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Topic: Long Distance relationship - Do they work?
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freebird unregistered
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posted July 22, 2005 12:21 AM
I am just wondering how much of you all believe in it.Do you think it's possible? OR Is it some kind of option and still would be looking for somebody else? Which signs are most likely to keep their relationship long distance? Which signs just can't think of having one ? What about the temptation one faces all the time? Can you trust your partner when he is far from you? Which signs can probabaly pull one and wouldn't feel bad or lonely? OMG I have so many questions.lol...Anyways hoping to hear soon.
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DayDreamer unregistered
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posted July 22, 2005 01:30 AM
Long distance relationships work only for a little while. You may be able to keep up and deal with a long distance relationship, but the other party might not. It's a gamble. Best to ask and discuss it with the one you're talking to...and if it's a Gemini...I'm not too sure...they do love talking on the phone, but they're flirts too.No clue what signs are most likely to keep a long distance relationship. I would think fire signs would be the least likely to keep it going, but I'm not sure. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 8846 From: Santa Rosa, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2005 01:48 AM
YEah, it really depends on what's going on in each of the people's lives. For some it can be great and quite secure, but there has to be a good deal of trust on both sides. Growing up I never liked to date anyone from my school. I didn't like the constant contact. It made me feel tied down (Venus in Sag). However, I was completely faithful to my girlfriends who weren't there to monitor me.I think you've generally got a loyal lover in earth and water signs. IP: Logged |
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posted July 22, 2005 01:55 AM
I feel the same way with Venus in Sag...don't like to be tied down, need my space, but I have high ideals and I'm completely and utterly faithful Good stuff Oh but maybe the house it's in might have to do with being faithful too...the 7th house of marriage and partnerships. IP: Logged |
Sweet Utopia unregistered
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posted July 22, 2005 02:19 AM
I won't be able to. I need someone there to cuddle with, talk to, go out with, and kiss and cuddle with some more.------------------ Gemini sun Cancer rising Taurus moon IP: Logged |
cancerrg Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 22, 2005 06:16 AM
PRACTAICALLY , THEY DONT .IP: Logged |
cancerrg Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 22, 2005 08:28 AM
but yeah , i think they can work . its real tough but then again i feel it can work. second part of the question relates to the commitent of the person . as i said it tough, it would be the real test. can't say if some one would like thier loved ones to be far but i have sen cancers maintiuaning thier commitment even when they were far away .( i am talking of the men)
not sure of the third one .
even those cancers fell to the temptations , hope i have answered the question. my guess is taurus , cancer , scorp , aquas ,and may be libra and aries( female) to an extent can pull it off. me: cancer-sun , taurus:moon, asc:aries. what about yours ?
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artlovesdawn unregistered
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posted July 22, 2005 08:39 AM
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freebird unregistered
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posted July 22, 2005 10:46 AM
Artlovesdawn : It's so nice to hear positive things about Long distance relationship.What are your placementsCancerrg: You are confused.I assume it's not easy but can be done for Cancers. As for my placements I am going to send my pic so everyone can guess.It won't be any fun if I told you the placements. IP: Logged |
artlovesdawn unregistered
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posted July 22, 2005 11:01 AM
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posted July 22, 2005 11:03 AM
It depends on the ppl involved *personally, I need someone around me(my cancer sun talking)IP: Logged |
freebird unregistered
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posted July 22, 2005 11:31 AM
I am glad we are in the same country.well it would be max.about 2hrs by plane. IP: Logged |
MAGUS of MUSIC unregistered
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posted July 22, 2005 12:04 PM
Beyond the 2 peaple involved,,, I would say its realy gota be "ment to be" atleast as much in the fairy tales. Not that it couldnt be made to work, just that I see it as alot of unecesary hard ship on both individuals no matter what. So it better realy realy be worth it. We're talkin no other combination would possably have the both as happy and magickal. IP: Logged |
cancerrg Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 23, 2005 09:26 AM
quote: Cancerrg: You are confused.I assume it's not easy but can be done for Cancers
?????????????????????????????are u reffering to the two posts . hey , tyhe first one was instinctive , second one is the thought one IP: Logged |
marcia unregistered
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posted July 23, 2005 09:57 AM
I only live 6 short blocks away from the man I love.
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artlovesdawn unregistered
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posted July 23, 2005 10:04 AM
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freebird unregistered
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posted July 23, 2005 10:30 AM
Yes cancerrg.artlovesdawn: Thanks ! for good wished Let's see how it goes. I think for me it's good to have long distance as i would get really bugged if somebody is going to question where i am going and what I am doing.I think when I would get married and stay together that might be ok but for now I need some air.
