posted March 18, 2005 07:23 AM              

I think my mother respects my father that's one of the reason they could get along for
such a long time.

It's true that we are possessive but in the beginning.

Another thing about PRIVACY we need some time to ponder and analyze things about what people told us and what did they meant.We try to find the hidden meanings behind their
words.Another thing we don't wish that for every moment and everything we do should be questioned.It's so irritating explaining every thing we do.

posted March 18, 2005 08:54 AM              

Honesty is the key word ! No point pretending to be someone u think he may like.. coz, how long can u pretend..and what happens when he will find out the deception??! nah ah.. no point even considering deceiving a scorp..

Be your true wonderful self.. let ur own light shine.. if it appeals to ur particular scorp..then ok,good for you. If not, then, he aint the one, so move on to ur true mate. Whats important is that you'd still have ur dignity.

In the eyes of a scorp,nothing could be worse then fakeness/ deception!

Peace & Love

posted March 18, 2005 10:23 AM            

And I have to agree with scorpiongal, when she says we dont like our words and actions interrogated. I think this goes double for the words we choose not to speak, and the actions we choose not to take. In fact, this is so important, it ought to be mentioned before almost anything else.

posted March 19, 2005 03:27 AM              

I went through a phase when I thought Scorp men would be the best for me, but boy did I learn that i was WRONG...

even despite all my Scorp influence, he was too manipulative, power-hungry, dominating, and totally possessive to the point that he wouldn't let me have male friends, he wanted to dictate my career, he wanted to tell me how to do my nails and hair and what to wear, and he would criticize me endlessly till he destroyed my self esteem!

It was a NIGHTMARE trying to get rid of him. For one thing Scorp men get stuck like Velcro to anything they go after, its really scary and annoying, almost to the obsessive point of psychopathic, and this is coming from someone who can be quite possessive and obsessive in relationships (ME!) despite my Gem sun.

Not to mention he was a liar, promiscuous, and liked to use sex as a weapon.

posted March 19, 2005 08:35 AM              

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all kinds of people to want to overpower and secude this very rare night creature of the zodiac.

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posted March 19, 2005 01:38 PM              

I know another Scorpio Man and he is same...he doesn't care about what the hell other thinks...but is this only Man thing or is it that Scorpio Man pretend to do be so....It's a total mystry for me...

Cancerrg: Well I am not sure how somebody can seduce me...you have to find your own ways..I can just try to explain more for Scorpio Women and Men I just mentioned in my earlier posts and Luna mentioned :

Beat me in a staring contest
No blinking
No laughing
No taunting
No looking away
Just be the one to hold the longer gaze.

Maybe...but this is soemthing I am already telling you so this doesn't count... I have read soemthing on How to Seduce Scorpio Woman but now I already know that so maybe I won't like to go through all that too ... anything which is Surprising,New and very Romatic.
OR
I think just by being natural and caring if somebody's good enough then one doesn't have to try too hard to seduce them.

Well I can mention what kind of person I would go for....

FIRST SIGHT : a person who is good looking ....I didn't say very handsome...presentable,(if has a good dressing sense that would be a plus point.)
Shouldn't look or act in a flirtish manner with other girls or look phoney.I am a bad chaser...I admit...I would rather wait and watch...ya I don't like to get hurt...Can flirt with me but still have sincerity in his eyes.

AFTER THE INITIAL CONTACT : Witty,Clever,
Good sense of Humour,Good -Communicator that means Listening,Speaking and Understanding Ability.Does n't criticize me but can give me practical advices...be my friend not a grand dad. Romantic...very important...that doesn't mean he has to write poetries everyday or sing a song ...but anything that comes naturally.

LONG TERM : Honest. and LOYAL 100 %..Can take his own decisions.Somebody who has an ability to realize his dreams.Take initiatives....Be Understanding...I would say that he shouldn't undersetimate on what I can do just because I am a girl.If I would need any help I would definitely tell the person whom I love the most. Give me Space when needed.Can take my Jealousy...I think he should better not even try to make me jealous..because that would be a biggest turn off and I would think he is unrelaible and un faithful...he can also be little Possessive but doesn't tell me to explain everything I do. I sound really "mean" huh!...as he has to do lot of explaining to do and if he would ask me I would just say "IF YOU WANT TO BELIEVE IT THEN BELEIVE IT OR FORGET IT".

I hope that helped...to understand Scorpion Girls.

posted March 19, 2005 09:06 PM              

well i do have a lot of relationship problems, lol, but like i said i dont hold the grudge against the Scorp males, definitely they are made for someone out there, but its not for me , thats for sure (!)

