posted April 28, 2005 11:56 AM            

A bona fide Mars in Gemini here, how can I help?

Well, generally speaking we're not much into excercise unless we have intellectual motivation for it....
We approach relationships in a childlike, fun way. You know, sex is fun! etc...

Err... what exactly do you want to know?

posted April 28, 2005 02:44 PM              

I'll control myself.

Only an idiot like me would be insecure about a man who doesn't even go out and calls me many times in a day.

I have mental problems.

posted April 28, 2005 06:03 PM              

been wondering about this .. [From: In hell......well sometimes]
seen your posts about and just dropping this in whilst i'm on line

re Mars in Gemini and " .. Are they cheaters? .."
answer: No No no no .. ( in yorkshire accent in time to nodding churchill bulldog )
.Mars in Gem. won't in ITSELF turn someone to cheating .. just wanted to inject that as .. my Mars be in Gem. ... and i can say as a matter of taurean honour .. i've never cheated on a partner :-))
.. also got moon 'n jupiter there as well ..
however maybe the following link may help in matters of astrology .. and deceit / cheating
http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/Neptune_Sun.html

may come back here and drop in personal reflections about Mars in Gem .. for now here's a small note .. i be a musician and play a variety of stringed instruments .. active word for Gem. be variety .. now for some 'variety' ... may just include cheating .. maybe look for aspect connections to their Mars .. [it makes me insecure sometimes.] .... somthing in your chart ??
check out your 'composite with him .. and synastry .. (when 2 charts are compared for inter aspects ) shall be back later ..
.. should you see Dante' .. say hello from the Dragon
be well
HD

posted April 28, 2005 06:44 PM              

very into music, and instruments
like to debate, was on the debate team all of high school
like to pursue humanitarian projects in that protective, take care of everyone sort of way
like to have lots of male friends around all the time
like discussing politics, religion and anything else
like a lot of hugging kissing and holding hands in relationships besides the sex
like variety and spontaneity in sex, everythin from fun to hot n heavy

i get along very well with men; better than usual. not so well always with women. it may have to do with my chart being overwhelmingly populated with masculine signs (venus in aries, stellium in gem, then another stellium in scorpio which is feminine but associated with mars...)

anyhow hope u find that helpful,

i would say, continue to pursue this guy, sometimes mars in gem ppl like it when the other person initiates contact, and remember that it is actually one of the easier mars placements to deal with, the chances of him going aggressive/psycho on you are less, if his mars was in a more intense or aggressive sign it would have been different. also its a mutable sign, and a communicator, your words can turn him on or off, your sun being there is a major plus and work that to your advantage...any contact through phone, email should be more beneficial than in person contact. i tend to get really warm feelings towards ppl who keep in touch with me thru various communicative channels--the internet, mail, ph, along with in person but the rest counts a LOT too.

good luck

posted April 28, 2005 08:36 PM              

Here's a composite between me and him:

Your Sun in Gemini and his Sun in Capricorn
The two of you are very different! Steven approaches life in a much more methodical, planned, patient manner than Jennifer . He uses a clear strategy and is willing to work hard for many long years to gradually achieve the intended goal. He is capable of great reliability and dedication, and will, for example, be willing to work through years of school until the desired degree is achieved, or work through a business or government hierarchy until a top position is achieved. You may also be successful, but the route is very different. You succeed through curiosity, flexibility and adaptability, and communication skills. Unlike him , You are not inclined to persevere through the dry periods but rather moves on to more interesting material once a point of stagnation is reached. Both approaches can work, but they are different, and you may reach points in your lives where you cannot come to an agreement on the proper path to take.

~ often seems like the adult in the relationship and can feel too conservative or serious to You. You are more like the child (or adolescent), being more flexible and playful but also less reliable and consistent.

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Your Sun Conjunct His Mars
Your relationship is a stimulating, energizing, dynamic one. You inspire each other to be very active in both work and play, and to accomplish a great deal. You enjoy challenging each other and probably enjoy competing with each other in games. Sexual attraction to each other is very strong as well. The only negative tendency is to possibly develop a rivalry with each other; this is especially possible if Steven comes on too forcefully, directly and aggressively, hurting Jennifer 's feelings or pride.

