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Topic: Seduce A Scorpio
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sweet_face
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posted March 15, 2005 08:01 PM
 
How can you keep a scorpio guy eating at the palm of youre hand. What kind of girls are they attracted to?IP: Logged |
aries-chick
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posted March 15, 2005 08:07 PM
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How can you keep a scorpio guy eating at the palm of youre hand
You mean that's possible?  lol Prolly by being naughty 
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BlueRoamer
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posted March 16, 2005 02:51 AM
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purple_scorp
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posted March 16, 2005 04:49 AM
I would say, don't divulge too much to them, keep yoursElf as a bit mysterious - scorps love a challenge and like getting to the bottom of things. Also, a bit (okay a helluva lot) of flattery would go a long wayyyyyyyy!purple_scorp IP: Logged |
Swerve
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posted March 16, 2005 06:48 AM
The only way this might happen is when the Scorpio, for whatever reason, lets his guard down, lets it all hang out and reveals himself to you (clothes on). If he feels that he has been vulnerable in your presence, you understood this and were aware of the power you possesed in that moment, and yet chose only to carry on as if nothing had happened and still treated him the same, no shock, no surprise, no sniggers, no remarks, no discussions. Just a quiet understanding and then instantaneously moving on. Then you will have his trust, and a Warlord at your back. But be careful, because every possible variation to this scenario, every possible reaction will be felt by him in an even more intense way than usual. He will be a cornered Dragon caught off-guard and his natural instinct will be to burn you if you even so much as smell like a potential threat. You get it right, or you get it wrong. There are no other possibilities. So, are you sure of what you are asking, because it isn't an idle question and you must have the instincts, strength of character and nerves of steel needed to survive this ultimate test for a Scorpion. Swerve IP: Logged |
scorpiongal
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posted March 16, 2005 06:49 AM
Hi,I am a Scorpio and I had a Scorpio ex.Well now I am pretty far.Actually I didn't choose to persuade further as I was leaving soon.You know that Scorpios want somebody for long time.Anyways What attracts to a Scorpio MEN.... Somebody who looks clever,pretty,intriguing
,mysterious but at the same time available.
We don't like to chase too much. Don't play too hard to get but be mysterious.Scorpios
mostly know in room full of people who likes
them and who don't. Be loyal to him,Don't make him jealous just because you want his attention.That would be a real turn off because he would think that you are flighty and flirt.Try to be honest as much as you can. A Honest Confession from a Scorpio Man :He was two timing once for a short time and he hated himself and didn't just enjoy it. Be Simple and even your Simple gestures would be noticed like try to look into his eyes and stare him.Stare him shamelessely as he does. Scorpios stares.What happens when you stare them back with love of course...like telling them something...or showing interest.I would say...he would definitely know that you are staring at him. If he likes you he would make his next move... I am telling this because I was intrigued and found myself really attracted to a younger Cancerian who spoke more with his eyes. I won't say By being a slave but respect him....because he knows who he is....No Personal Jokes..Please ! Sometimes they just think themselves to be right and they are not scared of anything. It might take him to fully trust you but once he will,he will never leave you unless his chart has to say something else.  GAL IP: Logged |
suzyque
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posted March 16, 2005 08:57 AM
I dated a scorpio male for 6 months and it was the most nerve racking, anger provoking, intense experience i ever had. I had heard a lot about being careful with scorpio's but i just had to find out for myself. He must of been a double scorpio or something, i agree with the being a slave comment it's sad but true, they want to be the only interest in your life and i mean only interest. Stroke their ego and whatever you do don't hide anything from them. You really need to stand your ground with them or they will consume you totally. I could have stayed and really put my foot down even more but i just took way too much energy that i don't feel like wasting on one person. My aquarius rising just couldn't take all that possessiveness it was driving me bonkers!!! If you are independant type than stay away from him.IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted March 16, 2005 12:11 PM
By having your own life-don't talk about it, but never have any kind of sexual life separate from him-he will know. Remember everything is personal, do not talk to other men, do not talk to other attractive people.
