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Topic: Dating Exchange
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BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 2664 From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 03, 2015 07:19 PM
Inspired by Enneline's thread. So there are a few guys that have expressed interest in me, some of who I have known for years and others only months. Each has a different style of expression which makes this interesting lol. I'm curious as to whether you think any of them I should consider pursuing or staying away from. 1. P 2. R 3. I 4. Z Drop your questions in here, do not have to be dating or love-related at all. IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3834 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 03, 2015 08:02 PM
wow you're so lucky to have all of these guys interested in you!!!I'm dating a guy named Ian and its just casual right now but I wanted to know what his thoughts & feelings are for me and quote on quote "us"? and anything else that I should know about IP: Logged |
St@r2013 Knowflake Posts: 1755 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 03, 2015 08:05 PM
Let's give it a go and it'll be interesting to see if you agree with my interpretation. First of all I think number 3 I is the best option. But let me go through all of them - 1. P - Scythe - child - tree It seems you'll have a cut in communication, break, separation before a new beginning. Although tree and child are positive, I don't like it with the scythe. A break before anything even began? Is he a bit childish? Is he the one you feel the most spiritual connection to? 2. R - sun - Coffin - stars Similar to P. Seems like initial happiness and then break in communication and communication again. I wonder if you're most attracted to him. Physically.. As he seems like a bright personality. 3. I - man + lilies + clover This seems like a more mature, sexual connection. I like number 3 4. Z - moon - woman - whip I don't like... You'll be in doubt with this one. Too many emotions, not sure what's going on... Nah IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3834 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 03, 2015 08:06 PM
R. And I. seem to be the most level headed down to earth gentleman out of the bunch. I think P, might be the most forthright in asking questions about you, his communication towards you or flat out asking you out. I don't pick up on the other maybe he shy or you just started talking to him, his energy isn't strong for me. I don't think any of them need to be screen, they all seem like good gentleman. But the best fit in terms of your personality are the two I mentioned. Those two seem old soul, don't play those games and are looking for something with substance, there not just looking to date from a catalog so to speak and select the best is mate for the time being.I don't know why but I don't think any of them are really going to become something. So maybe I'll cancel them all out or you'll meet them but not like them to date them... Or maybe I'm totally wrong. IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3834 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 03, 2015 08:08 PM
St@2013...do you want to exchange also? If so my question is the sameIP: Logged |
DreamCatcher Knowflake Posts: 27 From: United States Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 03, 2015 08:14 PM
Hi Bella I will take a crack at this, how fun!1. P-Eh. I feel this guy is player. Very sexy though. I would not put my eggs in this basket. 2. R- Good guy, I would give him a chance. He's a bit wishy-washy though. I get a very libra energy. Won't last long because he will annoy you. 3. I- Good energy here. Very Zen. I like him. Seems like this would be more long term. 4. Z- Again, decent guy but he has some issues. Still attached to an ex as well. IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher Knowflake Posts: 27 From: United States Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 03, 2015 08:15 PM
For My Q: What type of impression did I make on J? (New partner for work). Thanks! IP: Logged |
St@r2013 Knowflake Posts: 1755 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 03, 2015 08:16 PM
Sure Cherful! BRB with yours My Q - what are by bosses (D-male and J-female) think about me? They are acting weird with me, what's going on? IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3834 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 03, 2015 08:19 PM
...I don't think it's you. I think there might be a restructuring or possible layoffs... And so the uncomfortable feeling you're getting from these two is because they are uncomfortable with the energy of the company right now. I don't think it's you and I don't think you're the one that's going to be restructured or laid off I think it's with the higher ups... Those two are unsure of what's going to be happening and that's the energy they're kind of giving off you're just picking up on it more strongly but I don't sense them purposely showing you this and not anybody else...again, ur simply able to pick it up stronger QUOTE]Originally posted by St@r2013: Sure Cherful! BRB with yours
My Q - what are by bosses (D-male and J-female) think about me? They are acting weird with me, what's going on? [/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
St@r2013 Knowflake Posts: 1755 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 03, 2015 08:26 PM
Ok Cherful.. It seems Ian is so closed off, three out of the 5 cards were closed cards. He doesn't show you his true feelings and that's why you're insecure. But he likes you, likes you in the sense that he wants to be the guy that you can count on, the protector, he was portrayed as the bear card. Was there an obstacle between you in the beginning because he feels like he's having a second chance with you. However he will not open up soon, he'll remain closed off with his feelings. Afraid to show you how strong his feelings are for you. IP: Logged |
St@r2013 Knowflake Posts: 1755 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 03, 2015 08:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: ...I don't think it's you. I think there might be a restructuring or possible layoffs... And so the uncomfortable feeling you're getting from these two is because they are uncomfortable with the energy of the company right now. I don't think it's you and I don't think you're the one that's going to be restructured or laid off I think it's with the higher ups... Those two are unsure of what's going to be happening and that's the energy they're kind of giving off you're just picking up on it more strongly but I don't sense them purposely showing you this and not anybody else...again, ur simply able to pick it up stronger QUOTE]Originally posted by St@r2013: [b]Sure Cherful! BRB with yours
My Q - what are by bosses (D-male and J-female) think about me? They are acting weird with me, what's going on?
