posted September 04, 2008 10:53 PM            

I have long, dark hair and i'm tall. I'm not skinny, but i'm not fat. I'm... thin? I'm fine.

So when i read that Venus in Scorpio men only care for short haired blonde girls that are little, it makes my heart sink.

posted September 05, 2008 12:24 AM            

for the most part this is true for me. definetley the straight hair. medium to long. always dark. never blonde never redhead. Dark hair dark eyes. never blue never green. never grey whatever. dark on dark and a nice skin tone is perfect. a little tan isnt bad. and I also dont need big breasts the small supple are fine. I mean in general a man could sexually be attracted to a huge butt and big breasts.. but I see myself loving a slim slender proportionate girl. I dont know about the denim. but nice classy dress sense is good.

posted September 05, 2008 01:14 AM            

I'm sooo quiet and shy, but my Venus in Gemini makes me a bit sly. I never use foul language or act obnoxious. I'm pretty introverted but I carry a unspoken confidence because of my Capricorn moon.

I have very little sexual experience so I'm wondering if he likes this about me. I let him take the lead...I do what he wants basically and it turns me on like crazy!!!

I was always wondering what attracted him to me because he's a airy Libra sun and he sometimes wonders why I don't talk more often. I know this gets on his nerves! But is his Venus more important than his sun?

posted September 05, 2008 02:50 AM            

1) "These guys like blondes too, but they usually go for short hair."

I don't believe I prefer any certain hair color or style. But my history would suggest long, dark hair.

2) "short skirts", "leather boots"

I find those things trashy. I don't like to picture the woman I'm interested in to be selling out her bodily image.

3) "lots of dark eye makeup, he especially likes "cateyes".

Lots of makeup is, again, trashy. But of course "cat eyes" are sexy, so try to pull off that look without all of the makeup.

4) "Smoke a lot"

Cigarettes are disgusting.

5) "impressed if you're still walking straight after a bottle of Jack Daniels"

This is mixed. It is somewhat suspicious as to the trials a girl went through to acquire such talent. But it does lend a certain security to know she doesn't become a helpless victim.

6) "Stare at him for an hour without saying anything then leave"

posted September 05, 2008 03:16 AM            

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

posted September 05, 2008 05:28 AM            

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Venus in Sadge: Buff women, ahh yes, you like to go to the gym and check out the ladies, admit it! Your woman is tanned, hair doesn't matter. But she's usually brunette and she can arm wrestle, She's taller than you too. Muscle is nice in your opinion, but flexability is too. Your woman must work out atleast a little. You think that make-up is yucky and you don't like to kiss girls with lipstick. You like girls who speak several languages, an accent is sexy to you.
Big breasts implants or natural are accepted.

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Mr Venus in Sag would prefer me to be taller with a bigger rack.

But that is just bad luck, now, isn't it? I wouldn't waste good money on implants. I would rather spend it on an exotic holiday.

posted September 05, 2008 06:28 AM              

Anyway, here's a couple of guys I looked up to see if their choices matched their Venusus:

Venus in Taurus in the 11th house: Honest to goodness – he has a tendency to have affairs with friends, and keep girlfriends as friends. He also likes demure, but 'cool' women. Short hair, slim definitely, clean lines, serious.

Venus in Gemini in the 12th house (square Pluto): This guy goes for both shapely (even large) women and slim women, but most of all he goes for beautiful eyes (of any colour) and he likes different kinds of glamour whether ethereal or bright spark. He doesn't discriminate based on hair colour or length. Although I believe he has a soft spot for redheads.

Venus in Virgo: This guys likes long hair: long, straight, undyed, basically unmessed with. He goes for different body types, but emphatically likes very feminine women. Although that includes intelligence.

posted September 05, 2008 06:34 AM            

My guy has Venus in Aries, conjunct Mercury, trine Neptune, opposite Pluto...

The Aries description is the complete opposite of what he's attracted to. His type is the Venus in Taurus description, however, he has the Moon in Taurus. Which makes me think that the Moon sign plays a larger role than anticipated. His type is also assertive, opinionated, competitive women who are seemingly fearless. I guess that's where the Venus influence comes in (His Moon is also opposite Mars).