Mention the word respect a lot.
Get a secure job, set hours, dont' be complicated. Look good and be in shape all the time,
dress, wear you hair, in a feminine style.
Never try to compete with menThis works for Cancer Men too. Natasha
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sue g
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posted March 16, 2005 12:40 PM
One thing you would NEVER do is flirt with his friends, or anyone else..........very jealous, very possessive, very passionate mmmm (wouldnt mind trying one for myself at times, but I think we would burn each other out in seconds)........ x x IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
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posted March 16, 2005 01:00 PM
I know two men with Scorpio Ascendants... so I've picked up a little bit... although not tips for me  They definately like someone cheeky, flirtacious (but only with them of course), someone hot generally... with sexy eyes, like theirs. Haha. Come onto them and praise them shamelessly. They probably won't even realise, or won't care. Depends whether you're talking about building up a relationship or for a night of hot passion  IP: Logged |
sweet_face
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posted March 16, 2005 07:39 PM
Thanx for the tips, hey but i read some where that scorps dont like flattery.IP: Logged |
moonshine
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posted March 16, 2005 08:27 PM
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Autumn wind
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posted March 16, 2005 10:00 PM
Sweet_face, they only don't like flattery if it is fake or insincere! The best thing to be with a Scorpio is to be honest and really mean what you say. Also Scorps don't like head games.
Scorps like things that are "real and genuine!, that includes honest flattery"IP: Logged |
GingerB
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posted March 17, 2005 07:33 AM
Being a female Pisces with knowledge of Scorpio traits also helps out alot.Being this, I unexpectedly found a very nice Scorpio specimen standing nekked in my bedroom one morning, using the guise of his looking for his boxers in my dresser drawer's. LOL! Truth is stranger than fiction! IP: Logged |
GingerB
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posted March 17, 2005 07:48 AM
oh a flirting tip.Look at him with big soulful eyes.
When he comes off with some of that scorpio 'knowing of things' nod, with understanding eyes. (i realise this is easier if you are a pisces, but if you know things before he does, keep them to yourself, then when he comes out with them, and you nod in agreement, he knows you already knew)
That's good for a few good points, toward the 'mystery' that keeps them spell bound.  Oh, and the part about not making them jealous, it's true.
Never works! LOL! IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross
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posted March 17, 2005 10:04 AM
A Scorpio will decide for himself whether or not he wants to be with you.If you are attempting to "play" him,
you are just playing to lose. Just be yourself.
Then, at least you have a chance. But, if you cant do that, then, please,
leave him the **** alone!!!
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sthenri
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posted March 17, 2005 10:11 AM
Odd, I had a naked Scorpio do this to me too, could it be Scorpio men are very proud of their bodies and want to show it off to everyone? In that case I don't get the jealousy, how can one be jealous when he is naked for everyone? It seems juvenile and really immature, and it makes me think that he had no respect for himself.I found it odd, and not sexy at all. I would prefer a clothed man in my bedroom for no reason at all, that turns me on! Scorpiomen are homebodies.
I would just get a home nearby and invite him over for dinner every night. Natasha
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Mama Mia
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posted March 17, 2005 11:31 AM
I have only dated an Scorp once. By the way they love Pisces women. We dated about 7 months but we have been friends for like 8 yrs now. Nothing romantic atleast not for me.
