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Topic: I don’t see astrologically how my parents got married when they did
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SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 17, 2023 02:41 PM
My parents are still together btw. Do you see astrological evidence for it? I want to know because I want to see if such transits are happening in composite charts of me and guys I’m dating. ————————————————————————————————This is their composite chart with transits for their marriage on New Year’s Eve 1988. ———————————————————————————————— Transits for Sep 24, 1988 when my dad proposed to my mom over the phone. ———————————————————————————————— Their synastry IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa Knowflake Posts: 1153 From: Romania Registered: Jun 2020
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posted April 18, 2023 03:08 AM
Jupiter was transiting (preparing to go over, but still in Gemini) your fathers 7th house ruler - Saturn. Transiting Saturn was moving into the 7th house of your mothers, when she already completed her Saturn return. For Cancer and Leo ASC people, marriage happens after 30 years old after Saturn return because Saturn rules the 7th. If it happens earlier, it will be disolved before 30, in almost all the cases that there are in the world. She married someone older than her, just like a Cancer ASC would do. **transits are effective with a house as soon as they enter the sign, in your mothers case was Capricorn, and it will have their peak when they reach the DC degree** Were you born a year or almost 2 years after they married? Saturn is in her 5th house, so a preparing period with Saturn transiting the 7th would be the birth of a child. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 18, 2023 10:59 AM
I have a Cancer AC and will be 31 on Saturday and am still single. When Saturn transited Capricorn a few years ago I didn’t meet anyone like my mom didIP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 18, 2023 11:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by mee_chryssa: Jupiter was transiting (preparing to go over, but still in Gemini) your fathers 7th house ruler - Saturn. Transiting Saturn was moving into the 7th house of your mothers, when she already completed her Saturn return. For Cancer and Leo ASC people, marriage happens after 30 years old after Saturn return because Saturn rules the 7th. If it happens earlier, it will be disolved before 30, in almost all the cases that there are in the world. She married someone older than her, just like a Cancer ASC would do. **transits are effective with a house as soon as they enter the sign, in your mothers case was Capricorn, and it will have their peak when they reach the DC degree** Were you born a year or almost 2 years after they married? Saturn is in her 5th house, so a preparing period with Saturn transiting the 7th would be the birth of a child.
I was born April 22, 1992 and as I said in another comment I an a Cancer AC like her and will be 31 on Saturday and unfortunately didn’t find a man when Saturn transited Capricorn a few years ago. And it’s not for lack of trying either! I want to find a man and marry soon. I don’t want kids, but I want to find a husband! IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa Knowflake Posts: 1153 From: Romania Registered: Jun 2020
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posted April 18, 2023 12:49 PM
Your mother completed her Saturn return when Saturn was in Capricorn. Her natal Saturn is in Scorpio, yours is in Aquarius.From now on will be the time to find him. If you want, you can post the synastry between you and the guy you are dating. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 18, 2023 02:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by mee_chryssa: Your mother completed her Saturn return when Saturn was in Capricorn. Her natal Saturn is in Scorpio, yours is in Aquarius.From now on will be the time to find him. If you want, you can post the synastry between you and the guy you are dating.
Unfortunately I’m not dating anyone. A lot of “maybes” out there, but no “for sures”.
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SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 18, 2023 02:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by mee_chryssa: Your mother completed her Saturn return when Saturn was in Capricorn. Her natal Saturn is in Scorpio, yours is in Aquarius.From now on will be the time to find him. If you want, you can post the synastry between you and the guy you are dating.
Also, Saturn is currently in pisces IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa Knowflake Posts: 1153 From: Romania Registered: Jun 2020
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posted April 18, 2023 02:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by SunAscendant: Also, Saturn is currently in pisces
yeah, your saturn return has passed. Now it's just a period of transition. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 19, 2023 02:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by mee_chryssa: yeah, your saturn return has passed. Now it's just a period of transition.
So how is now a good time? My Saturn return was February 2022 and in the year since then I haven’t met any long term men IP: Logged |
vansio Knowflake Posts: 2788 From: the outskirts of Delphi Registered: Dec 2017
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posted April 19, 2023 04:58 AM
hi sun, i pulled up your chart. i wanted to take a look for potential dates since i know this q has been on your mind for many years. (in germany we cant wish “happy birthday” before the actual date 👀🤫 )assuming your birthtime is correct, your potential “marriage time” is 2025-2026 (after 33 years old) though, from now until 10.2024 is also a very positive time for dating and romance its also a probable time for pregnancy... use protection if you are not ready for marriage. though if your 10:35 birthtime isnt accurate take these dates with a grain of salt one [vedic] remedy for accelerating the prsopect for marriage partner to come into our lives is fasting on the lord of our Upapada Lagna. For you, that is Saturdays: make a point/habit to never eat meat and do not drink alcohol on this day, indefinitely, and your husband should arrive, and even afterward, the remedy then protects the marriage. on a side note from a fate-based perspective, unless you are a saint (married to god), children are the fruit of marriage. you may need to reconcile with this personal block if you desire a husband. Without children or religion, there is little reason to keep two people monogamously together for life.