However when it comes to physical attributes, It's more represented by the Moon. Personality attributes are indicated by Venus (for him anyway).

posted September 05, 2008 07:02 AM              

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I think we should also look at the guys' Mars because it also gives clues as to their preferences in women. Bluntly speaking, their Mars sign points to what is "bed-able" (if there is such a word) while their Venus points to what is "love-able.

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Don't Venus and Mars both point to "bed-able" in a male chart? I'm serious though.

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for a woman's venus is paired off with a man's mars, she will fall in love, he will bed. The other way around for women with mars conj men's venus.

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Why do you think this?

posted September 05, 2008 07:05 AM            

As for men, well I may get lynched here but they are sexual creatures.

posted September 05, 2008 08:10 AM            

But my record says this:

1. Venus in Scorpio

I can see this in my young days when I was a mess. Now I don't smoke, hardly drink and I try to lay off the raccoon look seeing as I always look like a zombie in photos when the make up starts melting. Actually, I attracted this guy when I decided to chop most of my hair and leave it in spikes. And, god, I could hold my alcohol then. Not now. Now I drink one glass of wine and pass out so I don't drink around strangers.

2. Venus in Aquarius

I hate, detest and find dreadlocks disgusting! So I would never have them nor do I plan on having them on my man's head. They look like something is growing in there, and they look dirty. I am not blond. I am not trendy, I am stylish. Yeah, if a trendy item is timeless, I will buy it but I won't buy something just because it is a certain brand.

3. Venus in Leo

I don't wear lipstick. I wear lipgloss and preferably colourless. But I am all the rest of what a Venus in Leo is looking for.

But to be honest, if this Venus thing is based on looks and behaviour, it's a bit useless because there are people like me who look different every year/day, as in... One year/day, I am a total tomboy, baggy pants, sneakers and even walk with a swagger; then on some day I am in a vintage/modern outfit with high heels and slick (tied back) hair, sometimes my hair is pin-straight to just below my shoulders with a middle parting very dark, sometimes I am in an afro, sometimes I leave my hair to dry naturally from the shower and leave them in their natural curls. All these hair styles go with a different personality. So... hmmm...

My ex met me at a AGM for the company I worked for. My hair was tired back slick, I was in a somewhat above the knee skirt suit (gray plaid) , a ruffled white shirt (it sounds bad but it doesn't look bad) with black stockings and black stilettos. My black laptop bag on my right hand, carrying it like a briefcase. I was wearing bold jewelry but simple. I had makeup on and sunglasses which I took off before walking in the building. He watched me from when I got out of my car.

posted September 05, 2008 08:37 AM              

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Ok, so do you think we can now safely say that a woman first catches a guy's attention when she hooks his Mars ideal? Then they go dating and get to know each other better, and she gets closer to him when he slowly finds out that she fits his Venus ideal.

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And if a guy has a Mars/Venus natal aspect then she'll hook both at once.

posted September 05, 2008 12:19 PM              

However, one difference:
quoting from one of his favorite songs:

Yeah, an' I like my women just a little on the trashy side,
When they wear their clothes too tight and their hair is dyed.
Too much lipstick an' er too much rouge,
Gets me excited, leaves me feeling confused.
An' I like my women just a little on the trashy side.

Shoulda seen the looks on the faces of my Dad and Mom,
When I showed up at the door with a date for the senior prom.
They said: "Well, pardon us son, she ain't no kid.
"That's a cocktail waitress in a Dolly Parton wig.
I said: "I know it dad, ain't she cool, that's the kind I dig."

None of those things are me, well maybe the lipstick and I was a cocktail waitress in college, and maybe my clothes are tight and then there are the wigs in my closet...

Just kidding!

posted September 05, 2008 03:47 PM            

gemini venus II: he is actually all for looking hottest most fabulous. not a fan of casual wear. certain preference for g strings. and cares alot about boobs

virgo venus I: slightly overweight was never an issue for him. not a fan of giving/receiving oral sex

virgo venus II: he loathes dirty talk. that is the nastiest thing according to him. this one was attracted to blonds specifically. [ i suspect leo planets had something to do with that]

virgo venus III: loved ponytail and sportish look.