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hannaramaa
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posted April 26, 2015 10:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My human sexuality professor doesn't believe we should make sex offenders label themselves as such on their license. She said it isn't fair when there are or could be so many predators running around who aren't caught. I am wondering if she is just ignorant about how one goes about actually "earning" that title, but seeing as how she's a professor and the grueling interview processes and work they have to go through in obtaining that position, I'd expect her not to be.

I personally think it's absolutely justified for sex offenders to have that label on their license, but I was speaking with another friend of mine about it, who is also an assistant professor, and she felt the same way as my human sexuality teacher even though she herself was victimized. Am I missing something here? Neither of them seemed to consider the victim in this circumstance, they were more concerned about the sexual predator being stigmatized. I feel pretty firm in my stance but I'd like to start a topic on it to see if anyone has an opposite opinion so I can understand better.

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posted April 26, 2015 11:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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She said it isn't fair when there are or could be so many predators running around who aren't caught.

*That* was her reason?
That's a pretty... odd... reason :\

People generally disagree with this because within the criminal justice system an offender (a sex offender or a person who committed any kind of crime) - was already convicted and sentenced at trial.
So they were presumably already punished for their crime. The sentence handed down was their punishment.

Hence, stigmatizing them by asking them to identify as a "sex offender" for the rest of their lives - is an added, extra punishment - and that is (arguably) unfair.

Basically, it's contentious to punish an offender twice over for the same crime.

And a further problem is that normally, a criminal should only be punished for his crime through the judiciary process... not punished by the executive (the Government)... or the legislative (Parliament).
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rule_of_law
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Separation_of_powers_under_the_United_States _Constitution#Judicial_power

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posted April 26, 2015 11:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I feel pretty firm in my stance but I'd like to start a topic on it to see if anyone has an opposite opinion so I can understand better.

There are probably cases in which you would also find it unnecessary to stigmatise the offender.

See this for example:
http://edition.cnn.com/2010/CRIME/02/11/oklahoma.teen.sex.offender

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posted April 27, 2015 12:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Odette,
That's how I feel about it and furthermore I don't think that any person with a criminal background should have to carry it on their records. If a person does their jail time, probation, community service etc.they shouldn't have to be punished by society for the rest of their lives.

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posted April 27, 2015 12:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Valentine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
[QUOTE]Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[B]Odette,
That's how I feel about it and furthermore I don't think that any person with a criminal background should have to carry it on their records. If a person does their jail time, probation, community service etc.they shouldn't have to be punished by society for the rest of their lives.

Ordinarily yes, Sex offenders should, as far as I know there is no cure for them.

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posted April 27, 2015 12:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
*That* was her reason?
That's a pretty... odd... reason :\

People generally disagree with this because within the criminal justice system an offender (a sex offender or a person who committed any kind of crime) - was already convicted and sentenced at trial.
So they were presumably already punished for their crime. The sentence handed down was their punishment.

Hence, stigmatizing them by asking them to identify as a "sex offender" for the rest of their lives - is an added, extra punishment - and that is (arguably) unfair.

Basically, it's contentious to punish an offender twice over for the same crime.


I thought so too! Frankly I'm torn. On one hand I can see how their license displaying "Sex Offender" doesn't benefit anyone in everyday life like when they're buying groceries or going to the bank. On the other, what if it does benefit in some way by serving as a warning (I then ask myself "Warning to who?")

Secondly, there are repeat offenders who receive that label as their 3rd strike in many states. They deserve to be "embarrassed" the rest of their lives, I don't really care about their feelings and privacy because they knowingly violated someone else when they knew it was wrong. You know right from wrong by the time you reach that point.

With all of that being said I think about how we also discussed rapists / offenders having a biological short circuit and therefore their "condition" should be considered as a mental illness. If THAT'S so, and people argue they "can't help it," is it fair then? It's kind of interesting, but goes against what I feel and have been taught is right.

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posted April 27, 2015 01:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[B]Odette,
That's how I feel about it and furthermore I don't think that any person with a criminal background should have to carry it on their records. If a person does their jail time, probation, community service etc.they shouldn't have to be punished by society for the rest of their lives.

