posted August 25, 2005 10:37 AM
Hey..I heard!My computer was hit by lightening this past weekend and is in permanent SAFE MODE....great. I can't remember any of my passwords to ANYTHING...it has been a drag!
I see Duality has taken care of you. Remember that I posted the list for you prior to this thread. Learn it. Use it. The information does not change with Magi.
If you see the linkage, it IS a Cinderella link...follow the formula-charts I gave you.
It is a fantastic and invaluable reference!!
The www.magisociety.com site provides lots of clues...it just takes a while to figure them out...and can be confusing!!
Duality has stated that you do have at least one super-linkage with Neptune-Venus-Chiron! Great!
When you are comparing Magi with traditional astrology..what I have found to be helpful is to keep the interpretations 'loose'. There is ALWAYS wiggle room with regard to astrological interpretations....mainly though, I say follow your gut INTUITION. Trust it.
This alone will trump astrology...always.
Most importantly, we are all humans and while the science of astrology and patterns are very helpful, each couple has it's own personality that is not always so cut and dry. I do not believe that one aspect 'erases' the difficulty of another aspect in synastry...they BOTH are present and both will demand attention depending on how close the degrees are together.
ALL aspects are present...and none cancel out another...wish it was that simple to erase the yucky ones!! However, they are present to help you grow as a person and a couple...learning how to deal with frictions in life is PART of Life...learning to thoughtfully RESPOND instead of REACT is part of the whole picture as well.
Perhaps being aware of the more difficult aspects is the first part of learning how to handle the more unpleasant points of either natal or synastral charts. (Is that a word??) Hee-hee....
When you are aware of, lets say your Venus-sq-Mars aspects, you can make adjustments...and do so with UNDERSTANDING. And Remembering that it stems from present energy of these two planets and that they will always cause friction. AND Keeping in mind that transits will often stimulate these points more strongly during those times. So then, you choose to decide if you can work with that energy over time or not. It will be there not matter what other elements are present.
Just as in Life, it is always about HOW you 'handle' the issues that make a difference to the outcome-and thus, your Happiness will always be in Your hands.
GemStar