posted March 08, 2005 12:27 PM              

I'm thinking they may both be unpredictable. They will either totally clash, or balance each other out perfectly. Interesting combo. What have you found?

posted March 09, 2005 08:15 PM              

Another thing is he is a total workaholic whereas I am very lazy and hate working. So problems often arise because of this as well.

posted March 09, 2005 08:27 PM              

''..And as these two both have a water Moon, whatever their relationship with each other, they will both be emotionally involved. In fact, they may have to watch their tempers with one another, with Aries being the most emotionally sensitive of the two. And whatever the sex of these two people, Aries may want Virgo to mother them, which Virgo might be willing to do...to a point. Because as long as Aries respects the fact that Virgo needs some private 'alone' time every day (or maybe even every hour), and Virgo doesn't hold back from expressing his/her feelings for the other, then this pairing could possibly work out very well.''

Wow,
This is increditably accurate! I admit*blushing* that my boyfriend does ''parent'' me a lot. he is the mature one in this relationship and we both seem to naturally follow these roles.

Also, he will often want him ''alone'' time which I used to take offense to thinking he meant he just did not want me around but now that I understand that it is just his nature to be shy and a loner I don't take personal offense anymore.

Thanks sassy! You really know what you are talking about.

I get frustrated because all astrology books ever say about a relationship between aries and virgo is ''not compatiable'' or something equally as depressing. It's nice to hear about all the other stuf involved as well.

Honestly, I often feel that my cancer moon is very powerful and sometimes overrules my aries sun as I can be very emotional and sensitive and at times feel nothing like the outgoing aries that I was when i was younger.
It seems the older I get the more my cancer traits are showing. Perhaps, this is just what happens when you get to know yourself?

Sorry for babbling on....Im just so excited to have a place to talk about all of this without people rolling thier eyes.

posted March 10, 2005 11:11 AM              

This is true, about what we mostly read about a Aries/Virgo relationship is not promising. Many times on paper, things don't look right. It's important to just ask each other what their experience is, that is how we learn.

I know that an Aries influence can overwhelm a Virgo influence, whether the Aries was a man or woman. Woman Aries cut to the chase too. But if the Virgo guy is not the maternal type, then I'd say the Aries man with Virgo woman is more desirable.

Lately I've been looking at other maybe, not so obvious connections in Synastry which may make up for these contradictions. For example, if the Aries man has his Sun in the 6th House, or the Virgo's Sun in the 1st House.

posted March 10, 2005 12:05 PM              

I'm a Virgo/Leo moon and my sig is Aries/Cancer moon ...

Opposites in reality but mutual honesty, respect, admiration, loyalty and solid in true grounded relationships ... did I say honesty? ...lol

AND the sexual energy is just unbelievable .. An Aries can pull a Virgo out their kinky/nasty shell and they both love intamacy (not true what u hear about virgos -- we love being in love and are extremely affectionate IF U ARE THE ONE ...

Virgos like to nurture and Aries with their child-like mentality feed right into it ... Ups and downs emotionally with both as Virgos can be moody, crabby and get into a funk and Aries always impulsive, not sticking to a task, not seeing simple details of anything .. But they balance each other nicely

Lots of communication and loyalty and understanding to each other's goals, desires and feelings will make this work well ...

I see lots of emotion and passion in ur pairing ...

Virgos nervous energy will feed Aries impuslive fire ... They both like different things and adventure, with the Virgo a little more hesitant ... Lots of laughter and goofiness also ...

Aries need to let Virgo escape mentally from time to time (with some alone space -- they are quite cerebral) and Virgos should not criticize the Aries for the impetuous impulses they have and not take everything they say with a grain of salt (Aries are quite biting in their honesty where Virgos have little more tact although they think with a mean mind) ...

posted March 16, 2005 12:52 PM              

I have a date with a Virgo guy this Friday!

He is a music teacher at an independent school during the school year, and during the summer he teaches under priviledged kids in a music program at UC Berkeley.

He's a:

Sun in Virgo
Moon in Virgo
Venus in Leo
Mars in Sagittarius

posted March 16, 2005 01:14 PM            

What combo do you think works better?
Older Aries with younger Virgo or younger Aries with an older Virgo?
Personally I think the latter works best. With the first combination, the Aries tends to get a bit patronising.

Oh, and can anyone tell me, from my planets, would I gel well with an Aries guy?
I have Virgo Sun
Aries Moon
Merc Virgo
Venus Leo
Cap Asc

posted March 17, 2005 04:08 PM              

Mutable -

I cannot decide which of those two combo's would work best. As for whether you would get along well with Aries based on your astrological positions, I say YES!

posted March 22, 2005 01:45 PM            

Thanks AJ. Nice to know heheh