He was so jealous and very possesive, I remember one time he was on one of his trips and he sqwooze my hand so tight that I lost my breath. He had issues. I was crazy about him though. I had to make that so clear to him all the time that I was crazy about him. For the first part of our relationship he kept the upper hand. Then I got it and never gave it back and not interested in him at all now. And he still loves me he said. Scorpio men are a mess and I would really think twice about dating another one.. IP: Logged |
maya-v
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posted March 17, 2005 12:53 PM
What can I say ... just think of all the men you have ever been attracted to, the most romantic, the sexiest, the most sensitive, the most loving and caring, the most intuitive, the most fragile, the most powerful, the most seductive, the most reflective - roll them all into one amazing combination and then you might have an idea of what you are dealing with.He will make all the other guys look like boys in comparison. This is not saying he doesnt need bucketfuls of TLC from you, every hour, on the hour. But if you are not the one for passion, leave him alone, you will only end up very confused and bitter and leave him some scars he will never get over, however much he pretends. He has an iron will, an unbreakable self control and a powerful psychic life. He can look into your eyes and know your deepest darkest secrets and yet understand where you're coming from. I dont know abt you, but for me, that kind of a man is a definite keeper. How to seduce him? Just be your rawest, most honest self ... let him see your passionate vulnerable side, your need for him, your fascination for him. But be sure his heart is engaged before you do, or his vicious tail can rip you to shreds with cold indifference. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted March 17, 2005 01:05 PM
Maya I understand all that you have said and it sounds good infact it is good, but they are to dang on possesive and I cannot deal with that at all. A lil jeolusy I can deal with but Possesivness no. I think it is my Aqua moon and Asc that is resisting that.The best two parts about them that matches very well with me or a Pisces women is the passion and the intuitivness. IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross
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posted March 17, 2005 01:17 PM
The Scorpion needs space. He doesnt always appreciate being known. And, he'll change, if he has to, just to satisfy his obsession for remaining mysterious, no matter how close he seems to be. Intimacy, for the Scorpion, is a vehicle to self-transcendence.
If you can help him to find himself, to know himself, and to love himself, - while allowing him the freedom he needs to transcend what he has found, known, and loved, - he will love you in an infinity of forms, under an infinity of names, forever.IP: Logged |
maya-v
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posted March 17, 2005 01:18 PM
I celebrate the possessivness - its so refreshingly honest when compared to the cold indecisiveness of certain other signs. And whats with all the 'I need my space'? Its actually quite pathetic to see the same guy who left you in the lurch to crawl back to you asking for forgiveness. We all need love, we all get insecure and we all like to call our lovers our own. Sooner or later, even an Aqua can wonder whether you are going to be there in the morning to fix his soy chicory. I am sorry, but I have a very strong opinion lately abt all the archers and gems and stuff harping on abt being trapped and later 'fessing up to needing just that! And yes, Steve, they need space, we all do but I seriously doubt that notion of freedom is the vague emotional indecision of the air signs or the belligerent cry for freedom from a fiery sign. Its more like time to reflect, to fold within oneself and rejuvenate and revive all that latent power and energy. Nothing wrong with that ... its in fact good for both people in a relationship. IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted March 17, 2005 04:57 PM
In your subject line you use the word "seduce" - so you mean you are intent on starting a serious relationship with one? Or you just need a sample pack of his skills? (be warned - you'll never forget it)
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Luna
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posted March 17, 2005 10:06 PM
Beat him in a staring contest
No blinking
No laughing
No taunting
No looking away
Just be the one to hold the longer gaze.Its insanely hard to win against one though IP: Logged |
GingerB
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posted March 18, 2005 02:12 AM
yes it is... quote:
He doesnt always appreciate being known.
this is true as well, I spent most of my time ignoring him.Thinking to him, and he picked up on it.
Though, I do know that he would stand at my door and watch me sleep.
Well, I'd be asleep to start with, but even with your eyes closed, and being asleep, it's hard not to 'know' that someone is watching you sleep, especially if it's a scorpio doing the watching. Another thing, in his house, he has the mirrors hanging so that the reflection is from one area to another, kinda like looking around corners, if that makes sense. I had noticed this upon arrival, before he came back home from another state. (I was a live-in compainion for his grandparent's) When he first walked in the door, I was coming around the corner of the kitchen, and we stood there staring at each other for what seemed like hours, though it wasn't. He was really interesting to observe.
Even while ignoring him. IP: Logged | |
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