Ordinarily yes, Sex offenders should, as far as I know there is no cure for them.



It's obvious that you have a very shallow understanding of what a sex offender is. You are thinking of pedophiles, not all sex offenders are pedophiles. The Sex offender registry basically gives a 21 year old man that had consenual sex with a 17 year old girl the same label as a man or woman that molested a pre-pubecent kid when the two are not even remotely comparable. Would you agree or disagree?

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posted April 27, 2015 01:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Valentine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Of course I agree. Pedophiles and rapists are who I was talking about. The statutory rape you mentioned is a ridiculous charge,

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posted April 27, 2015 01:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ReachingForTheStars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's the problem... I think a lot of us don't separate sexual offenders from sexual predators. We hear offender and think predator, and this is seldom the case. This is a hard issue for me because I have kids. If a known "predator" is in my area, I'd like to know. Is that a good thing? Is it just? Maybe not. Probably not! The fact that we hear offender and think predator is reason enough to give this careful consideration.

Good people do bad things all the time and shouldn't have to live in purgatory for it which is exactly how it can be for them, soooo Idk! There must be a better way, right?! With that said, I think there are cases where people should have to identify with their crime... Even if only for a probationary period. It will be interesting to see how this thread unfolds.

Should this be a punishment for crimes of a particular criteria, or is it completely off the table? It's a pretty dangerous punishment. Not only for the person but law abiding citizens turned vigilante. So much to consider.

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posted April 27, 2015 01:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just looked up my state's legislative laws and how they differentiate between the Level 3 sex offenders. Statutory rape and habitual, aggravated offenders are both Level 3s however, only habitual and aggravated offenders are required to have licenses bearing "Sex Offender" across them. How can anyone argue they shouldn't have it now?

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posted April 27, 2015 01:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ReachingForTheStars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ yeah! I agree! I don't think of this as punishment x2. It's all part of the deal. I still see danger though, and to be fair, I'm not really thinking justice here... I'm thinking how does this help me protect myself and kids. This is a hard one!!!

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posted April 27, 2015 01:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It probably comes down to her idea of the justice system being one of rehabilitation rather than punishment. Normally I'd agree with her but that overlooks the possibility of repeat offenders which are rampant in this case.

In a way she's right about how many aren't on it (and there are also those who shouldn't be on it) the bulk of sexual exploitation and predation are going to come from within the family (or others who have a reason to be with them such as coaches, scout leaders, clergy, etc). Because of the social dynamics involved this is the least likely to be suspected AND the least likely to be prosecuted in any way when caught (especially if within the family). In such cases the sexual offender d-base isn't of much use...and yet it can still be useful (a bartender found a drunk talking about how ten year old girls--and ONLY ten year olds--were constantly seducing him was on the d-base). Nevertheless, it does give a false sense of security to many, as well as being absurdly easy to get on in ways that I hope were never intended.

Furthermore, if families were typically different then that would do far more to combat the abuse even by strangers. Most who target children from outside the home look for signs that they can exploit (the child who is abused, family with their own secrets, a child who feels lonely and unloved, etc).

I personally am against the d-base. My reasons are how easy it is to get on that should not be the case (and it's not unknown for cops to sexually predate on dancers and the like if they don't want to get put on the d-base as too many convictions of prostitution can put them on it, so in that case it serves sexual predators, though I expect it's rare that it gets abused in such a way, and such cops probably wouldn't be stopped by getting rid of the d-base), especially in how kids can be "perpetrators and victims" (so if two underage teens have sex then both can be listed as sex offender for the rest of their lives for consensual sex between each other, since legally kids that age can't give consent and thus any sexual conduct is automatically a sex crime). See, I want it as a tool to protect kids (and the rest of the community), but the MAJORITY want it to use as an electronic scarlet letter to hang on people for offending their morals (and thus feeling better about their own sexual sins), and sticking kids on it is NOT protecting them, but quite the opposite. (And that's just one way people who don't belong on it get put there.)