[/B][/QUOTE] You're right there's going to be restructure and we all know about it. I don't care coz I want to leave once my contract ends in June. It's just that they stopped appreciating my hard work and are more distant... Although no one worries about the restructure too much yet as it'll take a year or so... So you think it's nothing? IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3834 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 03, 2015 08:29 PM
Yes, when we met we knew it was just for casual dating but then afterwards he said he wanted to actually become something and I agreed... But then he change his mind again saying he can't offer more and he didn't really think I would be looking for something serious with someone like him. Which is somewhat true because I had told him he needs to get serious with getting a career and figuring out his child situation. So then a few weeks go by and now things have really begun to pick up where they were slow and I almost felt like he threw in the towel. But lately things have been really great its been constant communication and he even pick me up at the airport last night quote: Originally posted by St@r2013: Ok Cherful.. It seems Ian is so closed off, three out of the 5 cards were closed cards. He doesn't show you his true feelings and that's why you're insecure. But he likes you, likes you in the sense that he wants to be the guy that you can count on, the protector, he was portrayed as the bear card. Was there an obstacle between you in the beginning because he feels like he's having a second chance with you. However he will not open up soon, he'll remain closed off with his feelings. Afraid to show you how strong his feelings are for you.
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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 3834 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 03, 2015 08:32 PM
although the restructuring might not happen for a year the implementation stages are happening now...I don't think they don't value your work any longer, it's just that they are now are having other priorities and have to make other people feel valued and happy... The rule it's going to change a bit and who is over them that structure is going to change a bit so as they adjust to information that they were getting they are trying to learn at the same time so it's not that they've forgotten about you or your hard work is just that then I'm focusing on others. And really though I don't get anything towards you of them having ill intentions towards you or anything like that. . quote: Originally posted by St@r2013: You're right there's going to be restructure and we all know about it. I don't care coz I want to leave once my contract ends in June. It's just that they stopped appreciating my hard work and are more distant... Although no one worries about the restructure too much yet as it'll take a year or so... So you think it's nothing?
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St@r2013 Knowflake Posts: 1755 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 03, 2015 08:43 PM
Thanks Cherful!And my cards were positive towards his intentions with you... Like I said he wants to be the guy that you can count on and come to him for help. Seems cute IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 2664 From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 03, 2015 09:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by St@r2013: Let's give it a go and it'll be interesting to see if you agree with my interpretation. First of all I think number 3 I is the best option. But let me go through all of them - 1. P - Scythe - child - tree It seems you'll have a cut in communication, break, separation before a new beginning. Although tree and child are positive, I don't like it with the scythe. A break before anything even began? Is he a bit childish? Is he the one you feel the most spiritual connection to? 2. R - sun - Coffin - stars Similar to P. Seems like initial happiness and then break in communication and communication again. I wonder if you're most attracted to him. Physically.. As he seems like a bright personality. 3. I - man + lilies + clover This seems like a more mature, sexual connection. I like number 3 4. Z - moon - woman - whip I don't like... You'll be in doubt with this one. Too many emotions, not sure what's going on... Nah
This is very accurate! P- I feel he is very immature when it comes to love matters and is a little self-centered. I lost contact with him and just ran into him a few days ago. I definitely feel a more spiritual and esoteric connection here compared to the rest. R- you got it! I am very attracted to him, and his personality is very warm and engaging. The only thing that concerns me is what you highlighted above is that we may never get the chance to get something off of the ground I- what is funny here is that I is a friend who has always liked me, but I've never seen him as more than a friend. I just do not see myself getting into a relationship with him because I believe you cannot force things. Even though he would probably be a great bf, he is not the right one for me Z-yeah, he is dealing with a lot right now, and has some feelings for his ex still. I think he needs to sort out a few things, and we are probably better as friends.
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: R. And I. seem to be the most level headed down to earth gentleman out of the bunch. I think P, might be the most forthright in asking questions about you, his communication towards you or flat out asking you out. I don't pick up on the other maybe he shy or you just started talking to him, his energy isn't strong for me. I don't think any of them need to be screen, they all seem like good gentleman. But the best fit in terms of your personality are the two I mentioned. Those two seem old soul, don't play those games and are looking for something with substance, there not just looking to date from a catalog so to speak and select the best is mate for the time being.I don't know why but I don't think any of them are really going to become something. So maybe I'll cancel them all out or you'll meet them but not like them to date them... Or maybe I'm totally wrong.