even in the case of romance ending, these two will still be [duty/purpose] together because of the shared responsibility to their creation or creator (child or god/religion) for the sake of your ultimate desire, recommend you take the time to reconsider what/who you’re looking for. assuming you’re not religious oriented, when you don’t want children, then expecting lifelong monogamy with anyone is kind of a stretch. Life is as plain at that. non-religious+childless couples eventually open their relationship, or plainly, go their separate ways. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 19, 2023 12:52 PM
Actually I know many people who don’t have kids and stay married and I have met many men who don’t want kids. Two people stay together because of love. Staying together for the kids isn’t something people do. That’s why they divorce. I’m also not religious and didn’t grow up religious either. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 19, 2023 12:53 PM
But I am glad to know that now until October 2024 is a good time to find someone and marriage is in the next 3-4 years. It’s about time. I’m getting old!IP: Logged |
vansio Knowflake Posts: 2788 From: the outskirts of Delphi Registered: Dec 2017
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posted April 19, 2023 01:18 PM
i’m glad to hear you know many happily married couples. “religion”, compared to children, was just another way of saying to serve a mutually-understood, higher purpose. i would not say “Love” is what keeps people together, instead it’s their faith [in the marriage’s purpose]. obviously people don’t stay romantically-together for their kids. i’m a child of divorced parents myself, i know well enough that there can be multiple loves / marriages in one life. though, i meant to speak more towards the fact that creating a family does bind two people together in one purpose for life, until death do them part, even beyond divorce. my mom and my dad made a family; thankfully theres no hard feelings between them (anymore..) that we get to celebrate everyone’s personal milestones together. such as my dad remarrying for the third time lol, us welcoming his new wife into our “family” (his kids: us + my mom. are in one big whatsapp group) we’re all going to go on “vacation” together later this year bc my brother not-so-secretly probably wants to pop the question to his girlfriend with us in audience. my mom’s second husband, my dad’s second wife. once these other marriages ended, and with no new kids, eventually we spoke less and less to those people, i even forget that wife’s name. not because there’s bad blood, not at all, just that there’s nothing left there to keep us all tied to together. when my parents separated from their respective second spouses, when it was over, it was over—gone, poof. whereas my mom and dad share a part of their life, they keep up with each other, through their kids. imo the type of love that is created/shared through children (family-making: “Storge” in greek) can be virtuous and eternal, outlasts the romantic kind. (but that is just my opinion) i dont have any kids of my own, or a partner, so it’s my imagination, though i’ve witnessed my parents relationship develop more and in different ways even beyond their divorce twenty years ago, and as a fact of life, this factor impresses me. i would love to make a child with the love of my life, if only to love a part of them forever. to be grateful unto them for giving me a life to love, no matter what happens. i wish you the best! enjoy this awesome [Venus antardasha] time for yourself on love matters ♥️ cheers to the upcoming years. you’re not getting old ~ life has only just begun. ps, do you mind unquoting?
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SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 19, 2023 02:42 PM
I hope one day you will find someone Vasio. You absolutely deserve it ! And yes I’m in my Moon Mahadasha and Venus Antardasha until about Oct 25, 2024 and my Venus is exalted in Vedic astrology and it’s in a raj yoga with my debilitated Mercury in Vedic. My Venus AD began in February this year and I did think things would pick up in dating but haven’t yet. My Sadi Sate ended in January so I am also surprised my dating life hasn’t gotten better but hopefully it will. I don’t know if you know about or believe in BSP techniques, but according to [url= http://www.scribd.com/document/150872041/All-BSP-Techniques-on-One-Chart]BSP techniques[/url] at age 32 Jupiter aspects 5th from itself. And as you know you’re considered a year old when you’re born, so technically I’m turning 32 in vedic astrology. My jupiter is in the 3rd house and 5th from itself is my 7th house where in vedic astrology I have Sagittarius on the 7th house, the house jupiter rules. I am hoping this BSP rule will immediately become active on my birthday on Saturday!IP: Logged |
vansio Knowflake Posts: 2788 From: the outskirts of Delphi Registered: Dec 2017
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posted April 19, 2023 03:01 PM
there’s a few things i checked to get this approx year which i’ll list down below and edit as i rememberfirst thing: to predict marriage, it needs to be the antardasha of the planet ruling the navamsa 7th House or any planet sitting in trines (3rd or 11th). if this doesnt line up with marriage in various dasha schemes, then the exact birth time is considered wrong. 6th House of navamsa is conflict in marriage, whereas 8H represents divorce of the person. in your case, for a first marriage, it could be Rahu (the co-ruler of Virgo), Mars in 3rd or Ketu in 11th (which already passed) for each subsequent marriage, we would look at a similar trine, but from the second-marriage house, 2nd in navamsa (6th/10th), etc. from this logic its also possible to see when someone leaves their partner for another person, such as in the case of 2L of Navamsa sitting in the Navamsa 6th House activated by Antardasha IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 19, 2023 03:04 PM
