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Topic: Rating a Taurus in bed
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sthenri
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posted September 20, 2003 06:51 PM
 
HI, I couldn't see the link when I clicked but I see that your current Virgo has no fire placements at all, and possibly only one air, he does not sound like a libra moon. That's very difficult for your Sag rising. I have the Sag rising too. I am not crazy about that Saturn in Pisces for compatibility with your ascendant, they are squaring eachother and the Ascendant is where the physical starts. The sextile, trine or conjunction are all good there but there is a difficult aspect with the square.Your Saturn is in Aries and so there is compatibility from you to him with his Ascendant in Leo. Uranus in Virgo, we are attracted to earth signs and those with earth placements, even an earth ascendant or venus in an earth sign. Lioneye, the truth is we are not always sexually attracted to our ideal mate. And our ideal mate is not always sexually attractive. The hardest thing to do is to accept someone for who they are and love that person anyway. It's easier with children, or arranged marriages, we have no choice, but when we have to factor in love, what a choice.
I have known men who were not very good looking but who were insecure and tender hearted, (and undersexed), that really rang my bell. Of course I had to deal with a lot of flak from my friends about his job and looks and it killed the relationship. That was when I was very young, 19. Now I would say butt out, it' s none of your business. If you have a good time with a man, talk on the phone, feel comfortable that he is tender and caring, it doesn't really matter what he does for a living as long as it's honest, and he's independent. As long as his values are in place he will never hurt you. It's not up to you to make sure that you make all the right choices because God made us this way for a reason, and decided for the most part, who was placed in our lives. We had very little to do with it. As long as a man makes you happy and gives you space to breathe without a lot of emotional turmoil, then that's all you need. That's all you want is what you need right? If you make a choice and it feels right to you it's right because it's good for you. It's your life, and what's good for you is not what's good for others and vice versa. One girl may want a man who is six foot and has a sports car and not care about anything else, another girl may want a man to have curly hair, everyone has their thing. We are all different but equal. Once we know what we want, we can accept that about ourselves, and then forgive ourselves for going towards it. Allow yourself to wish. I won't even bore you with all the things I did to make my Saturn in the 8th happy. I got a lot of space to the point where I was only seeing him once every six months. After I finally let go of the guilt of not working out the relationship I was able to start "thinking" about myself and point myself in a new direction, towards a new start. I had to accept that I wanted a new way to love someone if the ways I had tried never worked and I was willing to try and not give up if someone else was willing to try with me. I accepted that he would never change or even attempt therapy or talk to anyone about his problems, and he won't ever. He is kind of cold to the idea. Natasha IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted September 20, 2003 08:02 PM
I put up the data for the other Virgo, back in the same post as Virgo 1, and my data.
$100.00 to the person who can tell me beyond all doubt which one I'll be spending the rest of my life with. (if either)
ok, not really. But you'll get my eternal gratitude, and that's worth much more anyway... IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted September 20, 2003 08:18 PM
There's no easy answer, but..I would be on V2 (ex virgo) because the Saturn is still in Pisces, but it's in the 9th house is that correct? Which is closer to your ascendant than the 2nd house-V1. Plus he has more fire and water.Keep you heart and mind open at all times. This makes you stronger, not weaker. Natasha IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted September 21, 2003 02:30 AM
Ok, I will. As you can tell, I'm at my wits end with this. Look at me trying to get you or anyone who's interested to pick which one I should be with. I'm ashamed...no, I'm not...Yes I am. I'm only half crazy.
