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Topic: EVERYONE STOP FREAKING OUT ABOUT MEN
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BlueRoamer
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posted March 01, 2005 01:25 AM
  
Just chill out. You will find your soul mate, if not in this life then in the next one. Men can sense it when you're freaking out and it makes them skittish. I know its hard to not freak out and worry and analyze every little thing, but they're usually NOT doing the same thing!!!!! Men are simple, they like sex and food, and of course love. BUT STOP FREAKING OUT, if this one doestn' work you'll find someone else, and if not in this life, you'll find him in the next one, and if you want to have children you can adopt or get inseminated...and theres always VIBRATORS!!!!!!!!! Sorry, i'm telling myself this as much as the rest of you , but
STOP FREAKING OUT AND OVERANALYZING EVERYTHIGN ABOUT YOUR INTEREST/HUBBY PARTNER, it does no good and you just run yourself in a circle. IP: Logged |
26taurus
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posted March 01, 2005 01:30 AM
ROFL  IP: Logged |
sana
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posted March 01, 2005 01:42 AM
tathastu!!!(A sanskrit word for so be it).------------------
warning:I cannot be held responsible for the above, coz apparently my cat has learnt how to type. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted March 01, 2005 01:45 AM
True dat!IP: Logged |
Lauren Leigh
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posted March 01, 2005 03:13 AM
I second that motion! Rants are great  IP: Logged |
maya-v
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posted March 01, 2005 08:24 AM
Sooooo true! Who's in for a Hen party??IP: Logged |
scorpbaby
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posted March 01, 2005 08:28 AM
HAHA!  IP: Logged |
Mystic Dreamz
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posted March 01, 2005 09:04 AM
You have a point roamer. I still hate them though  IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted March 01, 2005 10:38 AM
Too funny, BlueRoamer...I started a simular thread a while back as well. It gets old, doesn't it? Makes females seem so bloody desparate for men, which is annoying. I love my sisters, but damn! There is more richness to life than just relationships with the opposite sex.Of course, we've all been there. You meet a new potential mate, and your just dieing to know whethor or not you should put your all in to it or not, because you don't want to waste your efforts on another Dud Dude. So, eh...yeah. I'm hearing ya, though. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted March 01, 2005 10:48 AM
I think that it boils down to being ok with being alone. Alot of women do not like to be alone in fact do not know how to be alone. Being alone is the best peace of mind that you could possibly understand. I mean I know I do not WANT to be alone, but when times come and I am alone I am ok, I love the serene of not having to worry or balance this and that. I am most sad when a relationship that I wanted did not work out, but after I have moved past it and time is on my side I become so peaceful. I love that. But bc I do not want to be alone I try it again. I am just working on how to balance a relationship and merging that peace of mind that I have attained while being alone. BUT bc we as women were conditioned at an early age most of us to get married have kids ect.ect that is why wome worry so much in that area. And the older you get the harder it gets seems like. Now I am going from bringing things in like a lion to ending things like a lamb and I am loving it. So I say ladies single ones BR has a great point just chill and get into you and your kids if you have them friends family act as though men do not exsit get into you and watch what happens. IP: Logged |
noreenz
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posted March 01, 2005 11:02 AM
ROFLMAO..........Blue Roamer, I was wonder'in when you were going to pop! hahahaFinally had enough eh? too funny. You could tell by your recent postings that you just 'bout had enough.  Thanks for the early morning laugh.  Noreen IP: Logged |
Duality
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posted March 01, 2005 03:09 PM
You're such a nasty B*tch, BR... IP: Logged |
Danny
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posted March 01, 2005 03:28 PM
Its just something fun to talk about. I love talking about all thing boys. Doenst make me any less independent. If I am with a guy, and he starts getting all sh!tty, I am more than happy to show him the door....to my bedroom. After that he can get the hell on.IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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From: ON Canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 01, 2005 03:29 PM
OOoooooh. Danny's spunky. That's like your fourth post about sex, dollface!!!
You sound like me lately.  Er.. always.IP: Logged |
ScotScorp
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posted March 01, 2005 03:43 PM
Very nice of you to remind all the ladies that there's more to life than men.Thank you. Angela
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Danny
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posted March 01, 2005 03:53 PM
Pixlepixie, we just cant help it IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted March 01, 2005 04:03 PM
Yup - I think with most of us it's just a matter of "Please tell me if I should bother put any effort into making it work with this person"Or, "Please tell me I'm not an idiot to be putting so much emotional energy into this dude." Or, "Please tell me that my deepest desires will be fulfilled by this handsome dude who has caught my eye because I can't stop thinking about him! Please tell me I will have him, tell me the stars say it's inevitable... PLEASE?! My dear,lovely women of the world - you do have some control over this aspect of your life. But, I know it's nice to get some kind of affirmation that you're on the right track. I guess it's just annoying when people seem desparate about it. Why is that? Oh, I don't know. Maybe because deep down we all feel a little desparate sometimes, and it's not a feeling we particularly like, or care to dwell on, and the males of our species don't seem to put half as much energy into thinking about it as we do, which makes us feel all the more pathetic about it. IP: Logged |
Motherkonfessor
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posted March 01, 2005 06:00 PM
YEEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSAAAAAAAAAH!
