posted September 16, 2003 11:05 AM              

Just before our love got lost you said,
I am as constant as a northern star.
And I said, Constantly in the darkness
Where's that at?
If you want me I'll be in the bar.
On the back of a cartoon coaster
In the blue TV screen light
I drew a map of Canada
Oh Canada
With your face sketched on it twice
Oh, you're in my blood like holy wine
You taste so bitter and so sweet
Oh I could drink a case of you, darling
And I would still be on my feet
Oh I would still be on my feet

Oh I am a lonely painter
I live in a box of paints
I'm frightened by the devil
And I'm drawn to those ones that ain't afraid
I remember that time you told me, you said,
Love is touching souls
Surely you touched mine
'Cause part of you pours out of me
In these lines from time to time
Oh, you're in my blood like holy wine
You taste so bitter and so sweet
Oh I could drink a case of you, darling
Still, I'd be on my feet
I would still be on my feet

posted September 16, 2003 01:31 PM              

Anyway, the usual way a Pisces, Scorp or Taurus woman tries to seduce a man is with soft lights, candles, spa treatments, innuendos, flirting, scented bath water, gourmet treats, whipped cream, peacock feathers the whole deal. Until the poor thing falls asleep or goes looking for cheetos. What I have learned is men have no clue what lavender oil means, or what a woman wants when she calls and says honey, can you come over and help me screw in a lightbulb? Better, to grab him by neck and drag him home with you in the long run because these signs rarely convey their need that well.

I was once at a Scorps house and her lover had fallen asleep while she made dinner, and she had no idea how to wake him up. We just stared at him laying there and had dinner, She looked like she wanted to eat him for dinner but of course being polite she left him there. Never say Scorps aren't polite. I am not so nice.

A Taurus fantasy is for the lover to say I need you now, not I need to go out and buy whipped cream and ice cream, do you want to come along? Simply because most signs act very coy we learn to seduce but it's not natural.

I had a Virgo lover and he was so hard at concetrating. I know us Taureans can be dramatic but we are concetrating on the moment. My Virgo would leave the bedroom to do other things like find pretzels for a snack later, or answer the phone. Or he would try and talk on the phone during sex "Not now, I 'm having sex" Oh that's romantic. Nervous too, he would knock his head on things "Ow". It's not romantic to hear "Ow" during sex, or "What the Hell?" That made me explode and throw things at him. Focus is sexy. Like pretzels and he would always act surprised. He could talk a mile a minute and keep up a conversation during sex. Then he would leave and go out for something and I would say, Are you even coming back? I thought seriously about slipping him something to relax him but I soon found out he wasn't a day tripper, he did take me all the way there so I was happy.

Hard to believe he was aware of my existence at times. Bedroom stuff I told him belongs in the bedroom, everything else goes out! As long as a Virgo knows you love him you can argue all you want, but if you act like anything he is doing is inappropriate or if he doesn't belong to you or vice versa then that really gets his attention. Virgos are not cold by any means, a little distracted is okay I have found. My libra has venus in virgo so I have learned to be very patient.

You can't expect a young Taurus to be patient, it takes a lot of time and practice. It doesn't help that other signs are so nervous. I had one lover a Gemini that knocked himself out on the lamp over the bed-Nervous Nelly. You have to admit, funny or nervous is difficult to handle and the Bull doesn't know what to do!

I had another lover (Cancer) swear he kept hearing a knock at the door, so finally I just knocked on the wall myself to scare him. I couldn't help it he was soooo nervous. I have found that the less demanding I am the better because I will pick up on nervousness. I am practically stone cold at the start, I imagine ice cubes or something cold to keep from getting starting too quickly.

I agree with Sam Kinison, but it works both ways. Men need to tell women what they want too. We don't want a robot kisser. It's clear that some men do not want to be there, only that they WANT something. We can't always figure it out and nobody wants to feel not needed.

