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Topic: @livvywatermonkey
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AQUACap88 Knowflake Posts: 256 From: United Kingdom Registered: Jun 2020
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posted August 31, 2020 05:26 PM
HellO! I am so sorry (and I think SO many on this forum are sick of hearing/seeing me ask about this guy) but could you look at the progressed charts and tell me what you think of this?I wrote about him in my @stoika thread which I encountered his "betrayal" and the others have @Graham and #Dwhelps been helping me get *over* it. I'm sorry because I just can't stop believing its meant to be or special. I promise I will stop asking/talking about him after this, this is my last and final enquiry forever. (but please don't feel pressured. If it's too troublesome and pointless, I understand) My natal + progressed http://imgur.com/a/HbUJiTs His natal + progressed http://imgur.com/a/PSeSZrm Progressed composite: http://imgur.com/WP4zgLo -------- Extra Info behind my obsession: His Saturn return is coming next year, where Saturn would conjunct my Sun (Aquarius). Is this really a coincidence? His Saturn return next year 9 Feb. http://imgur.com/a/EJtMlQU Meanwhile my Jupiter return this year 29 Dec is filled with 7th house My Jupiter return: http://imgur.com/a/o7Vffeq ------------ I would appreciate so much if you could spare some time to grant me some insight. Thank you.
Is there no chance at all? IP: Logged |
Saggy7 Knowflake Posts: 299 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted August 31, 2020 05:40 PM
Hi AQUA, I hope all is well with you! I personally don't think you need to apologize for anything, I think some of us know exactly how you feel (me in particular).. Just look at my thread going on and on about the guy I am obsessing over..so I think we all understand how these things can be..I hope livvy will be able to give you some insight..best wishes xxIP: Logged |
livvywatermonkey Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Jan 2020
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posted August 31, 2020 06:30 PM
Don’t worry Aqua ^_^ I’ll take a look & reply soon xxIP: Logged |
AQUACap88 Knowflake Posts: 256 From: United Kingdom Registered: Jun 2020
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posted August 31, 2020 06:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Saggy7: Hi AQUA, I hope all is well with you! I personally don't think you need to apologize for anything, I think some of us know exactly how you feel (me in particular).. Just look at my thread going on and on about the guy I am obsessing over..so I think we all understand how these things can be..I hope livvy will be able to give you some insight..best wishes xx
Thank you Saggy7 I hope things have been well with you. I just feel so... *insane* like this is not right, so I don't know why I feel this way hence I am so terrified of getting judged or people thinking I'm *troublesome*
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AQUACap88 Knowflake Posts: 256 From: United Kingdom Registered: Jun 2020
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posted August 31, 2020 06:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by livvywatermonkey: Don’t worry Aqua ^_^ I’ll take a look & reply soon xx
Thank you so much! I really appreciate this!? I can do a reading for you in exchange >.< Maybe tarot? I feel so thankful yet also guilty. Really appreciate this. IP: Logged |
Saggy7 Knowflake Posts: 299 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted August 31, 2020 06:56 PM
Dear, I feel the same way. Like something is wrong with me, that is why this forum has helped me so much (Stoika the most), not sure sometimes if it is encouraging me in this, what sometimes feel like a fantasy world..but then I talk to others on here and see that I am not alone, and that it is okay to feel the way I feel. And it makes me feel better in that sense at least... My Scorpio Moon twin, we are oh so intense.. I know.. but I also know that we will be alright. It will all work itself out one way or another. We are here to support each other. Hugs!IP: Logged |
livvywatermonkey Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Jan 2020
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posted August 31, 2020 07:21 PM
Dear Aqua,Your Moon/Chiron square his Saturn ... I feel that you may feel betrayed but also feel compassion towards him & that you are not enduringly angry towards him because somehow you do not yourself feel entirely worthy of attention, acceptance, protection or commitment ... this dynamic feels familiar to you & thus has got you “immobilised” & yet it is also acting like a temporary shield against a deeper pain or sense of abandonment - does this make sense? No worries if it doesn’t resonate, feel free to let me know Looking at progressed synastry, there was an “active” trine (within 2 degree orb) between your progressed Venus & his natal Sun till around June this year. This could reflect how there was a certain ease to being around each other for a period of time, but either or both of you progressively stopped feeling at ease in your dynamic IP: Logged |
AQUACap88 Knowflake Posts: 256 From: United Kingdom Registered: Jun 2020