Virgo 1 has so many great qualities. He's so funny and goofy and easygoing, REALLY. I enjoy him so much. I just wish he had more of a sexual appetite, because he really does it for me. But, we just have different passion barometers. He's more self controlled and believes in moderation, and I'm more impulsive because my passion overtakes me. And he's so damn sexy. *Sigh*
What a conundrum. Oh, and for the record, he has NO reason to be insecure about himself sexually. None whatsoever, neithor equipment nor performance wise. So, it's never disappointing when we do get down to it, which makes me want him even more. BRAGHHHH!!!! I hate it, but I love it.Ok. I'm sorry for taking this thread over and making it the Lioneye68 love and sex saga thread. We now return to your regular programming.... About those Taurus's in bed. I had a Taurus boyfriend. He had a very healthy appetite and he was always patient and happy to please me before he got any pleasure himself. He was a wonderful lover. But he was such a jacka$$ out of bed. He would tell me to "shut up" in front of people and stuff like that, when all I'd be doing is joining in on the conversation with my two cents. He was a chauvanist to the bone. But a good lover, though. IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted September 21, 2003 11:25 AM
Yes Lioneye, I think everyone has to do what's right for themselves,I have been happy with men who are were great in bed and lousy friends and I know that when that person really shares his feelings, in or out of bed it does a lot for me. It's the sharing I think. Love or sex is like a bag of cheetos, if you got a bag, why not share it with me? I will share too. If a person doesn't share and just wants to give they are not in touch so it's not healthy for me. To me a healthy relationship is about sharing, equal exchange love. I kiss you, you kiss me. You kiss me, then I kiss you right back. No one sided love affairs. Natasha IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted September 21, 2003 11:30 AM
There was a song by Elvis, I am pretty sure he wrote this song, and I checked because you can never be sure. He was a Sag rising too..
Title : One-sided Love Affair
If you want to be loved,
Baby, you've got to love me, too.
If you want to be loved,
Baby, you've got to love me, too.
Oh yeah, 'cause I ain't for no one-sided love affair.
If you wanna be kissed,
Well, you've gotta kiss me, too.
Oh yeah, if you wanna be kissed,
Well, you gotta kiss me, too.
'Cause I ain't for no one-sided love affair.
Well, fair exchange bears no robbery,
And the whole world will know that it's true.
Understanding solves all problems, baby,
That's why I'm telling you
If you wanna be hugged,
Well, you gotta hug me, too.
Oh yeah, if you wanna be hugged,
Well, you've gotta hug me, too.
Yeah, 'cause I ain't for no one-sided love affair.
If you know you can't take it,
Baby, why try to give it?
If you know you can't take it,
Then baby, why try to give it?
'Cause I ain't for no one-sided love affair.
Well, fair exchange bears no robbery,
And the whole world will know that it's true.
Understanding solves all problems, baby,
That's why I'm telling you
If you wanna be hugged,
Well, you gotta hug me, too.
Oh yeah, if you wanna be hugged,
Baby, you gotta hug me, too.
'Cause I ain't for no one-sided love affair.
Cause I ain't for no one-sided love affair.
'Cause I ain't for no one-sided love affair.
I think that's very Sag rising
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lioneye68
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posted September 22, 2003 12:42 PM
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lioneye68
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posted September 28, 2003 02:31 PM
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DepTaurus
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posted February 02, 2009 06:07 AM
i think taurus is the same as scorpio when it comes to sex. i mean there both gentle and intense and loving.IP: Logged |
FistOfLegend
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posted February 02, 2009 10:27 PM
They seem very touchy-feely. Sensual is the word.IP: Logged |
SecretGardenAgain
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posted February 03, 2009 02:19 AM
I felt that the Taurus guy I was with was too slow and boring. But then again I have three planets in Gemini (including sun) and in the 9th house. I also have 3 planets in Scorp, Libra rising and Venus in Aries. So not much earthiness in my chart...at all. Except for my moon/Pluto in second house. The best lover Ive had probably would have to be the Aries. I nicknamed him the fast and the furious. So fitting of a nickname! But why take four hours to do something, when you can do it twenty seven times in that much amount of time?  Sorry this is a very Geminian concept. Why have one of anything right? Leo, Capricorn and Virgo = crummy in my experience. Cancer was pretty good, but then intolerable before and after, so that didn't last long. IP: Logged |
racole12
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posted February 03, 2009 03:51 AM
I'm a Sag Sun/Mars, Taurus Moon, Scorpio Venus (Mutually receptive in Libra) and the best overall experience I have had with a lover in my 30 yrs of life was with a... Libra Sun/Venus/Mars with Scorpio Moon hmmm....  IP: Logged |
amowls
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From: Falls Church, VA, USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 04, 2009 07:05 PM
I've never experienced a Taurus Sun in bed.My boyfriend, however, does have a Taurus Mars and the sex is AMAZING. But I attribute that more to our Sun square Mars double whammy. My last lovah had a few personal planets in the 2nd and he was very sensual and "touchy feely". IP: Logged | |
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