Thank Goddess for you BR.....
about time someone said something.
MK
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Secret Garden
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posted March 01, 2005 07:49 PM
I agree with Lionseye, I am single and plan on staying that way, becoz of the power nature of relationships, I feel as if they are jus disruptive mostly, at least in my life. It doesnt have to do with men , and I said this same thing to Mystic Dreamz on another thread: "if some man said these kinds of things about us women, we would go crazy with the sexist and chauvinistic labels and name-calling", so all of a sudden if women are doing it its ok? I understand that a lot of women are frustrated and desperate and want to know if that special person cares about us or not, or WHY that assh*le treated us the way he did; but lets face it, most of the time some people go overboard and start the name-calling based on gender. Just as name-calling based on race, religion, ethnicity, etc. is not tolerable, similarly, it should not be tolerated on a gender-basis either. This is not a pro-men or pro-women post, it is a pro-humanity and equality one. If we women want to be treated 'equally', then we must treat other men with respect as well. I'm just afraid that the environment, which is already buzzing with a vast majority of females, should not create a hostile environment where men do not feel welcome. I love all the people on this forum regardless of their gender. For a lotta them I dont even know what their gender is, or I forget coz I read so many replies from so many ppl each day  IP: Logged |
pidaua
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 01, 2005 08:15 PM
LOL..Lioneye..I totally remember that thread..It was also at the time that I posted something about people writing in that crazy internet shorthand that was driving me crazy LMAO... heee heeeHow is living with Mr. Virgo? Are you loving life? How is your daughter?
I hope all is well...
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Everlong
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posted March 01, 2005 10:31 PM
I say we STOP FREAKING OUT ABOUT FREAKING OUT ABOUT MEN!And then, STOP FREAKING OUT ABOUT FREAKING OUT ABOUT FREAKING OUT ABOUT MEN! And so on and so forth. IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
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posted March 01, 2005 10:58 PM
BR, it's the corpus collosum. That's the part of the brain that contains all the connections that join the left and right brain hemispheres. Did you read the article in Newsweek some time ago about scientists proving that women have more "connections" than men? Communicating our feelings is what we do best! And there are so many sympathetic ears here it's hard not to want the benefit of all those points of view to one's own situation. I wouldn't call it over-analyzing......but each to their own. Feel better now that you popped your cork?!?
PS: I'm single and I don't spend much time thinking about "soul mates". From what I've read by Sylvia Browne, the chance of our soul mate or Twin Soul being here at SchoolRoom Earth the same time and place we are is astronomical. She says they're on The Other Side waiting for us to come back Home....
I just want to make loving connections in this incarnation, my expectations are not that high (that I MUST somehow find a soul mate or I've failed). And it's FUN to discuss the compatibility-possibilities of a new friend to share the good (and bad) times with!IP: Logged |
BlueRoamer
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posted March 02, 2005 03:11 AM
Women have greater connectivity between hemispheres, but this doesn't necessarily mean they think more. "Thinking" is not very well definied, and people with a severed corpus collosum (split brain patients) can still think and function fairly well.As for Sylvia Browne, I, and I'm sure many others see her for what she is, a complete and utter fraud. She makes so many predictions that a few a bound to come true, and most are completely off mark. She says exactly what people want to hear to make them happy, and essentially feeds people lies to pacify and soothe them. IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted March 02, 2005 10:56 AM
BlueRoamer,
Women have to get undressed with men, and wake up every morning with themselves,without anyone to talk to they would go mad,
Without a community we are and have nothing,
so this is a community, for women and men, not to talk about one particular subject but to talk about anything and everything. That's what a community is for, public venting. If I dont' want to answer a question, I can ignore it, there are hundreds of pages after all, it's not up to me to tell anyone what to feel or think or say. So feel free to vent, but remember that the advice given is free, and from experience, it's not wise to forget that the women here are wiser than most, I talked to another Taurus today who is going through all sorts of grief with her Virgo b/f who is putting her in a box, he treats her like a pet and she doesn't know there is anything else. Women gain strength in community and they have a urgent need to create one, They do not want to talk about men, they want to talk to other women, Community is everything
it's our open University
Natasha
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pixelpixie
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posted March 02, 2005 12:56 PM
Blueroamer.. don't knock Ms. Sylvia!!!
Sure, I don't believe everything I hear from ANY source, but some things are right on... I have a feeling you are basing this on T.V and not books.. well, read her books and you will see that you have a wiggly Sag foot that likes to live in your mouth when you assume things.
Don't take it out of your mouth and stick it in your ass.... IP: Logged |
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