I should have done a lot of things, but with my venus and mars placements i take ppl too lightly, never question or suspect anyone until everything is too late and out of hand, then i will just burst before reaching the crazy point, i am an Air sun and don't like emotional displays, least of all my own emotional displays, and I try to downplay my emotional scorpio moon , most of the time unsuccessfully because i end up lashing out against the person pushing my buttons :/

Also I think i got involved in romantic relationships much too early, I was always a little bit flirtatious, but I got involved in relationships in general too early, and had to learn some hard lessons from some manipulative guys who had been playing the field, been around the block and back, and kind of destroyed my illusions of romantic grandeur, which I think all girls have at some point in life, and most of those illusions are shattered anyway because they arent true, only that I hope they are not shattered so brutally and painfully...hehehe

Anyhow no regrets here, I did what at that time I thought best, I refrained from doing things I considered not good, and at the end of the day, the bitterness will eventually leave, and be replaced by the bouncy restless Gem spirit again

thats the really good thing about a Gem sun, can't be sad too long!

posted March 20, 2005 07:42 AM              

Unfortunately, they can be so stubborn and fixed on this they make assumptions and can let real chances slip them by, which only serves to make them angrier and pile on even more defences.

posted March 20, 2005 04:38 PM              

No offense to the scorpio females here, but my scorpio sis drives me crazy, she is the only person who i can barely stand being in the same room with (!).

She is so controlling, and I think that stems from insecurity, she plays power games with her husband. Every scorpio woman I personally know has played power games with their men, treated them as children, dominated them, taken control of their money and their lives, and then velcro themselves to the man because they are insecure that they will be left alone with no one to conquer.

She has completely dominated her Libra husband (dont take me wrong, I'm not a particular fan of him either, but what she does is wrong by principle), she controls his paycheck by guilting him and telling him that through ME you got green card for America, so now you must give me all your paychecks, otherwise I Will divorce you and there goes your green card then. Of course she doesn't say it that way but in the sly Scorpionic way of saying things. She uses sex as a weapon which I find many Scorpios in general doing. They can have sex with a person and then dump them the minute after orgasm because they are just so over it and sex has no meaning for them, wtf is that ok

Her husband doesn't even know how much he makes, she controls everything. He tried to send his parents 100 dollars from their joint account because they needed money, she jumped on his case about that and reprimanded him and guilted him until he cried and apologized and actually called his parents and asked for the money back. What a bi@atch, sorry to say, although she is my sister.

She also loves to control my mother, who is an overly emotional Pisces mooner, and uses her Scorpio strength to make my mom think that she is right. Her favorite quote is "Marriage is a business" and she has ingrained this into my mothers mind. When she and my mom sometimes launch joint attacks on me about why I Refuse to get married, I will say something along the lines of I am not ready to accept someone in my life to that extent yet, with that degree of commitment, and she says, you don't hvae to, you just have to play the game right, come on Marriage is business, and your a business major whats your problem with that, just make cut and dry decisions.

That really ****** me off. Because for me marriage is about love, at least thats the premise for making the decision for marriage, and if it goes sour later thats just your luck at least you tried, and with the right principles in mind. But she doesn't even have those in place.

posted March 21, 2005 02:47 AM              

I think it may be Mars sextile Venus, I think the Venus in Aries only influences my love relationships in particular and my need for independence if someone tries to restrict me. It also has the affect of a tad bit of possessiveness, loyalty and passion, especially my sexuality I don't think it makes me particularly assertive, but I wish it did so that some people who have pushed me around couldn't have done so. I have libra rising so I would rather keep peace and harmony than disrupt the order of things, besides Im the youngest in a family that believes that only the older family members can really make decisions, all my life my family has beat down my Venus in Aries (which is the only occupied cardinal house in my chart), with a stick (ouch)!

Pixel: I agree with that, I don't have anything against Scorpio women, but I have this impression that they must control their men's money, it may be wrong, or it may be that the 4 Scorp women Ive seen all have some aspect or other placement in common which makes them like that, it could well be something goin on with 2nd house, or pluto, which would influence some kind of weird behavior like that. You're a cute and nice scorpio though and everyone here loves you, I am no exception to that

posted March 21, 2005 08:20 AM              

OR maybe just because they are too afraid to be hurted....Scorpios do have problem to trust people.

Secret Garden : Just wondering what's your Sun Sign ??? and your sis sounds to be treating her husband in a very bad manner.
I am not married but I wonder how can
somebody can treat her husband like this.

Cancerrg: I think when it comes to Scorpio Woman and Cancer Man relationship.

Don't worry about talking too much...Scorpio
Woman would understand even when you are not talking.

I think Cancers don't feel shy in front of Scorpios and they start talking or cracking jokes.Cancers normally give so many hints to the Scorpio that it becomes so easy for Scorpio to understand.

I am not sure whether Scorpio Woman would really do that or not because I think it's also more of personal thing and it differs from situation to situation.

Maybe Scorpio woman might pop the Question in an indirect manner because they would like to be sure about what that Cancer Man
is really feeling.If Scorpio Woman would get an answer where she thinks that feelings are mutual then maybe Scorpio Woman
would ask but would also wait for Cancer Man to do that.I think scorpio Woman would analyze the situation and do accordingly.

If it would have been Scorpio Man they would definitely ask...ofcourse at the right time.