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Your Moon Trine His Mercury
You enjoy long talks and you feel very much at home with each other. You are able to openly share your feelings about various issues, whether they are political, religious, or personal in nature. You will find that as you spend more time together, your tastes, interests, hobbies, and activities tend to blend together harmoniously. The feeling of friendship and inner understanding of each other is very satisfying and of a very positive nature.

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Your Moon Opposite His Venus
The love you feel for each other has a particularly sweet, romantic quality that draws the two of you together. You evoke the tender side of each other, and you simply love doing things for each other and giving gifts to one another. Your love for each other is very strong. Because you care for each other so much, you can also hurt each other's feelings rather easily.

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Her Moon Sextile His Saturn
The level of mutual trust and respect for each other is very high. You are very responsible and honest to each other. You are able to communicate your deepest concerns, values, priorities, and moral beliefs with a candidness and frankness that is impossible with most other people. It is likely that your relationship will be a long, stable one.

Composite Report for you and him

Sun 5 AR 5 1N08
Moon 2 AR 50 2N13
Mercury 4 AR 22 2S28
Venus 27 AQ 42 1S37
Mars 12 LE 31 11N35
Jupiter 23 CP 8 3S44
Saturn 8 VI 10 8N58
Uranus 19 SC 1 17S46
Neptune 19 SG 6 21S26
Pluto 17 LI 55 8N50
Node 16 VI 40 3N05
Ascendent 3 TA 42 2N13
Midheaven 6 AQ 3 8S25

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Sun in Aries
The two of you have a lot of impulsive energy at your disposal. You need to be active in the world and are good at leading others. You may have to give up instant gratification and work at putting your partner's needs before your own.
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Moon in Aries
This relationship can be very demanding. You have fiery, impulsive wants and needs. You feel adventurous when you're together. Anger may rise between you quite often, but it passes quickly. Impatient. You arouse each other.
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Ascendent in Taurus
Being together brings out the sensualist in each of you. You enjoy life more fully and feel things more deeply when you are in each other's company. You like your surroundings to be soft and inviting. As a couple you are comfortable to be around.
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Sun Conjunct Moon
You complement one another and bring about a sense of balance and wholeness0 lives. There is a deep and abiding attraction between you, and together you will both feel very unified and more complete than you feel singly. Over time you will begin to feel almost a part of one another.

An important aspect of your purpose together is to bring something new into the world - either physical offspring or "brain children", or both. You will be quite fruitful as a couple.

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Sun Conjunct Mercury
Yours is an intellectual relationship, among other things. Exchanging thoughts, studying together, sharing information, talking and bantering, turning one another on to new books or ideas, sparking one another's curiosity and interest in the world - all of these are important aspects of your relationship. A certain detachment and the ability to think about and talk about what is going on between you are also highlighted. Put simply, becoming more conscious or more informed and educated is a significant reason the two of you are drawn together.

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Sun Sesquiquadrate Uranus
Your relationship may or may not be long lasting, but it will always have a flavor of unpredictability, spontaneity, and surprise. Periodic unexpected events and changes create an unsettled feeling between you, as if you can never quite relax and settle down into a comfortable, established pattern. While you will never be bored with one another, neither will you ever feel quite certain or peacefully secure. However, if your temperaments enable you to he highly flexible and adventurous and willing to take risks, you may be able to ride through the ups and downs.

You are destined to act as "awakeners" for one another. One of you may open the other to something totally new and different, even shocking, which revolutionizes the way you view the world and your place in it - something you may once have considered weird or too "far out". Always there will be the element of experimentation, of following the unexpected twist in the road. Being with one another encourages you both to be more free, unconventional, and impulsive than you might be otherwise.

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Moon Conjunct Mercury
Through your relationship with one another, and especially your intimate conversations, both of you will understand your past histories, your emotions, and your own inner lives much more clearly. Being in one another's presence evokes in both of you the desire to confide, to tell your stories, to speak about your private selves. You are able to talk for hours. There is often a sentimental or nostalgic tone to your discussions. Visiting old childhood haunts together, studying your family trees, looking at and discussing old photographs, describing your dreams to each other, talking about your children or your mate or parents - this type of sharing will be a crucial aspect of your bond. Even if you are not the sort of person who discusses feelings or readily confides in others, you'll find that with this particular person, you can and will. You make good counselors for one another.