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alanabelle86 Knowflake Posts: 89 From: somewhere over the rainbow Registered: May 2009
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posted July 23, 2005 10:44 AM
yes, anything is possible and can work out if both parties want it to and are willing to make the commitment to... ------------------ Scorpio Sun, Libra Rising, Leo Moon IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 124 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted July 23, 2005 11:28 AM
I know someone who has a sort of long-distance relationship going. A lot of people say it's stupid and doesn't work, but for romance's sake, I'd say go for it. Turns out this guy and girl are in love... so you never know. Oh, and absence makes the heart grow fonder.IP: Logged |
cancerrg Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 24, 2005 05:26 AM
"the distance makes heart grow fonder": not necessarilly ,mnf. btw whatz the sign and other aspects of these two lovers? IP: Logged |
monmonitaa unregistered
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posted July 24, 2005 08:32 AM
I think whether long distance relationships would last or not MAJORLY depends on how long ur relationship was before it turned into long distance. How strong the base of that relationship is.The reason i put emphasis on that, is because that way the couple get to experience certain basic stages in a relationship before they build and define their TOGETHERNESSS. Then they can seperate..knowing they know each other SO WELL, and they are SURE about being together. However if the distance starts too early on in the relationship... going through such stages from a distance not only takes longer...but is much more bumpy in the sense,,that u keep getting mixed messages,,,dont because of ur partner's fault,,but because of the disrupption in the channels of communication..You find urself getting emotionally drained...because u suddenly place all ur romantic expectations ON A PHONE CALL....which can be really frustrating!!! I ve been through 2 long distance relationships..and in both cases... i didnt spend enough time with the person IN A RELATIONSHIP before the distance...and i ended up with the same conclusion twice.. I DONT KNOW WHAT THEY RE THINKING I DUNNO WHO THEY R so when it comes to long distance.....loyalty is not the major problem... IP: Logged |
freebird unregistered
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posted July 24, 2005 11:04 AM
monmonitaa : quote: I think whether long distance relationships would last or not MAJORLY depends on how long ur relationship was before it turned into long distance. How strong the base of that relationship is.
Fully Agree but there are people who love each other,get into relationship,treated like crap and come out of the disaster little stronger. Been there done that. quote: I DONT KNOW WHAT THEY RE THINKING I DUNNO WHO THEY R
Imagine guy telling about his ex girlfriend and how they are still togather and consider her to be his sister and then **** her.This all while he tells you that you are his girlfriend.Atlast after all this you come to know he never had ex gf.Insane ! What a liar ? Why all this still no clue ? Probably to get attention. quote: so when it comes to long distance.....loyalty is not the major problem...
You don't sound any of the possessive signs. I am NOT THAT possessive BUT atleast would expect some kind of loyalty when we have known each other from some time.
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astro junkie unregistered
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posted July 26, 2005 12:10 PM
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Inner depths unregistered
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posted May 13, 2008 08:07 PM
I am in one at the moment though he lives an hour away from me. We talk daily on the phone or online and wee each other twice a week. We were friends first for a year before we hooked up and now it's been a few months. He's got a tonnes of Saggy influences in his chart and I have a freedom loving influnce in my chart.....I think it works but the jury is still out on Lond distance relationships... ID IP: Logged |
Battle of Evermore Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 13, 2008 09:03 PM
I'm a Virgo in a long distance relationship with a Cancer man right now. We were together for a year and a half before he got stationed in Japan. Some of that time was spent apart too though because of boot camp and being stationed an hour away for job training. It is hard, this is true... we never fought, but we just had a fight because I kissed someone else because our relationship status was not official and we were in some ambiguous line between being in a relationship and being single. We weren't planning on staying together, but we've been apart for 7 months and still want to be together, so we decided to stay together at least for now. I had some things that I was angry with him for as well, so we talked it out and seem to be on good terms now. So basically, I don't believe in them, but I'm in one. It seems to be working right now, but I don't know how long I want to try to do this. He is my best friend, and I don't want to destroy that. My Moon is in Leo and his is in Libra though, and that creates some tension because he doesn't like to be without a lover and considers dating other girls sometimes, and I get very jealous (so does he) and have a lot of men who would like to date me. I'm not being vain, it's just the Leo playgirl streak that Linda talks about, lol. We always ultimately decide to stay together though, because we love each other and the other options don't seem to compare. IP: Logged |