posted March 02, 2004 02:03 PM              

I will be meeting a wonderful man I've been talking to over the phone and corresponding with through email in 9 days!!!!!!

I can't explain it- but he feels permanent. We haven't even met in person, and yet this feels so fated...so meant to be.

We have quite a bit going on in the 7th house. His Jupiter is in my 7th, my mars is in his 7th, and our Venus's are in each other's 7th.

I'd love to hear about other people's experiences with 7th house happenings.

posted March 02, 2004 03:32 PM            

Both your Venus’s in the other’s 7th House –this arrangement has a strong romantic component. You will both enjoy being with the other, either alone or in a social environment. You are each considerate of the other’s feelings and truly desire to make the other happy.

His Jupiter in your 7th House – this arrangement indicates harmony and mutual consideration in marriage and partnerships. In marriage you both share common social, ethical, religious or spiritual, educational, and cultural values, which provides a solid platform to operate from resulting in a harmony of purpose and love. You both would do well in dealing with the public’s beliefs and social order. You will both bring strong, but similar beliefs into the relationship making for a strong consensus, and a single agenda on life.

Your Mars in his 7th House – dynamic, action-orientated relationships are indicated by this arrangement. Much depends here on the maturity of the two people for how this is played out in the relationship, but it most likely won’t be one where they just sit and watch TV all the time. If either is somewhat immature, there is a danger of that person being to aggressive and impulsive toward the other, creating resentment. He can activate you to greater self-expression. You in turn can help him to tone his outbursts down and develop some diplomatic behavior. This arrangement indicates strong sexual attraction, but that by itself will not make a good relationship. Both partners must bring a strong commitment to accept and value the other for who they are as a person.

Of course, you yhave to look at any aspects to each other's planets to get a true picture, but it looks good.

posted March 02, 2004 07:34 PM              

If there's a good Internet meeting place I should know about, do tell!

Congratulations to you. Hope everything falls into place!!

.gloria

posted March 03, 2004 08:38 AM              

I'm just so excited to meet him after our hours and hours on the phone! First email, then phone calls, and now IN PERSON! I can barely contain myself. At the very least I have met a wonderful man I can talk to and relate to on an advanced level.

Astro Junkie-
I actually met Mr. Amazing through my roommate- they used to be roommates!

posted March 05, 2004 09:50 AM              

I am at work so I can't look at your chart now- I'll see what I can do later on this weekend.

posted March 05, 2004 01:27 PM              

What if only one partner's venus is in the other's 7th house? Does that mean that the person with venus enjoys the other or the other way around?

posted March 09, 2004 10:17 AM              

I typed your info in on Astro.com and ran a free "Love, Flirtation, & Sex" Report for you. I pasted it below. Let me know if you have any questions.

Ascendant in Scorpio

With this position, you are likely to be quite secretive about your emotions at first.

You reserve the disclosure of your true feelings for those who are close to you, those whom you can trust with the full intensity of your emotions. Once involved with a lover, your physical passions are very strong.

Sexuality at its best totally involves and overtakes you. For this reason you may be attracted to some unconventional kinds of sex in which you control or are controlled by the situation.

Your feelings are very intense, but that can backfire if the affair does not work out. If that happens, try not to hold a grudge against your former lover - some affairs just don't work out, and neither of you is to blame.

Sun in Gemini

You have the potential for a broad variety of sexual experiences. This does not mean that you require a number of lovers to achieve happiness. It would be wise to choose a partner who enjoys experimentation or is willing to learn and to try whatever you dream up.

For you, sex is recreation more than a personal statement, and you need a partner with an equally lighthearted approach who will become involved with you in other ways as well.

It is unusually important to you that your lover be your friend, because sex alone is simply not enough. Your most fulfilling moments come when you are deeply in touch with your lover, and this does not happen in the bedroom alone.

Sun in the Seventh House

With this position, it is most important to choose a partner who can be your equal in all respects.

You should choose your partner very carefully, for you are likely to be very dependent on him or her, particularly when the chips are down. Similarly, your lover must be able to rely on you fully; the relationship must be entirely mutual if it is to sustain itself.

This should come quite naturally, because relationships are generally the primary focus of your life.

Moon in Scorpio

You are especially sharp at focusing on what is important in a situation, particularly in a long-term affair, and acting upon it accordingly.

This ability may be helpful in the long run, but it may cause you to miss some opportunities if you wait too long for a potential lover to open up to you.

Very likely you will choose a partner who takes life less seriously than you do, someone who will provide daily happiness and let you handle the larger problems.

In an ideal relationship, you may totally transcend your personality in sexual consummation, making it an almost religious experience.