Thanks Cherful! That is interesting you picked up on R and I as well. It is definitely possible that nothing will come from any of them since I may be applying to jobs that are out of the city and state, so who knows. I'll be right back with your questions.
quote: Originally posted by DreamCatcher: Hi Bella I will take a crack at this, how fun!1. P-Eh. I feel this guy is player. Very sexy though. I would not put my eggs in this basket. 2. R- Good guy, I would give him a chance. He's a bit wishy-washy though. I get a very libra energy. Won't last long because he will annoy you. 3. I- Good energy here. Very Zen. I like him. Seems like this would be more long term. 4. Z- Again, decent guy but he has some issues. Still attached to an ex as well.
Hey! LMAO, you think R is a Libra? That might actually make sense given his behavior- I get the sense he has Virgo in his chart, which would put planets in my 8th house. I is a really good guy, but I'm just not into him that way, which I feel bad about. Z has some issues around women and trust to work out which you picked up on. I'll get to your question too. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 2664 From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 03, 2015 10:00 PM
Cherful:The Sun The Hermit 2 of Wands He really likes you and thinks you are a start to something good. You know how someone just brightens up your day and makes you feel so good? That is what you do to him. But with the Hermit, I also think he needs some time to think things out- does he have some issues to sort out or take consideration time for? He wants more, but there are a few things holding him back. His feelings are open, clear, and joyful, and is considering making the next steps with you. 10 of Swords Justice Yeah, so it is not a matter of him wanting something with you, it is a matter of whether he has ability to give it. I think he has gone through something disappointing and wants a fresh start with you. He sees you as someone he actually needs to make changes for, which is a little overwhelming and yet necessary for him. Although he was a little upset by something recent, your interactions with him he will come to learn in time have a purpose. If you both lay out what you want and keep communication strong, I think there is potential here. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 2664 From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 03, 2015 10:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by DreamCatcher: For My Q: What type of impression did I make on J? (New partner for work). Thanks!
The World The Lovers You made a very strong impression on J, and they think very highly of you. If this is strictly business then you are exactly what they need to get the job done- you have all of the skills and resources required to 'complete' things so to speak. The World and Lovers together implies some sort of choice, so at the very least there is a platonic connection and mutual admiration for each other. There are certainly choices to be made, so if your partner needs to collaborate with you in the near future, they have full confidence in who you are and what your abilities can provide. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 2664 From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 03, 2015 10:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by St@r2013: Sure Cherful! BRB with yours My Q - what are by bosses (D-male and J-female) think about me? They are acting weird with me, what's going on?
Ace of Cups 10 of Swords The Chariot Ooh, I feel as if I need a little more information? Did something happen at work that upset them? To me, the combination of the Ace of Cups and 10 of Swords indicates some sort of conflict has caused a small change in emotion from them. Have they mentioned making any cuts or changes in the department structure? There may be some decision they have to make, but it doesn't necessarily have to involve you. I think they have to deal with something that will cause pain (cutting people) and having to move forward (chariot). I don't forsee you losing your job, I can always pull more cards. It is more on them and waiting for better times to come. IP: Logged |
St@r2013 Knowflake Posts: 1755 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 03, 2015 10:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice: Ace of Cups 10 of SwordsThe Chariot Ooh, I feel as if I need a little more information? Did something happen at work that upset them? To me, the combination of the Ace of Cups and 10 of Swords indicates some sort of conflict has caused a small change in emotion from them. Have they mentioned making any cuts or changes in the department structure? There may be some decision they have to make, but it doesn't necessarily have to involve you. I think they have to deal with something that will cause pain (cutting people) and having to move forward (chariot). I don't forsee you losing your job, I can always pull more cards. It is more on them and waiting for better times to come.
Thanks Bella! You are so sweet for finding my questions among this thread lol! Thank you so much! And thank you for the feedback!!! By the way things can work with R - but I just didn't like that things will end and then begin again - it bothers me... You are 100% right, there will be changes at work. I'm not worried about my job (I really don't care if I lose it.. .as long as they pay me out... ) but D and J used to be so much nicer to me... and now they don't seem to understand how much work I do and are being more distant with me... But your spread is similar to what cherful said... it's not about me, it's about the changes the company is going through... I'm glad they don't have negative feelings towards me. Thank you! IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher Knowflake Posts: 27 From: United States Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 04, 2015 08:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice: The World The LoversYou made a very strong impression on J, and they think very highly of you. If this is strictly business then you are exactly what they need to get the job done- you have all of the skills and resources required to 'complete' things so to speak. The World and Lovers together implies some sort of choice, so at the very least there is a platonic connection and mutual admiration for each other. There are certainly choices to be made, so if your partner needs to collaborate with you in the near future, they have full confidence in who you are and what your abilities can provide.
Thank you! I Actually felt a spark between us and though "oh no"...LOL IP: Logged |