I'd also point out that if kids are considered capable of accepting adult consequences then there is no ethical reason to deprive them of rights. They should have the right to sign contracts, gain driver license, get any job, join the military, buy a gun, vote, have sex with adults, star in porn, and most of all not go to school (and certainly not ask for permission to go to the restroom). The idea of depriving them of rights is because--generally speaking--they lack the maturity to make responsible decisions and are easily taken advantage of. I personally am of the school of thought that for whatever reason the majority of kids do lack the maturity and thus favor depriving them of rights of the age of majority but that also means that sticking them on the d-base even for actual predatory behavior (let alone what was consensual and where they're listed as both "victim and offender") should also not be allowed. But it is, and that is the biggest reason (among others) that I want to see it abolished.

Nice idea, though. But society just isn't ready for something like that as generally speaking we're too spiteful, stupid, and more concerned with punishment and sexual behavior (including that regarding nudity of any kind) rather than protecting people from genuine predators. And frankly, if a person is proved to be an incurable predator (which should be made difficult to prove so that overzealous prosecutors hoping to punish to gain votes when they run for election can't stick it to people more interested in their own power rather than any notion of truth or justice, and I'd like to see prosecutors who did so charged with crimes as well, including murder or attempted murder where they used unethical means to get someone convicted of a capital crime just to pad their trophies for political gain or even fun), then they shouldn't be allowed outside an institution anyway.

Bottom line is I favor the elimination of the d-base as well as making it harder to convict, yet at the same time much harsher penal penalties and the like when they can be convicted (among other things).

(*One problem with treating kids as kids as they are now...when kids are driven to such desperation that they run away from home the laws are such that the kids become much more vulnerable to sexual predators than they otherwise would be, and even worse the system has found ways to exploit children much like a pimp does. Declaring them adults wouldn't help as they'd then be exploited legally, including by their parents sexually and otherwise, generally speaking. There are ways around that but the demonization of kids and the desire to punish and control rather than protect won't let it happen. And thus the underground railroads and such who help kids in spite of the law are necessary and I'm glad they exist despite that I favor the laws that deprive kids of adult rights that those underground helpers defy by aiding kids illegally and thus "contributing to the delinquency of minors." Unfortunately, there are far too few of them.)

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posted April 27, 2015 01:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I just looked up my state's legislative laws and how they differentiate between the Level 3 sex offenders. Statutory rape and habitual, aggravated offenders are both Level 3s however, only habitual and aggravated offenders are required to have licenses bearing "Sex Offender" across them. How can anyone argue they shouldn't have it now?

I don't think the "level 3s" should be free to roam in the first place and thus it becomes irrelevant.

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posted April 27, 2015 02:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I don't think the "level 3s" should be free to roam in the first place and thus it becomes irrelevant.

That's not really fair. Did you know that in the state of Tennessee anyone that is 18 and has had sex with anyone a day under 18 has committed a crime. That's crazy.... So an 18 year old guy that has a 17 year old girlfriend and has sex with her could be sent to jail and be labeled a sex offender? Do you really think that's right?

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posted April 27, 2015 02:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^ Assuming Tennessee's law is the same as Oklahoma's.

Also he may be put on there but I doubt it's for a lifetime. You'd have to check TN legislation on that.

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posted April 27, 2015 03:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
^^ Assuming Tennessee's law is the same as Oklahoma's.

Also he may be put on there but I doubt it's for a lifetime. You'd have to check TN legislation on that.



According to what I just read a sex offender can "request" to be taken off the registry after 10 years. Of course that doesn't necessarily mean they would accept it.
I also read that they determine a sex offenders level by how much of a threat they think the individual is to society, level 1s being deemed the lowest threat and 3s being the highest. I wonder who decides how much of a threat an individual sex offender is. It's no secret that the justice system doesn't have a good track record for being fair and consistent.

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posted April 27, 2015 05:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Did you know that in the state of Tennessee anyone that is 18 and has had sex with anyone a day under 18 has committed a crime. That's crazy.... So an 18 year old guy that has a 17 year old girlfriend and has sex with her could be sent to jail and be labeled a sex offender? Do you really think that's right?

