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Topic: Pisces who make you punch holes in the wall
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LeylaLeFay
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posted October 07, 2004 07:01 PM
 
On some post, somewhere, some pisces said they couldn't imagine their sign driving anyone to such frustration.Pisces is not an angry confrontational sign- I'll give you that. But they are masters of passive aggresive behavior. Case in Point: A friend and I, and her Piscese b/f were to attend an event we knew he didn't really want to go to. We gave him opportunity to get out of it, but as a people pleaser, he insisted he really did want to go with us. 1)He loses the car keys
2)He loses the directions
3)He stalls by filling the car with gas, getting snacks, etc
4)Halfway there he remembers he forgot something at home and we have to turn back around.
5)On the way back, now very late, he takes the wrong freeway despite our clear directions, getting us lost. When we finally arrived at our destination there was not much time left. I was certainly ready to punch holes in the wall! And guess what? He discovered he liked the place and ended up having a great time!!! IP: Logged |
KarenSD
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posted October 07, 2004 07:35 PM
Did someone say "passive aggressive" ?  The truth hurts!!!! OUCH! IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted October 07, 2004 08:22 PM
Oh hey - hey yo - Who was it here that said Pisces men struggle with their masculinity. Need I say more? Give me Einstein and all the rest any day, but as a boyfriend? Nah ... IP: Logged |
KarenSD
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posted October 07, 2004 08:31 PM
Andy Gibb was a Pisces, woe befell that soul... Kurt Cobain... uh oh, am i sensing a pattern here?!!? OK, wait!!! Michelangelo, Renoir, Nureyev, Chopin, Galileo, Edgar Cayce... IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted October 07, 2004 08:49 PM
Wait, wait, wait...Speaking as a Pisces, he may very well have done all of that on accident.
Heaven knows I could've.
But then I have an Aqua Moon, first house Uranus, and 2nd House Neptune. Really, though - that could've been all just him being a Fish. Edit: Except for the having to turn around thing. Unless it was vital, life-saving medication, that was rude. IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph
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posted October 07, 2004 11:06 PM
Being someone with a Pisces moon, and thus a bona fide Pisces magnet, I don't think the typical Pisces behavior (absentmindedness, forgetfulness, perpetual confusion and disorientation) is really passive-aggressive. Just typically Piscean. Passive aggression is a way of getting what you want without you coming across as aggressive. How can that be a typical Pisces, who are usually so lost in orbit that they have absolutely no idea what they want? Let alone have the presence of mind to be so conniving (you're thinking of Cancers and Scorpio - they are the passive aggressive queens of the Zodiac). Besides, most Pisceans are so self-sacrificing that if they know how badly they were irritating you, they'd throw themselves onto a sacrifical fire - but that usually doesn't happen, because their incorrigibly nebulous Piscean demeanor makes them hopelessly and inncocently oblivious. However, if you stub your toe or get a hang nail, they will cry big snotty tears for you. Think of it as a trade off, Pisces style.Nonetheless, Pisces can be passive-aggressive sometimes, especially about sex, which they confuse with love all the time. And they need love, desperately, because it makes them feel understood by someone when they know they'll never understand themselves (it's the only thing a Pisces knows for sure). So you can't really get mad at them for that. Besides, most Pisces are incredible in bed, and you really can't get mad at them for that either.  IP: Logged |
KarenSD
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posted October 07, 2004 11:14 PM
Gemini Nymph ~ thank you for that great message above!!  Sincerely,
the well-meaning Pisces Sun/Leo Moon/Gemini ASC KarenSD IP: Logged |
virgotaurustaurus
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posted October 07, 2004 11:28 PM
Oh man, after reading this thread, and thinking of my Pisces mom...the 2 just don't match! I don't know her birth time, but she's very aggressive and somewhat controlling and a bit of a crybaby as well...eep it looks like she probably has a strong Leo influence, maybe? Or Aries? Blech. IP: Logged |
Everlong
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posted October 07, 2004 11:29 PM
I used to drive my old Aries uncle straight up the wall when we were arguing and I would just stand there completely unaffected while he threw his Mars anger at me. Heh, that seems to p*ss a lot of people off, actually. Best way to win an argument, and easiest. I'm not sure if all Pisceans do this though?------------------
"Reality leaves a lot to the imagination." - John Lennon IP: Logged |
KarenSD
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posted October 08, 2004 01:01 AM
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aries-chick
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posted October 08, 2004 02:51 AM
My bestest friend for the past 4 years has been a pisces girl. She totally understands me 101% and we've never had a fight..oddly enough we always agree on things. I've never felt she was being passive agressive. That being said though, she has both her venus and mars in aries and we both have earth moons (her taurus me cappy). She gets very emotional a lot of the time, and can come accross as pushy if someone threads on her toes so, if anything i'd say it'd take a lot to make her angry but once shes angry she'd be very vocal and straight forward about it...deffinetly not passive.She's prolly not you're typical pisces though... IP: Logged |
LeylaLeFay
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posted October 08, 2004 04:56 AM
I wasn't trying to beat up on the pisces- I was just pointing out that they are not the helpless pushovers everyone thinks.They may take on this "people pleasing" appearance to avoid confrontations, but believe me- they have their own way of getting what they want just like any other sign.
Passive warriors they are.
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LibraSparkle
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posted October 09, 2004 08:32 PM
I agree... as the mother of a Pisces, and given that the people that know us best in this world are our parents and our children.If you were to meet my daughter, you would dote over her sweetness and helpfulness. You'd tell me over and over how cute she is... and she IS adorable. Absolutely sweet. When all eyes aren't watching, this child can turn into a beast! I swear. No one believes me that Danacia (Dah-nay-sha) is capable of some of the beastly things she has done (especially to her sister). She is never overtly voilent or malicious. It's all very subtle, usually... She is capable of hauling off and smaking the crap out of her sister when she's had enough... but that's kinda different. It's kinda more along the lines of self defense. She has very sneaky little ways of getting her way. If she's angry with her sister, she'll hurry to the kitchen before she gets a chance and unload the top shelf. They share the unloading responsiblities, and the top rack is much easier to do. She finds subtle little ways of punishing people that have upset her. Gosh... that doesn't sound very loving.  She really is sweet and kind and loving. She's not necessarily putting up a front as much as she is shining her brightest when others are around. IP: Logged |
KarenSD
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posted October 10, 2004 02:33 AM
OOOH, LS, we can SO be like that... scary. I wonder if i'm dealing with four personalities sometimes with my Pisces sun and Gemini rising thing... two fish 'n' twins. Scary... I have friends w/Pisces kids and your story is not a shocker to me. I'll have to think back to when i was a kid now... interesting!IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted October 10, 2004 12:37 PM
I kinda of understand I am a Pisces and I have a 5 yr old Pisces son and we can appear
sweet and loving and we are,but it is that other side f us that is wicked. Mostly when your younger is when it is bad,unless you have not grown up. My little one will holla out mommy Dj hit me, Dj is my oldset son he is 13 always hitting his lil brother, but my lil one makes it up sometime, just be straid fibbing to get his brother in trouble. It is tripped out. There is so many things that I can tell that we do that will shock you. Pisces are sweet,but we are definelty going into two directions sometimes...IP: Logged |
KarenSD
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posted October 10, 2004 01:05 PM
Mama Mia, isn't that the truth? My mom and i are both Pisces, too. Fascinating!!IP: Logged | |
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