posted November 15, 2004 09:08 AM            

Loyality and trust were the most important features in my relationships, followed closely by my partner's physical looks. The last part has become a problem as I have gotten older, as have my availble partners.

The down side of this position, at least for me, was that early on it was hard to get beyond the physical side of sex to really getting to know or care for my partner.

Just some thoughts

posted November 15, 2004 09:29 PM              

Scorpio
Those with Venus in Scorpio are the ones most likely to take a mystical, magical ride in the name of love. The fact that these folks are already mysterious serves to enhance the journey. Intense and powerful, those with this placement make for the most passionate and exciting of lovers. A bit naughty? You bet! That Scorpion in the House of Love can inflict a bite which will linger longer, and a darned sexy one at that. These are individuals who want it all: a connection on an intellectual, spiritual and physical level is the bare minimum. Added to that must be zest, fire and an intensity of epic proportions! With Venus in Scorpio, finding mates is not a problem. What will ensue, however, will be most interesting! Even so, these folks want their relationships to be keepers, valuing as they do a solid connection with a loyal partner. Anything short of this could break this lover's heart in two. That said, those with their Venus in Scorpio will be most blissful with someone who can match their passion and zest step for step. This game of love will be hot, but it's the end game which matters most.

posted November 17, 2004 02:40 PM              

And loyalty is extremely important too. One of the worst things a person can do to a Venus-in-Scorpio person is to betray them and ruin their trust. Then that's it. There's no going back! But earn our love and trust and you have our faithfulness forever.

posted November 17, 2004 07:46 PM              

As a fellow Venus in Scorpio (along w/Mars and of course Sun) I am the same way. A relationship involving me must be spiritual and mental, otherwise there's no physical. I tried having relations when I was young just because I was physically attracted to someone, but it never worked. I wasn't really attracted--more like I was trying to sample some sweet eye candy and it ended up being sour! And a relationship for me is also like a light switch. I'm either on or off... no between. And the "on" is very strong and obvious. A man with me KNOWS of my interest in him.

posted November 18, 2004 01:06 AM            

I have mars in scorpio and agree wholeheartedly.

Fraz

posted November 18, 2004 05:40 PM              

Angela

posted November 20, 2004 08:06 AM            

No offense, but my ex has Scorpio in mars, venus and his first house... and he is absolutely NOTHING like what you have described. Sex was just a shag to him, it never really meant anything other than ''she's my girlfriend, we're supposed to have sex...''. No spiritual experiences were ever had, trust me on this.... if there had been, it would have been a totally different relationship. It's funny, actually, because his mum told me his birth time ages ago, and I worked up a chart for him, but I found out that she had the time wrong, he was born 45 mins sooner, and did not have a saggie asc, but a scorpio one.. and his mars moved from 10 to 11th house, venus and uranus moved from 11 to 12th house, and his true node, mercury and sun moved from 9 to the 10th house...

Anyways, a scorp ascending makes sense for him, but as far as the 'scorp venus' thing goes, nahhhh... never saw that. Maybe the loyalty thing, but, even there, he didn't seem to really care all that much about making the relationship work, he was just very jealous and posessive, two things an aqua sun with neptune in saggie in my 9th house, could not stand...

More power to the rest of you if you posess those qualitites, they must be fun!!

posted November 20, 2004 11:20 AM              

But eventually my emotions overpower me and I need that spiritual connection, at least I will attempt to find someone more emotional than usual to bond with.

The challenge I see with Venus in Scorpio, and Aries is that they will pick someone very emotional and romantic, and then find that person is impossible to live with and treats them badly. They get hurt a lot, almost like the heart is bruised all the time. And very loyal, like a dog.

posted June 16, 2023 07:13 PM            

However, he had an ex who he was madly in love with. The girl left him after 6 months of being together... He got sick because of that...