posted August 31, 2005 06:57 AM            

Yes, male pisceans tend to have a lot of female - aquaintances (I think would be a more appropriate term) But rest assured, if you are the chosen partner of a piscean - you will always be the alpha female in his mind and he would not dream of another, so relax - it will be you he desires , not them, even if they were once his partner

posted August 31, 2005 10:28 AM            

However, mars is also in the first house so this is what everyone sees me as...

Which is mad really, considering the amount of pisces I have in my chart. But at least, as they say, never judge a book by it's cover!!!!

Everyone seeing me as an aggressive or more truthfully, threatening type of individual, in appearance, really are way off the mark - if only they had the slightest clue as to what they are judging they would be so ashamed of their imature opinions!! ha ha

Sorry to dissapoint on the fire sign part.

As with all mars placements though, depending on the advancement of the individuals character, the energies of the mars sign can be used creatively or destructively, you'll need to find another fire sign mars piscean to help you with this one, sorry

posted August 31, 2005 11:00 AM              

Thank you for your reply. It makes a lot of sense that pisces men/women have so many x partners that they still keep on good terms but only have time for the current partner.

Hi Viper,

posted August 31, 2005 03:24 PM              

Thanks for replying. I am still waiting for Mr. Pisces to resurface at some stage, but I find that upon reading your replies, I seek consolation in some respect. I wish I did not have so much fire and water in my chart, because I can get so emotional and then with my Gemini Rising, I am all over the place. Thanks again.

Hi Mama Mia,

posted August 31, 2005 04:24 PM            

I have a pisces moon so i understand the need for freedom and 'aloneness', but my virgo sun needs to know where things stand! Do you think i should speak to him becuase I am afraid he will disappear for good if he thinks I am pinning him down, or something (which i do not want to do).

posted August 31, 2005 07:41 PM            

Am sure you both know what I am saying?

posted August 31, 2005 08:03 PM              

I think you should be very careful to look closely at your beaux's entire charts. I don't mean to interject and throw cold water on the Pisces dreamy juggernaut phemonenon. LOL....

For example my PISCES sun Dad has a Taurus Venus and an Aqua Moon. He has always been very dreamy, compassionate and easily hurt (Pisces), stubborn (Taurus) and somewhat detached (Aqua). He is a consummate gardener, loves the water and his gardening. He was married to a Scorpio woman with an Aqua moon for 44 years. He had her on a pedestal but he was very secretive, moody and went through a very brief but memorable bad patch with alcohol (he never drinks now as a result). He is sweet but also laid back bordering on passive aggressive. (Pisces Meet Mr. Aqua and Mrs Taurus). He will also help anyone, anywhere, any time.

My point is, it's very complex. I do NOT think a Pisces with a Gemini MOON is going to be as sentimental and probably not clingy--I mean you are talking an AIR Moon here and they are going to want their space. I am a Gemini Sun and Mercury and even with this Taurus VENUS, I am incredibly independent and do without people for long stretches of time. I can be very sentimental and even weepy romantic but when I want my space (often), please give it up.

Viper you sound lovely but all that PISCES is like the Olympic Diving Competition
of PISCES. It reminds me of my little brother with the five Tauruses. Yeah he acts like a "Taurus." Well hell yeah baby, we see Taurus on your forehead walking across the street.

posted August 31, 2005 08:09 PM              

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all that PISCES is like the Olympic Diving Competition of PISCES

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posted September 01, 2005 04:00 AM            

Is hidden well Lillygirl, under the mask of Mars and Aries!!

no one would ever know - only show the real self to my closest....which are few

but thankyou

ha ha LOL

posted September 01, 2005 06:31 AM              

Just wish to reply and say that I have great time for pisces people, men/women. As they are the feeling sign, they are great to release problems to and they instintly know if you are feeling down etc. They can pick up on other peoples vibes. They are the happiest of people when they enter a room and people are immediately drawn to them. I find that the pisces I know is very considerate, kind and a very good heart. Because he has Mars in Sagg, he tends to like the outdoors and having his own space. Because I have not heard for a while, I am sorry to be asking so many questions on same. That is why, viper, I needed your responses to questions to hand, which were brilliant and really helped me. Moonshine, I have a Venus in Taurus and love the countryside and people with Venus in Taurus and very genuine to the person they are with or married to. The Taurus side provides stability in a relationship and a good grounding force. I find having that, I can be logical at the best of times, otherwise I would be all over the place. I love plants and flowers with said Venus sign and the countryside especially. Again everyone, thanks for helping out. I am hoping to start a course in Astrology soon and this FORUM is the best.