That's a gray area, but I was focusing on the repeated pattern of violent assault. Somehow I missed the "statutory rape" and I would typically exclude that (I'm also uncomfortable with a first time conviction leading to that if there's even the slightest doubt as the innocent do get convicted because of human flaws involved). Not to say "it should be legal" but I wouldn't include them (on that alone) among level 3s, especially if the offender is a teenager. And especially in cases (which have happened) where they started out legal and then one turned 18 instantly making it illegal.

I do share your cynicism of the state to prosecute with ethics and even common sense so it's not so easy. I could point out the nonsense rampant in society outside the courts that aggravate the sitch as well. The actual practice rarely works out as anything close to the theory. Finding something that works with reality rather than unrealistic assumptions or goals that are rampant isn't easy to do, and the desire for easy, simple solutions (without any thought to unintended consequences) doesn't help. And plenty of criminals find ways to game the system so that it helps them more than hinders them (just as unethical lawyers do and other people who are abiding by the letter of the law if not the spirit for selfish or even evil gains). It's a dilemma.

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posted April 27, 2015 08:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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[B]It probably comes down to her idea of the justice system being one of rehabilitation rather than punishment. Normally I'd agree with her but that overlooks the possibility of repeat offenders which are rampant in this case.

Yeah, I disagree prisons are set up to rehabilitate. If anything they learn how to be better criminals and it becomes a source of security for them when you think about it. On top of it, think of all the prisoners who work inside, because the state is teaching them about “responsibility” when really it’s about the owner of the prison (speaking of private prisons here, btw) making money.

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In a way she's right about how many aren't on it (and there are also those who shouldn't be on it) the bulk of sexual exploitation and predation are going to come from within the family (or others who have a reason to be with them such as coaches, scout leaders, clergy, etc). Because of the social dynamics involved this is the least likely to be suspected AND the least likely to be prosecuted in any way when caught (especially if within the family). In such cases the sexual offender d-base isn't of much use...

Of course it’s not going to be useful looking for people who aren’t on it??? I still don’t understand how those who are not on affect the consequences for people who have gotten caught. When I speak of people who’s licenses are labeled “Sex Offender” we are talking about those who are habitual and aggravated in their assaults, not the disapproving parents who pressed charges against their daughter’s boyfriend or someone who peed on the side of the road (who by the way may be labeled a sex offender but they wouldn’t get it stamped on their license.)

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(and it's not unknown for cops to sexually predate on dancers and the like if they don't want to get put on the d-base as too many convictions of prostitution can put them on it, so in that case it serves sexual predators, though I expect it's rare that it gets abused in such a way, and such cops probably wouldn't be stopped by getting rid of the d-base)
Unfortunately I believe that, we had an officer here who was caught raping drunk women he pulled over. But alas, he's on the database now! Didn't stop my friend from wanting to date him because he's very attractive. *eye roll*

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especially in how kids can be "perpetrators and victims" (so if two underage teens have sex then both can be listed as sex offender for the rest of their lives for consensual sex between each other, since legally kids that age can't give consent and thus any sexual conduct is automatically a sex crime).
I've never heard of that happening, is there a famous story somewhere I can read?

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See, I want it as a tool to protect kids (and the rest of the community), but the MAJORITY want it to use as an electronic scarlet letter to hang on people for offending their morals (and thus feeling better about their own sexual sins), and sticking kids on it is NOT protecting them, but quite the opposite. (And that's just one way people who don't belong on it get put there.)

Lol, I am not advocating for this particular practice because any personal guilt I feel about my sexual practices. I looked up sex offenders in my area last night and out of the five I looked (there were more but I was looking in my area specifically) 4 were grown men. No kids, AND I wonder if they would even make the database if they're not at least 18 years old. What database are you looking at that even lists kids? They won't even release the names in a news article concerning minors...unless you're speaking of a teen boy that got charged with distributing child pornography after he sent pictures of his ex-girlfriend in a mass e-mail and she killed herself as a result of it. If so, you're saying you don't think he should be branded as a sex offender?