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posted August 31, 2020 07:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by livvywatermonkey: Dear Aqua,Your Moon/Chiron square his Saturn ... I feel that you may feel betrayed but also feel compassion towards him & that you are not enduringly angry towards him because somehow you do not yourself feel entirely worthy of attention, acceptance, protection or commitment ... this dynamic feels familiar to you & thus has got you “immobilised” & yet it is also acting like a temporary shield against a deeper pain or sense of abandonment - does this make sense? No worries if it doesn’t resonate, feel free to let me know Looking at progressed synastry, there was an “active” trine (within 2 degree orb) between your progressed Venus & his natal Sun till around June this year. This could reflect how there was a certain ease to being around each other for a period of time, but either or both of you progressively stopped feeling at ease in your dynamic
Oh my god you are so right! Yes and I feel so upset that even though I feel *this* betrayed, I can't help but still care about him!! And yes yes everything was awesome, never been better around june until July where we fell apart and all the *betrayal* came. "Stopped feeling at ease" And you are also right, that this is familiar to me, as a shield against abandonment. I noticed some time back that I might be with him due to my fear of commitment (knowing he wouldn't commit to me, yet using him as an excuse to not commit to others but still receive their affection). I am honestly SO freaked out! Can you tell me how does he feel about me? Will we ever be reunited? Reconciliation? Does he want to? IP: Logged |
livvywatermonkey Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Jan 2020
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posted September 01, 2020 05:05 PM
Hello dear,I feel that maybe both of you may have activated each other’s basic fears ... yours about betrayal/abandonment/deceit & his about rejection/accusation, or something like that (I’m not saying he didn’t betray you though!) Remember however he may have betrayed you, it’s not a reflection on you or even the good times you shared but only on where he was at in himself. I’m sure you would forgive him but even if he wanted to start something new, if things went badly again the question is would you forgive yourself. We don’t owe it to ANYONE to direct our anger from betrayal towards ourselves instead of the person who’s betrayed us ... there’s a way through to build good relationship again after betrayal, but forgiving someone else is so you can heal IP: Logged |
AQUACap88 Knowflake Posts: 256 From: United Kingdom Registered: Jun 2020
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posted September 02, 2020 08:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by livvywatermonkey: Hello dear,I feel that maybe both of you may have activated each other’s basic fears ... yours about betrayal/abandonment/deceit & his about rejection/accusation, or something like that (I’m not saying he didn’t betray you though!) Remember however he may have betrayed you, it’s not a reflection on you or even the good times you shared but only on where he was at in himself. I’m sure you would forgive him but even if he wanted to start something new, if things went badly again the question is would you forgive yourself. We don’t owe it to ANYONE to direct our anger from betrayal towards ourselves instead of the person who’s betrayed us ... there’s a way through to build good relationship again after betrayal, but forgiving someone else is so you can heal
I fully agree with what you said for healing, and also I might not agree to a reconciliation in fear of being unable to forgive myself. But what are your thoughts on the synastry? Was it one sided from my end the entire time? He said he sees 'no future'. Is that true? IP: Logged |
livvywatermonkey Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Jan 2020
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posted September 02, 2020 05:53 PM
Hey Aqua,What I’m thinking is your Jupiter/Uranus conjunct his Saturn in your 12th reflects that there could have been a heaviness in relating for him, he may have ended up acting out as a way of regaining control because your energy effortlessly overpowered his (not that you were necessarily trying to control him, indeed you may have felt he had the upper hand) & this could have made him feel weak instead of empowered ... you may have seen him as somewhat of an authority to start, or more mature than you in some way, & this may have been attractive to him, but the way your dynamic played out, he could have started to feel threatened & his own insecurities activated ... does this resonate? IP: Logged |
AQUACap88 Knowflake Posts: 256 From: United Kingdom Registered: Jun 2020
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posted September 02, 2020 08:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by livvywatermonkey: Hey Aqua,What I’m thinking is your Jupiter/Uranus conjunct his Saturn in your 12th reflects that there could have been a heaviness in relating for him, he may have ended up acting out as a way of regaining control because your energy effortlessly overpowered his (not that you were necessarily trying to control him, indeed you may have felt he had the upper hand) & this could have made him feel weak instead of empowered ... you may have seen him as somewhat of an authority to start, or more mature than you in some way, & this may have been attractive to him, but the way your dynamic played out, he could have started to feel threatened & his own insecurities activated ... does this resonate?