Bye for now.

posted September 03, 2005 12:23 AM              

I met another Piscean after that, and he reminds me so much of my ex. The funny thing is, I knew he was a Piscean before he had told me. There is something very dreamy about Pisceans and at the same time...so unstable.

posted September 03, 2005 09:09 AM              

PS Viper, I have Mars in Aries which I have finely tuned. It's has the nerve to almost be pretty now. Maturing seems to make that aspect more trained and oddly beneficial.

Pisces. My take: The fabulous: Sweet, dreamy, compassionate, intelligent but sensitive, good listeners, sexy in a warm water flowing over your bikini bottoms sort of way..

The wretched bad news: Often drinkers, escape artists, ostrich disease ("Hey look my head's in the sand everyone, and whether they mean to or not--they can be shhhh..hmmm...liars. I think that part comes from not wanting to hurt you or themselves (LOL) but if you are a straight shooter it can have a very harsh impact.

Also thing about him "talking" to someone before he broke up with you. Ask me about "talking". For some persons the talking is just as good as the intimacy of sex. As a Gem, this I can relate to.

posted September 04, 2005 05:50 AM            

Ive gone off him now anyway! I think he's rude, selfish and unthinking and living in his "dreamy little pisces world" is no excuse! He KNOWS he's hurt my feelings but he just stays away because he's too cowardly to come and talk to me. And I want to talk to him so bad! But i wont becuase Im too proud.

I now remember why Ive always had a love/hate relationship with pisces men. At first they always seem lovely to me, and for some reason I am always irresistably drawn to them... but almost invariably I am left disappointed. This one was no exception.

What I am drawn to in a man — and what i NEED from them — are two different things. And pisces men just dont seem to be able to give me what i need.

posted September 06, 2005 02:45 AM            

What you have just described - Pull you in, shut you out' is very aquarius.

My X g/f has very same placement. Make her very cold in the emotional stakes, when it is her emotions at stake.

Venus in Aqua is very aloof. It is almost as if it begs for you to hear their wows and turmoil and asks for sympathy, but the moment you yourself try to open up to them and share some of your inner feelings, they close down. They appear to be uncofortable or not interested in what you may feel or think. It is always around them.

I have found they have a somewhat selfish streak to them. I am not suggesting your friend or all venus in aqua people have, but the ones I know certainly do. It's a somewhat detatched manner toward emotion and expressions of it.

When they want you, they want you but that doesn't mean they will want you for ever. They can turn it off at the drop of a hat. And there's often this somewhat matter of fact mannerisms about them. Dealing with actual evidence oppossed to using or permitting feelings or emotions to overide their decissions.

Something else I have noted with this placement, they are rarley alone!!!! Due to Aqua's need for friendship and communication they nearly always have people around them. And this can manifest in some of the strangest of ways - being ruled by the planet of sudden change and all!!

For example. They can be in a relationship with someone then all of a sudden, stop it if someone else comes along. They will see nothing wrong with this and even consider themselves being nice to both parties. This other person may only be around for a week or two then no sooner have they vanished from their live they are knocking down your door seeking you out once more. ????

Almost as if they are desperate for attention, from whoever!!!! without a thought as to how or what upset they may have caused in the process. Very odd!!

They value friendship more than love and more often than not, people with venus in Aqua, often get involved with people through the friendship angle rather than the sexual one. The prospect of steamy nights of passion with these individuals are often only a figment of the imagination because below it all, they are very reserved in this department!!!!

It's almost as if the sensitivities of Pisces are hardened and somewhat cooled when a fish has this placement of venus. They are often - not always, but often - unable to open up to their natural channels of psychic energy due to this placement. It's almost as if Uranus, for all it's weird and oddball ways - simply cannot come to terms with the deeper realms of weirdness!!!!!as he sees it!!!

posted September 06, 2005 06:38 AM            

I don't think Venus in Pisces actually produces the jealousy streak. As you say it is more a traurean thing for jealousy. Not inasmuch as all taureans are jelous, for that is not what I mean. As Leo and Scorpio are two other signs often prone to bouts of intense jealousy, but again, not necessarily the sun or moon placements within these signs

But Taurus is fond of possesions and as such often may seem possesive of their property!!!

Mars and Venus in Taurus produces more of these energies than, oh and of course Pluto, but one would need to be quite old, these days to have Pluto in Taurus??

Venus in Pisces is more fearful of losing their beloved ideal of perfection, they see their partner as, and as such this may give the confussed illusion of being possesive or showing signs of jealousy regards them when in fact it is more a case of them actually dreading the possibility that their adored partner may find somebody else they like more and leave them.

This is a very comon energy of Venus in Pisces, especially considering the house positions of venus. However, as with all Neptunian energies it is always a fine line between illusion and dellusion so Venus here is well aware that some times, their beloved was never meant to be theirs in the first place and will let go of the partner believing they were never meant to be anyway!!! resulting in martydom pisces often seeks to clarify it's position within the universe.