My navamsha 7th house is Virgo but Mercury AD ended as did Rahu and Ketu and Mars AD . I am in Venus AD and then Sun AD coming up and then Mars MD begins in 2025. I know my birth time is correct because I have my birth certificate. I mean they could be off by a minute but I’m unsure how to rectify my chart. I haven’t had many big moments in my life to use to rectify the chart. No siblings, my parents are alive, no big surgeries, no big movesIP: Logged |
vansio Knowflake Posts: 2788 From: the outskirts of Delphi Registered: Dec 2017
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posted April 19, 2023 03:14 PM
a second way that i considered that a marriage could be 2025 is because that’s when “Tithi Pravesh (TP) charts” come into play for predictive precision [the vedic version of solar return chart]for that solar-moon year, the vara (day) lord of this chart Venus sits in the 7th House Pisces and the hora (hour) lord Jupiter in the 9th Taurus. the ascendent of the TP chart is in kendra and a friendly planet to your natal lagna, so that year will be pleasant that same 2025 also coincides with either a Mars antardasha or Rahu antardasha 👍 so second validation theres a third thing, let me get to it… in a moment
theres a way to get marriages “ages”, based on research by visti larsen, that taking the longitude of both Lagna and 7L, adding them together gives a total. from that number, a first marriage can happen at any interval of five. (ill find the video later for reference to this research) Lagna: 18°22’ 7L: 10°59’ Total: 29°21 29 + 5 = around the age “34” for second marriage, use 2L longitude , third marriage 9L, and so forth obviously your birthtime isnt rectified, but if you got it off a a birth certifcate, it shouldn’t be off by more than 2 minutes, which is manageable, the navamsa langa Pisces was the time between 10:27-10:42, which 10:35 is right in the middle of mine, also from birth certificate, was rectified by an astrologer to be only 40 seconds earlier than what was recorded on paper. no sweat Since Venus AD is in 12th House and Sun rules 6H, it’s unlikely for the actual marriage IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 19, 2023 03:38 PM
Do you know when I’d meet him or if I already have? I thought my Moon MD-Mercury AD or Moon MD-Jupiter AD would’ve allowed me to meet a good man but no.IP: Logged |
vansio Knowflake Posts: 2788 From: the outskirts of Delphi Registered: Dec 2017
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posted April 19, 2023 03:41 PM
one thing Sun that i have to disclose, is if you’ve had any abortions, a conception even if aborted is considered a “marriage partner” by vedic standardsand in that case, we’d have to flip around the houses your overall navamsa doesnt change, so 7th/3/11 is always a good time for marriage in general, but to be more precise on which marriage, have to know which one youre on IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 19, 2023 03:45 PM
No abortions but I do believe in abortion. I haven’t had any because I always use protection. Never married before.IP: Logged |
vansio Knowflake Posts: 2788 From: the outskirts of Delphi Registered: Dec 2017
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posted April 19, 2023 03:46 PM
i’m also pro-choice! thanks for the additional info.the reason i had to ask is because i do see that it’s possible (from your D7 chart for children). Libra Lagna with Venus conjunct Rahu in 5H there. Venus is also your 5L in D1 Rahu rules abortions OR children out of wedlock had to make sure to know if youre still on your first “marriage”. (accidents happen) IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 19, 2023 03:51 PM
Yes I am always very cautious with sex and will never ever have sex without a condom. Birth control pills have made me gain weight in the past and I have heard that other birth control methods also cause weight gain so I’m wary. I only have sex with men I am dating and I also try to do it when I’m not in my highly fertile phase of my menstrual cycle. I am extremely cautiousIP: Logged |
vansio Knowflake Posts: 2788 From: the outskirts of Delphi Registered: Dec 2017
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posted April 19, 2023 04:03 PM
Rafal Gendarz told me that we can “meet” the marriage partner during antardashas related to the 7th from our AK. Since Mars sits in Taurus Navamsa, Venus AD seems to be the possible time. Navamsa 7th from AK is Scorpio, an antardasha related to Mars or Ketu. Mars sits in Venus’ sign i’m gonna also calculate something called “Vivah Saham” (midpoint of 1+7L) to check Jupiter’s transit I met my LT ex when transit Jupiter was conjunct that midpoint in my chart. and it was also the 7L Antardasha from my Navamsa AK lets see… brb doing maths your Vivah Saham midpoint is Leo 15°22. Jupiter goes into Aries soon. Perhaps around 15° Aries Jupiter will also Rx back and forth over that section of the sky so there’ll be multiple chances IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 19, 2023 04:50 PM
So this year it seems! I will be positive and optimistic IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 19, 2023 04:52 PM
And looking at a sidereal ephemeris says around July 2 tr jupiter is at 15 aries 22 so maybe thenIP: Logged |