You are right again. I am starting to think you may be god or psychic. I sensed his *fear of rejection* rather early so I kind of took the initiative for everything and probably *overpowered* him and damaged his ego. I didn't realise he'd enjoy taking the lead more than following me. In fact I'd much rather follow. He is older as well and I really respect him. He probably liked how initiative I was at the start but over time started to feel emasculated. Are there anything else of significance noticeable to you? Does he really think and believe it's hopeless with me? IP: Logged |
livvywatermonkey Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Jan 2020
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posted September 03, 2020 07:15 PM
Hey Aqua, I read about Juno yesterday on your advice I can relate with you cos I have progressed Juno in Aries & you have it natally - there’s very interesting info about it at this link https://dreamastromeanings.com/juno-in-aries/ I’m guessing your progressed Juno is in Taurus so you may be acting in a way to try & make him feel secure & comfortable but not realise till afterwards you’re also seeking for him to pursue you & “take control” through taking the reins yourself. But his Cancer Moon/Chiron conjunction may tend to make him unreceptive/react negatively to what he may perceive as aggressive action I hope this helps make sense of things <3 IP: Logged |
AQUACap88 Knowflake Posts: 256 From: United Kingdom Registered: Jun 2020
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posted September 04, 2020 12:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by livvywatermonkey: Hey Aqua, I read about Juno yesterday on your advice I can relate with you cos I have progressed Juno in Aries & you have it natally - there’s very interesting info about it at this link https://dreamastromeanings.com/juno-in-aries/ I’m guessing your progressed Juno is in Taurus so you may be acting in a way to try & make him feel secure & comfortable but not realise till afterwards you’re also seeking for him to pursue you & “take control” through taking the reins yourself. But his Cancer Moon/Chiron conjunction may tend to make him unreceptive/react negatively to what he may perceive as aggressive action I hope this helps make sense of things <3
Omg progressive charts sounds so amazing. How has progressive Juno in Aries altered your behaviour? I met this other guy in Feb and wasn't interested and he knows about my main guy (V) etc I noticed that he has been popping out whenever I think of V intensely. Almost like the universe using him to tell me "stop" I found that my Juno conjunct his Jupiter EXACT. (I'm thinking this should be a red flag because of the relationship between Juno and Jupiter. Like I am starting to think Juno is NOT a good thing.) His north node in Pisces, where my south node is. Back to V, I also think he may feel I am aggressive. I have a question. When his saturn return occurs, putting his Venus, Saturn and others in first house, will it make him miss me/want to fix his mistakes and want to reconcile? His return is next year Feb. My Jupiter return 29 Dec this year is rather 7th house focused. Hmm and Chiron also conjuncts my Moon natally =/ (rather tight orb)
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livvywatermonkey Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Jan 2020
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posted September 04, 2020 09:15 PM
Hey Aqua,I think progressed Juno in Aries could reflect me becoming a lot more active/taking a lot more initiative in “rebalancing the scales” of power between me & potential romantic interests ... taking less BS maybe Personally I don’t think we can know what the future will bring, I think of astrology as making sense of the past & present but not necessarily being able to predict the future, only in the sense of processing past & present experience & thereby freeing ourselves up on the inside to make the most of future experience I know this doesn’t answer your question, but I’m not sure if I can really answer it coming from this perspective? xx IP: Logged |