in yourself. I can relate, my father was not a good father and he also drank a lot. Many aspects of our personalities are eerily similar (especially strange 'cause I did not live with him past age 7). This has frightened me but I realized it is like everything else: you can choose how to manifest the traits, in a positive way or a negative way. In the meantime, like the others said, please stay here as you will probably learn a lot. Having strong feelings of dislike toward our parents is not so unusual, it is sad and it is difficult, and I don't think our society accepts it, but if you accept your feelings without judging yourself I think you can begin to heal. Take care, Zelda ------------------ "To see, to hear, means nothing. To recognize (or not to recognize) means everything. Between what I do recognize and what I do not recognize there stands myself." -Andre Breton _____________________ Pisces sun, Taurus moon, Leo ascendant IP: Logged |
DayDreamer unregistered
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posted May 30, 2006 10:19 PM
Yeah maybe you should just keep talking sd, so that someone here could probably assist you. IP: Logged | |