At times you may feel that your discussions are too subjective, or always become personal even when the initial topic is broad and rather impersonal. For the two or you, emotional attitudes and feelings will always color your communication. This is an essential part of the purpose of your relationship: examining feelings and the past in order to understand them.

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Moon Sesquiquadrate Uranus
The two of you are destined to have a rather unsettling affect upon one another. Your relationship may begin quite suddenly and unexpectedly, disrupting your normal routines and perhaps other relationships you are engaged in. There is an electric excitement between you which can be very thrilling, but also unnerving. Emotional impulsiveness and "acting crazy" together, doing things that are totally out of character or far more radical and daring that either of you would be inclined to do alone, are to be expected.

For a long time you may have an unstable, on-again/off-again connection with one another, and unless there are other stabilizing factors between you, that's all it may ever be.

for Me , born on 19 June 1982
and Him , born on 3 January 1976

Text by Robert Hand
Copyright © Astrodienst AG 2000

Introduction
Sun in the Twelfth House * Sun Conjunct Moon * Sun Conjunct Mercury * Moon in the Twelfth House * Moon Conjunct Mercury * Venus in the Tenth House
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Introduction

This report is a short edition of your and your partner's AstroText Partner. It is meant as a sample and advertisement for the full version of AstroText Partner which can be ordered from Astrodienst as a bound report of about 20 - 30 pages.

In the short edition, only a few, but nevertheless important aspects of your natal chart are considered. The short version concentrates more on the positive aspects of this relationship.

Sun in the Twelfth House

Composite Sun in the twelfth house is a significant position, but it presents challenges that many people find difficult to deal with.

It indicates that through this relationship both of you will encounter aspects of your inner selves that you would normally keep hidden from yourselves as well as from others.

The most difficult result of this Sun placement is that it may make the relationship self- defeating for both of you, particularly if you are not completely honest with each other. Unless you disclose all secrets, they will cause one or both of you to behave in a way that will undermine not only the relationship but your own self-esteem as well.

In any personal relationship, this placement demands that you thoroughly search your innermost selves to understand how previously hidden psychological traits are operating within the relationship. This encounter will make each of you grow as individuals, and the growth it can bring about is more important than your survival as a couple.

Sun Conjunct Moon

With Sun conjunct Moon in the composite chart, the two of you will have a single- mindedness of purpose that is usually lacking in other relationships. This aspect is especially good in the chart of a love relationship. It indicates that you are truly complementary partners.

Your relationship has the potential for bringing something new into the world. This position indicates that you are somehow more complete as a partnership than as individuals.

Sun Conjunct Mercury

The conjunction of composite Sun and Mercury signifies that there will be a great deal of mental activity in this relationship. This aspect is good for verbal communication between you.

You both should be wary of the tendency to intellectualize your emotions rather than deal with them at the gut level.

You have an unusual similarity of thinking, or at least a better than average ability to understand each other's thinking.

Mercury is a planet of travel, not always in the literal sense of the word, but in the metaphorical sense; that is, you like to be continually exposed to new ideas and experiences together.

One of the most positive attributes of this aspect is the ability to be detached from what you are discussing. Because of this detachment you may even be able to talk about your relationship and arrive at understandings that will help you both to get more out of it.

Moon in the Twelfth House

The composite Moon in the twelfth house requires the two of you to do a great deal of work that most couples are unwilling to do.

With this house position of the Moon, the greatest danger is emotional dishonesty at the very least and sometimes open and outright dishonesty.

The need here is for both of you to plunge into the relationship, find out the truth of what is going on, and face it squarely and honestly.

If you don't seek out the truth, your relationship will give you the feeling that you have been defeated in life by forces you don't understand. And when the repressed feelings finally do emerge, they will explode destructively. If, however, these feelings gradually emerge from an honest search for understanding, the wisdom you gain will make you much wiser than people who haven't had to face such a challenge.

Note: The Moon is technically near the end of house 11 and is therefore interpreted in house 12.

