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Topic: Mars in 8th House Synastry-Sexual Addiction? 😩
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AquaMoon323 Newflake Posts: 22 From: Registered: Dec 2023
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posted January 05, 2024 01:46 PM
I’ve recently started to learn about the house overlays and discovered I have this with the Leo I’ve been trying to get rid of and OMG it started to make so much sense!!! His Mars (& Jupiter if that matters) is in my 8th house and we have a lot of hard Mars aspects as well (mars opposite mars, Mars Square Venus) and boy oh boy the passion the attraction its literally like I crave him like a drowning man craves air! He and i are so incompatible but this tie has kept us connected for quiet sometime and it’s so hard to let go! I’m currently trying to go no contact with him AGAIN for the millionth time and I’m just praying it sticks! Getting away from him I often feel like I’m going through withdrawal I truly feel an addictive pull towards him. I’m meeting a new guy soon (friend setting me up) that he has his sun, Mercury & Venus & Chiron in my 8th house 😮 and at this point I’m just hoping I can replace one addiction for the other lol I’m hoping this new guy can help get me away from the Leo long enough to break the addiction! IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 183414 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 07, 2024 03:09 PM
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6303 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 07, 2024 08:58 PM
Yes, it's addicting I have my Mars in this guys 8th house it's hard we also have Venus and Mars in the composite 8th house. I'm dating another guy but I still want this guy. In our natal charts, we both have Venus in the 8th house as well. IP: Logged |
AquaMoon323 Newflake Posts: 22 From: Registered: Dec 2023
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posted January 08, 2024 05:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: Yes, it's addicting I have my Mars in this guys 8th house it's hard we also have Venus and Mars in the composite 8th house. I'm dating another guy but I still want this guy. In our natal charts, we both have Venus in the 8th house as well.
Oh wow! See I’m the house person at least to my knowledge idk his birth chart. But as the Mars person do you feel the pull as much? This guy and I have a lot of history I actually wrote a post on him before I even learned about the house overlays and realizing that explained so much lol I’m doing no contact currently but apart of me hopes me misses me which idk why because we have no future. It’s just a weird feeling for me to not have him in my life. As toxic as we have become I still want him around! I know he keeps letting me come back though no matter what I do no matter what I say he never refuses me. And I didn’t understand it I thought that was just his way of using me for sex (which technically I guess we both are lol) but it’s not a conscious decision it’s more of like I just can’t help it kind of thing. But trust me I’ve tried everything! I’ve tried using other guys to make him mad etc and he just always will tell me yes anytime I ask smh. It’s hard trying to stick to leaving him alone when I know he’s always going to let be come back! I tried making him mad enough to cut me off and it just doesn’t work. I’ve even begged him to block me and he won’t smh NYE I found out he was talking to another girl and I just want to let him go so we can both find healthy relationships. Hopefully he rly does like this girl. As sad as I was to find that out I was happy for him because as many times as I’ve tried to cut him off I never want to leave him lonely. So im happy he has someone to try and fill my void. Even though he still doesn’t want me to go I’m removing myself so he can hopefully build something real with this girl. I’m rly hoping this new person that has his sun, Mercury, Venus & Chiron in my 8th can get me away from this for good! Lol I think only another 8th house connection can compete with an 8th house connection! Lol but im hoping I don’t end up on 2! 😩😂 IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 183414 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 04, 2024 08:23 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 183414 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 16, 2024 02:23 PM
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