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posted April 27, 2015 09:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I've never heard of that happening, is there a famous story somewhere I can read?

http://www.denverpost.com/ci_4783650

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Utah Supreme Court justices acknowledged Tuesday that they were struggling to wrap their minds around the concept that a 13-year-old girl could be both an offender and a victim for the same act - in this case, having consensual sex with her 12-year-old boyfriend.

The Ogden, Utah, girl was put in this odd position because she was found guilty of violating a state law that prohibits sex with someone under age 14. She also was the victim in the case against her boyfriend, who was found guilty of the same violation by engaging in sexual activity with her.


In this case they don't talk about the registry but I do believe it's a matter of course. I just grabbed something from a quick search, a lot of these news stories are needles in a haystack and they also disappear after awhile, but as this one has gone to the state supreme court it's more noteworthy.

The real problem is how permanent it is.
http://www.cnn.com/2013/05/01/living/juvenile-sex-offenders-rights/index.html

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For the offense of inappropriately touching his 8-year-old sister when he was 12, Gravens, 26, has spent almost half his life as a registered sex offender

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unless you're speaking of a teen boy that got charged with distributing child pornography after he sent pictures of his ex-girlfriend in a mass e-mail and she killed herself as a result of it. If so, you're saying you don't think he should be branded as a sex offender?


No, he shouldn't. Liable for what he did, yes, permanently registered, no. What he did doesn't make him a permanent threat to the community (unless the community chooses to make him one) and was based more on immaturity than predation or exploitation which is what the registry is supposed to be for. Therefore it's counterproductive to put him on it doing more harm than good to him, to society, and helping hide the real predators (and by laying all the blame on him it also serves as a convenient scapegoat for the school who was likely exceedingly cruel to her and the bullying that was overlooked for convenience and the apathy of adults). And given that kids do stupid things without a thought to consequences all the time I don't even see it discouraging other kids from repeating it anymore than I see this discouraging girls from sending nude pix of themselves.

Now if his parents did that, sure, put them on the list.

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posted April 27, 2015 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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No, he shouldn't. Liable for what he did, yes, permanently registered, no. What he did doesn't make him a permanent threat to the community (unless the community chooses to make him one) and was based more on immaturity than predation or exploitation which is what the registry is supposed to be for. Therefore it's counterproductive to put him on it doing more harm than good to him, to society, and helping hide the real predators (and by laying all the blame on him it also serves as a convenient scapegoat for the school who was likely exceedingly cruel to her and the bullying that was overlooked for convenience and the apathy of adults). And given that kids do stupid things without a thought to consequences all the time I don't even see it discouraging other kids from repeating it anymore than I see this discouraging girls from sending nude pix of themselves.

Now if his parents did that, sure, put them on the list.


We heard that story in my human sexuality class also, and I didn't think he should have been either, but it was absolutely exploitation. How does it help hide the real predators? It's a separate case with it's own criteria, everyone keeps talking about the 'other' people who haven't been caught yet like they're intertwined but they're not, with the exception of being perverts. I don't know how I feel about him being considered a scapegoat. I hate having any more sympathy than necessary and if he hadn't been so vindictive then she wouldn't have gotten bullied (or as bullied, we don't know what school was like prior to). The apathy of adults - YES. The ones who supposedly have the resources and the power don't do anything and it makes me so angry.

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posted April 27, 2015 10:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All sorts of humiliating pix, photoshopped and genuine, get sent by cruel and vengeful kids. Girls send them to (against both boys and girls). It's not meant to titillate but to humiliate and it's bullying (or in this case revenge) rather than schemes to sell pix of kids to adults, he didn't force her to give him those nudie pix.

And they're kids. I've already explained why I don't think they can be held to the same standards as adults but I'll repeat if you like. I'll add that their behavior as kids don't necessarily reflect their behavior as adults. A great many adults look back on the stupid and sometimes mind boggling cruel things they did as kids and shudder as that's not who they were as adults or sometimes was the exception rather than the rule even as kids.

I hope her death forever haunts him so that he acts with more care in the future but I don't see the good it does by placing him on a list of dangers when he's not necessarily a danger, he could just be a stupid kid with poor impulse control who acted like one. (That doesn't mean he should get a free pass, however, but lashing out just to hurt him forever isn't going to make society safer.)

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