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NAM unregistered
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posted February 17, 2007 11:55 PM
pm option I would pm you now and apologize for being nasty to you, but since there is not one I don't have a problem by doing it public. But I also feel you need to apologize for being so annoying and pushing your beliefs onto everyone else. Guess what, you are not right and I am not right , nobody is right and noone will ever be able to tell us what is right until the day we die and we meet our creator, whoever and whatever form it is.So, there is my apology, I like to know how big of a person you are and if you can do the same.I think Dove needs an apology from you too. i will also like to apologize to the moderators, i really didn't mean to cause disturbance, i thought we were all adults here and a talk about sex between adults was as healthy as any other topic in the universe.i guess I was wrong.It shows how different we all really are. IP: Logged |
lotusheartone unregistered
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posted February 17, 2007 11:58 PM
Never did I say you had to believe meI have offered my opinions on a public forum I even said I was willing to compromise please open you eyes. ... IP: Logged |
NAM unregistered
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posted February 18, 2007 12:02 AM
They are, I just don't see what you see, is not what you say is the way you deliver your opinions. I also said I agreed with some of the things you were saying.But not all, isn't this the way of the world? we can not agree totally but that does not make me wrong or makes you wrong , only to your standards or mine.This is not a reason to tell others that you are the one that is right and "one day we will see" because I see now and very clear and what i see is not what you see and I am happy with it.i am still waiting for an apology. IP: Logged |
lotusheartone unregistered
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posted February 18, 2007 12:08 AM
I never said I was right!stop making assumptions to try to make yourself feel better you broke the rules of the site... by starting your thread there are plenty of sex sites to visit this is a spritual site not a sexual one Go within and find your own Truth I have the right to voice my opinion and I will, wether you like it or not. ... LOve to ALL... and if you need an apology so bad, I am sorry but why should I apologize for sharing my Truth I have worked long and hard for it years and years of study do not belittle me... perhaps you should look to your own actions and words, for answers? IP: Logged |
NAM unregistered
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posted February 18, 2007 12:48 AM
How I would love to talk to you face to face!But here are your quotes oh mighty one! the one that preaches balance but has none,but to me seems to be a one way extremist; the one that thinks is not telling anyone she is right but by the way she talks to us she is actually doing that: from our dearly deleted thread...with love...me!
quote: Sex is not spirituality
How dare you? how can you tell me if I have a loving relationship and I am having sex with my partner which I love you can actually say that we are not being connected sexually and spiritually?
quote: it has dawned on me, that some of you have abSOULutley no clue...that this is the way society raised you...and well, there is not much I can do..but keep trying to show the Truth
You are saying you don't think you are treating us like you are always right? I am sorry but you are going to show me what truth? yours? and that truth is right? quote: I never said I was right! stop making assumptions to try to make yourself feel better you broke the rules of the site... by starting your threadthere are plenty of sex sites to visit this is a spritual site not a sexual one Go within and find your own Truth I have the right to voice my opinion and I will, wether you like it or not. ... LOve to ALL... and if you need an apology so bad, I am sorry but why should I apologize for sharing my Truth I have worked long and hard for it years and years of study do not belittle me... perhaps you should look to your own actions and words, for answers?
I think you are nothing but full of BS I am going to tell you one more time, I want an apology and not because i need one because in the end I could give a rat's a$$ of what you think and how you live your life but because I want to keep coming here and sharing with all of you and i don't want to have to bypass your posts, i feel you have something to contribute to this site as much as everyone else and by apologizing we can start all over , fresh.
If I broke the rules then leave it to a moderator to tell me.And i will obey by those. And I am not trying t make myself feel better, i already feel better, and you know why? because i don't have the need to convince other people that my ways are right for them, i can understand and love you for who you are without having to judge you or impose myself to you, I am very much happy with my decisions on who I am , I will continue to search and be the best I can be but I can tell you something for sure that will not be who you are because i already don't like the way you think and how little your mind is. Have a good night... I will be here anytime you want to apologize to me and start fresh because I am human as you are and i love you and everyone else that loves me and wants to be my friend. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 4416 From: Pleasanton, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 18, 2007 12:57 AM
You didn't break any rules. There have been MONUMENTAL sex related threads here with hundreds of posts. I've never seen a Moderator shut one down even if they didn't particularly like the thread.Lotus has always caused problems when it comes to this issue. IP: Logged |
NAM unregistered
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posted February 18, 2007 01:03 AM
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You didn't break any rules. There have been MONUMENTAL sex related threads here with hundreds of posts. I've never seen a Moderator shut one down even if they didn't particularly like the thread. Lotus has always caused problems when it comes to this issue
Well, thank you, as a new member that makes me feel better. I see there were a lot more eyes around here than post LOL (it's cool ) IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife unregistered
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posted February 18, 2007 01:09 AM
there certainly are... most of the times i like to see the action from FAAAAR been there, done that IP: Logged |
sunshine9 Knowflake Posts: 107 From: Chapel Hill, NC, US Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 18, 2007 01:54 AM
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AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 4416 From: Pleasanton, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 18, 2007 02:00 AM
There was a sex-related thread that lasted 69 pages, and over 1700 posts.IP: Logged |
NAM unregistered
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posted February 18, 2007 02:02 AM
wow, that is a long one.Maybe i should look for it LOLIP: Logged |
OzMeg222 Newflake Posts: 0 From: victoria, australia Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 18, 2007 07:18 AM
69 pages??? Lol, seems appropriate. Te he!IP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
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posted February 18, 2007 07:25 AM
Oh AG....the good old days hey?Oz.....haha.....very funny girl!! IP: Logged |
aquaspryt69 unregistered
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posted February 18, 2007 09:32 AM
Oz~ I do have to agree with some of Lotus' protests. I have seen some of those sex threads get a little, um, a bit offensive to some of us. I just steer clear of them myself as I do believe in free speech and, as AG has said, none of the moderators put an end to any of them.