So Men Tell US What you Really Want, or better yet What you really NEED! Women think men just want to be there and it's like watching a move that can't be changed. You are involved, we are involved do something besides the ordinary if that's what it takes to be in the mood, get what you need. Be emotionally vulnerable a Taurus will never hurt you.

posted September 16, 2003 04:21 PM              

I like the passion that you have.

Keep up the good work.

This is odd women care about what we want, great. We will tell you

Here are some

optimism and sexiness

Taking the time to look sexy do your hair, etc.

Good meals, we can help make them or make them, depends on the guy.

Conversations about anything interesting-

Current events, future plans, cars you like or want, etc.

Good Memories

For you to like what we enjoy or atleast try.

talking dirty to us when you feel the urge,etc.

those are some

posted September 16, 2003 06:19 PM              

Men are idiots bred to be Sex Experts since age 12... although most by age 40 STILL don't know how (or don't care) to bring a woman to orgasm... (that is... a REAL one, lol...)

And women have been repressed for millenias... told to NOT LIKE SEX, not want it, to be ashamed of desiring it... ending up in relationships leaving them sexually unfulfilled...

posted September 16, 2003 07:48 PM              

I think a Taurus will pretty much indulge in whatever you want. Talk as in CNN updates, yes, roleplay yes, but not really esoteric stuff. I knew an Aqua (who was very wild) who would talk to me about a swing on the train we were on going home, he never asked, just kind of talked to the air around me so I thought he meant a sort of swing in my yard? I never did answer him as it took me a while to figure out. Next time he talked I just gave him a peck on the lips and he was quiet then. That's a little out there in terms of confusing in the time and place. I think Aquas are great talkers but it's good to be clear about where it's going. Taureans need to be invited.

posted September 16, 2003 08:08 PM              

Emotionally and Mentally there.

Pixelpixie ,
I like how you think when you said ....."Okay, I am dirty, but I can't believe BL**JOBS weren't mentioned on the list of what men want."............ Heehee

Men need this to survive.

My scorpio crush, would ask me if I took classes or read books on it because I was so good. He would start to shake as he would reach the point of extacy...... I loved swallowing his babies......

posted September 17, 2003 05:14 AM              

dirgedoll is lovin it she is worse than me lol mkay maybe not, I guess we'll wait and see

is that what you think guys rally want, bl0wjobs??? please, we are more sensitive than that. what do I look for in a woman? well, let's see, physically, I prefer them to be about three feet tall, no teeth, pistol grip ears, a flat head (to rest my beer on)...oh yes, and mute. But blOwjobs, good lord...what would make you think that?

and whatever it takes, girls...including letting you believe that we are your slaves...always works...reverse psychology...we been working that one forever...and either way, it helps us give the illusion that we care

On, er I mean, in your faces!

Now don't make me compose some mad booty lyrics right here right now lol

or just wait til dirge resurrects some of her gothilicious poems

you total sickos, see what you've made me go and say!

L&R,
Carlo

posted September 17, 2003 01:16 PM              

Talking isn't always great, in fact their are times when it's good to be discreet, as in afterwards around your friends.

Taureans tend to pull back a little emotionally which is confusing, but only when they are mad. My Taurus would pull back when I gave him grief and start with the "I'm a man" conversation. "Why don't you ever do what I want you to do".. It was hard to get mad at him because he was pulling back emotionally. It's a good thing to do when arguing but it's better not to argue when it comes to making love, better just go with it, you're there. For the Taurus, it's easier if you ask with a kiss because then our emotions are stirred and we can't see straight. Then argument is over. A Taurus will never turn away a kiss in any situation.

posted September 17, 2003 01:35 PM              

My personal opinion...
You should really NEVER tell people not to communicate...
(discretion can be taken the wrong way or misunderstood)
communication is what makes for understanding...
understanding makes people comfortable...
comfortableness makes for expressiveness...
expression is what gets you off...

posted September 17, 2003 01:40 PM              

(oh that's just a warm up lol)