Moon in the Twelfth House

You must be careful not to be too hasty in responding to a lover, and always think twice before committing yourself outright about any matter. There are many times when it is better to spare your lover's feelings by not rushing in and telling the whole truth, even though you feel you should.

No matter what kind of affair you are in, it will take a good deal of soul searching to discover your lover's and your own true emotional motives. Hidden actions and attitudes have to be uncovered and sorted out, but the reward is a deep level of mutual self- understanding that few others achieve.

For you, a truly successful love relationship is one that is intensely uplifting, even cathartic.

Venus in Taurus

Your appetite for love is fairly consistent, and ideally you should have a lover whose style is consistent from day to day.

Your physical surroundings are a gold mine of sensory potential for enhancing sexuality.

You need to admire your partner and feel sure that he or she is durable and independent. It would take a larger-than-life personality to fulfill your ideal, so try to be understanding when your partner doesn't live up to your highest expectations - nobody's perfect.

Venus in the Seventh House

You don't get very much pleasure from sex if your lover is uncomfortable or physically dissatisfied with what is going on. As a result, you are a particularly considerate lover, because one of your primary concerns is to see that your partner has a good time in order that you can too.

You are most stimulated by a lover who is really quite different from you in many respects, at least in personality.

However, be sure that you are an equal partner in any relationship and do not let anyone exploit your need for a lover by giving you less than you deserve.

Note: Venus is technically near the end of house 6 and is therefore interpreted in house 7.

Mars in Cancer

Your sexuality may have a very uneven rhythm, building up without expression for a time and then bursting out with considerable intensity. You are much more likely to get a satisfactory response if you let your lover know your intentions ahead of time so that he or she is fully ready for you.

Similarly, try not to be overprotective of your lover. Almost unconsciously, you may spin a web of protection around your partner, and even though it stems strictly from love, it may be too confining.

Mars in the Eighth House

You like to maintain a certain air of mystery concerning your style and motivations in sexuality, which can add both power and attraction to your image as others see it. In order to stay in control of your sometimes complex and subterranean inner forces, you must make a particular effort to explore them and reach an effective level of self-understanding.

Sexual activity has a very invigorating effect on your constitution.

Because of your own makeup, you are rather good at unraveling the tangled skeins of others' personal lives. In a love affair you can pursue seemingly well-hidden motives that reveal your lover's special needs, and then satisfy them.
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Hope that helps!

MM

posted March 09, 2004 08:02 PM              

I am just curious.

Does anybody have any theories on what it means when someone has their Neptune in your 7th House, ( besides the possibility of illusion that can transpire between the two of you because of it, is there anything meaningful in that placement at all? )

And also, what could it mean when your Uranus is placed in their 7th House?

Does that possibly suggest major instability in the relationship in some way due to it's placement there?

Thanks so much for any speculation on your part.

posted March 09, 2004 08:32 PM              

so get as much mileage out of it as you can...

.gloria

posted March 09, 2004 09:14 PM              

But, my pondering mind is still curious though. I wonder what these placements could possibly mean in theory.

I have heard that when Uranus is in the 7th House of another person, then it can mean that the 7th House person has never met another person like the Uranus person before, at least romantically anyway, and that their relationship might start out very atypically in someway too.

Also, the person who possesses the 7th House in that case might end ties with people in their lives who came before the Uranus person in order to continue on with their new Uranian interest.

As for someone's Neptune being in someone else's 7th House, that never seems very encouraging for the relationship. Neptune creates those damn illusions about things, as we all probably know by now.

Well, anyways, if anyone else also wants to "take a whack at it" so to speak, I'd love to hear about it.

Thanks so much!

posted March 09, 2004 09:49 PM              

Thanks!

posted March 11, 2004 09:10 AM              

You would have to provide us with your partner's information and we could compare your charts to see what aspects you share.

posted March 15, 2004 08:02 PM              

Now my ex had Jupiter in Sag on the 7th, and that's my Mars and Ascendant, so he was really happy with that. So it doesn't have to be Venus, especially if you have a strong Mars flavor.
I still believe Ascendant and Neptune contacts are the best indicator.

They have to do with illusions and physical attraction. The 7th house is about partnerships, it doesn't mean romance necessarily.

Natasha
Taurus

posted March 17, 2004 01:03 PM              

You said that your ex's jupiter in 7th in Sag fell on your ASC and Mars and he was happy with that...but what about you...meaning the person with ASC and Mars falling in partner's 7th...how would they feel about them?

My BF's ASC, Mars and Jupiter fall in my 5th(with my Merc) and his Venus, Merc, and Saturn in my 7th (with my Jup and Sat). So yes, he is definitely very interesting and attracting to me...but what about him?? How would he feel about me by having so many of his planets in my 5th and 7th?? I am having trouble understanding that.

Thanks for all your help.