posted January 11, 2004 02:18 PM              

You're the best... thanks...

Now... when you said this was fun, were you being "sarcastic"... (my Merc Scop LOVES the biting Aries quality though)...

Well, if you are comfortable feeling needed in your time of need, do you have any info on Mars in Scorpio at .51 degrees. Basically for ANY sign at such a shallow degree. I'm REALLY wanting to get this whole orb thing down.

I read somewhere on this forum that it would mean my "Libra in Mars" lesson was never fully learned, and my Scorp isn't seasoned, so it's neither here nor there... (??)

This orb thing turns me into a relavist in ways I don't like. My Scorp Mars in good aspect with someone else makes me float around for a while. And then if it's a BAD aspect, I'll justify it in my mind by saying, "Yeah, but I'm only .51 Degrees in Scorp..."

Know what I mean?

Do you have someone to wait on you hand and foot right now dear? Sounds like it's your turn...

Hope you feel better. Use some accupressure techniques on yourself... you know people in the orient regularly use it in place of drugs during dental work, child birth, HELL even while getting their skull sawed open for in brain surgery! True story...

.gloria

posted January 11, 2004 02:33 PM              

Mars in Scorp at POINT FIVE ONE degrees...

(PS: I copy and paste your bounty of information into my permanent files)....

posted January 11, 2004 02:38 PM              

Someone here had referred me to info on the "29 Degrees" effect. I have info on that saved.

And you cannot get away with bringing up my Mars in Scorp AND sex without me chiming in...

I'm so multi-orgasmic that I can literally have unlimited. Ummmm... how do I know is your next question...

You may have seen me post regarding my practicing and VERY REFINED and ATTUNED philosophy on celibacy. Have you? I'd love to share it with you.

.gloria

posted January 11, 2004 03:15 PM              

As for the sex thing... the less you think about having O's, the more and better you'll have. I cannot take a guy who starts like counting. My *vanity* kicks in and he literally gets booted out of my bed and my life. Sounds a bit cruel, but remember these were all during times of agreed upon "play" not serious committments.

Of course a lot may do with the limits of your partner, so that's why I sort of left that up in the air... and no I'm not talking anything mechanical, but only a few "play times" experiences I've had.

OK... I didn't want to repeat the celibacy thing if you already saw it. I chose to stay a virgin until I was 18. Didn't even see a real live penis or get to 3rd base until age 18. Ironically (just to show how damn complicated I am), I had a couple years subsciptions to Playgirl (do they still publish those?) ... the naked GUYS ... when 16 years old.

When I was about 19 I came across this little book, like the nice ones that are about 4" X 4". It was called "Sex" and written by some yogi dude. The premises really struck a chord with me and I've stuck with them all my life:

- Sex is an exquisite artform.

- Sex is creative energy. If you abstain from sex you can re-route that creative energy to other projects and enhance them that much more. (Ex: Painting a painting, writing a book, intense business applications which require longevity and stamina).

- You cannot separate what you learn and apply to your sexual experiences from every other aspect of your life, and vice-versa.

- If you have one GREAT sexual experience, it can keep you satisfied for a whole year. (This puts the emphasize on having quality experiences - not necessarily within a committed relationship, but easier said than done just the same).

- The more you think about having an orgasm, the less you will experience it and the less intense they will be. Fully emmerse yourself, heart, body and soul with the experience and become one with it.

- The more fully orgasmic you become, the more productive your time of consciously practicing celibacy will be.

- When you are sexual emmerse yourself fully. When you are celibate emmerse yourself fully.

That's it in a nutshell.

So needless to say, I've practiced celibacy SEVERAL times in my life in a very conscious way. If you were to only know the "sexual bed partner" side of me, you would never suspect that. But that's what makes the whole thing incredible and work for me. I'm literally orgasmic from head to toe, so celibacy for me takes on even more of a TREMENDOUS degree of discipline, intention and enlightenment.

I LOVE the philosophy I learned from that little old book.

I've practiced several times for months at a time, several times for YEARS at a time- the last one being 6 FULL YEARS with not so much as a kiss! And most recently, haven't had anything for 6 1/2 months, but I'm ready for marriage, so this will be different.

When I say celibate, I mean I'm NOT celibate towards myself.

*sigh* such is the road of the mystic...

Please let me know if there's anything I can do for you for all your help.

.gloria

posted January 11, 2004 07:15 PM              

Hey, did you know it's WELL known that every Aries' woman's secret fantasy is exactly that? I'm not kidding...

Oh... that's another reason why I've been so comfounded by marriage and stuff. I'm not a WHEEE! anything goes type person, but I do enjoy... and I also enjoy sharing someone I really like...

Decisions decisions...

posted January 11, 2004 07:52 PM              

That's what I'm saying. In theory I make the perfect wife. In reality, he runs off with the repressed accountant.

And I'm NOT saying I'm like into a swinger's life or anything like that...NO NO!

It's just like, you don't have chocolate cake every day.

posted January 12, 2004 11:04 AM            

Hey, when you get a sec will you peek back at the composite aspects I posted, probably on page one, and give me a general impression? I'd be very grateful...

Be well soon.

posted January 12, 2004 12:13 PM            

Interestingly, both of our natal suns are in the 9th. And we have lots of 7th house ties in synastry, including one that seems to be like crazyglue: his Saturn is in his natal 7th, pretty tightly conjunct my sun, but my sun falls into his 8th. My Venus falls into his 7th, but I don't think it's conjunct his Saturn. Pretty sure ruler of his 7th conjuncts my natal Mars.

posted January 12, 2004 09:31 PM            

Sun trine Sun (both in natal 9th)
His Sun (falls in my 10th) trine my Venus
His Sun sextile my Uranus (12th)
His Sun sextile my Asc., trine my 7th cusp
My Sun (in his 8th) conjunct His Saturn (7th)
My Sun conjunct his North Node
My Sun trine his Jupiter (12th)
My Sun trine his moon (very wide)

His moon (3rd) trine my Venus (8th)
His moon square my Mars (7th)
His moon trine my Uranus (12th)
My moon trine his Jupiter (12th) (out of element)
My moon oppose his Mercury
My moon/Jupiter conjunction trine his Jupiter (out of element but tight)
My moon falls in his 4th, His moon falls in my 4th

Mercury square Mercury (his 10th, my 8th...oddly, we are never bored with talking with each other)
His Mercury trine my Chiron (7th)
His Mercury trine my Mars (7th)
His Mercury oppose my Moon/Jupiter (5th)
His Mercury sextile my Pluto (1st)
My Merc. conjunct his Chiron (7th)

His Venus (9th) trine my Venus (8th)
His Venus square my Mars (7th)
His Venus sextile My Uranus (12th)
My Venus conjunct his north node (7th)
My Venus conjucnt his Chiron (7th)

His Mars trine my 7th cusp
His Mars sextile my Asc.
His Mars oppose my North Node (2nd)
My Mars oppose his Pluto (very wide) 12th

My Jupiter square his Chiron
His Jupiter conjunct my Asc.
His Jupiter conjunct my Uranus
His Jupiter conjunct my Pluto
Jupiter trine Jupiter
His Jupiter trine my Chiron

His Saturn (7th) square my Saturn (5th) (ouch)
My Saturn square his North Node
My Saturn trine his Pluto
My Saturn trine his Uranus
My Saturn trine his Asc.

Those are the majors...don't want to make this post too long and tedious! Is there anything else you need?

Again, thanks for taking a peek...