Moon Conjunct Mercury

The conjunction of the composite Moon and Mercury can contribute many strong and useful features to a relationship. Very simply, it means that the two of you can talk about your feelings instead of keeping them bottled up inside. The Moon conjunct Mercury may have two different kinds of effects.

If the lunar tendency triumphs, you will be able to discuss your emotional situations, but you will be very emotionally involved and subjective. On the other hand, you will really live and feel your emotions, so that something real is communicated between you.

If the mercurial tendency dominates, you will be more detached and rational but also less involved.

Obviously the best tactic with this aspect is to create some kind of balance between these two extremes.

Venus in the Tenth House

Your experience of love within this relationship will very strongly affect the lives of both of you.

On the psychological level, this relationship will aid both of you in discovering what you want to do with your lives. Loving each other should reinforce you and give you greater confidence in yourselves.

At the same time, this relationship will teach you about the nature of love and how you relate to others on an intimate personal level. The only way you can learn what living with another person means is by doing so.

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AstroText Partner - Short Edition

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for Me (female)
born on 19 June 1982 local time 07:49 am
in New York, NY (US) U.T. 11:49
74w00, 40n43 sid. time 00:42:31
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Gemini 27°52'09 12
Moon Taurus 29°31'58 11
Mercury Gemini 07°46'37 11
Venus Taurus 22°54'09 11
Mars Libra 08°19'27 03
Jupiter Scorpio 00°32'22 04
Saturn Libra 15°29'54 04
Uranus Sagittarius 01°34'37 05
Neptune Sagittarius 25°36'24 06
Pluto Libra 24°10'45 04
True Node Cancer 13°22'33 12

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Cancer 27°29'48
2nd House Leo 17°27'11
3rd House Virgo 11°17'51
Imum Coeli Libra 11°33'31
5th House Scorpio 18°15'37
6th House Sagittarius 25°34'35
Descendant Capricorn 27°29'48
8th House Aquarius 17°27'11
9th House Pisces 11°17'51
Medium Coeli Aries 11°33'31
11th House Taurus 18°15'37
12th House Gemini 25°34'35

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and Him (male)
born on 3 Jan 1976 local time 09:00 am
in New York, NY (US) U.T. 14:00
74w00, 40n43 sid. time 15:53:20
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Capricorn 12°19'32 11/12
Moon Aquarius 06°09'12 12
Mercury Aquarius 00°58'09 12
Venus Sagittarius 02°29'25 10
Mars Gemini 16°43'45 04
Jupiter Aries 15°43'54 02
Saturn Leo 00°52'02 06
Uranus Scorpio 06°28'22 09
Neptune Sagittarius 12°36'54 10
Pluto Libra 11°40'33 08
True Node Scorpio 20°28'30 09

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Aquarius 09°52'17
2nd House Pisces 27°34'53
3rd House Taurus 04°24'50
Imum Coeli Gemini 00°29'37
5th House Gemini 21°50'37
6th House Cancer 13°03'51
Descendant Leo 09°52'17
8th House Virgo 27°34'53
9th House Scorpio 04°24'50
Medium Coeli Sagittarius 00°29'37
11th House Sagittarius 21°50'37
12th House Capricorn 13°03'51

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Composite Horoscope midpoint method
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Aries 05°05'50 12
Moon Aries 02°50'35 11/12
Moon is technically near the end of house 11 and is interpreted in house 12.
Mercury Aries 04°22'23 12
Venus Aquarius 27°41'47 10
Mars Leo 12°31'36 04
Jupiter Capricorn 23°08'08 09
Saturn Virgo 08°10'58 05
Uranus Scorpio 19°01'30 07
Neptune Sagittarius 19°06'39 08
Pluto Libra 17°55'39 06
True Node Virgo 16°55'32 05

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Taurus 03°41'03
2nd House Gemini 07°31'02
3rd House Cancer 07°51'20
Imum Coeli Leo 06°01'34
5th House Virgo 05°03'07
6th House Libra 04°19'13
Descendant Scorpio 03°41'03
8th House Sagittarius 07°31'02
9th House Capricorn 07°51'20
Medium Coeli Aquarius 06°01'34
11th House Pisces 05°03'07
12th House Aries 04°19'13