There's been so much fighting and arguing going on in LL. I wish we would all just get along. Everyone contributes something in their own way. Can't we just all agree to disagree? Love and Light to all!!
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shirty unregistered
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posted February 18, 2007 09:46 AM
" I just steer clear of them myself as I do believe in free speech and, as AG has said, none of the moderators put an end to any of them."Exactly. Threads have TITLES for a reason. I think if you don't like a thread you can very easily skip over it. It's not like the forum is a list of all the posts made right in your face. It's just thread titles. Individuals who open up threads just to complain about their existence need help. IP: Logged |
NAM unregistered
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posted February 18, 2007 10:57 AM
Best way to find out who is who in a new forum... Start a sex thred... never fails LOLI know who the uptight difficult ones are now.Never the less I will respect their views as long as they respect mine and know how to talk to me, I can listen... I won't be preached on though. IP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 18, 2007 11:01 AM
You shouldn't have to stop talking about what you like or censor your own personality because 'else' doesn't like it. Thats just wrong to feel you have to stifle simply because someone else says you have no right to talk about different topics, even sex(of course within reason). ------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged |
NAM unregistered
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posted February 18, 2007 11:07 AM
quote: You shouldn't have to stop talking about what you like or censor your own personality because 'else' doesn't like it. Thats just wrong to feel you have to stifle simply because someone else says you have no right to talk about different topics, even sex(of course within reason).
It would be nice to have a quote option built in here so we can use it more often...are you talking to me here? IP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 18, 2007 11:08 AM
Yes NAM you ------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
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posted February 18, 2007 11:13 AM
Yes ladies i agree...If I were a mod though, i would draw the line at name calling......especially when the names were offensive.... Isnt it strange how people become up in arms about somethng so amazing as intimacy and sex and yet sort of either indulge in or "gloss over" the name calling... Weird.... IP: Logged |
lotusheartone unregistered
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posted February 18, 2007 11:20 AM
So Dove is Salisa..wellat least I learned something last night. ... yes, and where are the moderators??? IP: Logged |
NAM unregistered
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posted February 18, 2007 11:31 AM
quote: Yes NAM you
ok No, noone is stopping me from saying what i think, I will just do it with as much taste as I can but even then sometimes we have no control over what the levels of taste of the other person are, and this is a public forum and some people are going to feel less comfortable than othres in certain topics, we all know the best way to avoid that is by not going in the thread but... come on? if she keeps going in those threads is because she likes it and she is getting off on them... there is obviously something missing in her life and that is why she keeps coming back for more. It would be so simple to not get offended!!! just by not clicking on those threads, just a click away would make the difference for her, yet she keeps doing it.... yeap...she likes it. Now, i am just going for what the rest have said in here because i am just getting to know all of you! but it seems this has been an issue for a while. Oh wait I know the reason, she is trying to save our souls... That's it! because she is right... i wonder what part of my chart says I like to mess with people like her: I am actually surprised I am acting this way because I am very easy going, maybe i feel I haven't got to the bottom of who she really is and I need to study her a bit more LOL i do beleive there is good and common sense in all of us, another theory would be she just does it to bug us and see how far we go... hmmmm. I wish i could see what she looks like.
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lotusheartone unregistered
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posted February 18, 2007 11:37 AM
NAM your continued insults are very childish, very high school...I am now leaving this thread, never to return..that is a promise carry on... IP: Logged |
Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 982 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 18, 2007 11:40 AM
NAM ~ quote: I wish i could see what she looks like.
lotus put up a pic at the LL Photoshop..... quote: Oh wait I know the reason, she is trying to save our souls... That's it! because she is right...i wonder what part of my chart says I like to mess with people like her
Well, there must be a lot of us with planet (X) aspecting planet (Y) because the distaste for pomposity and self-appointed spiritual authorities and decorum-police is nearly universal around here..... Zala IP: Logged |
NAM unregistered
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posted February 18, 2007 11:41 AM
quote: NAM your continued insults are very childish, very high school... I am now leaving this thread, never to return..that is a promisecarry on...
i was not insulting you but if this is what you want to do i won't stop you, if you want to come back and have a civil conversation then I am all ears. IP: Logged |