posted September 06, 2005 07:36 AM            

If being shy or scared, it does not usually ionvolve a dissapearance (could never spell that word!)

In as much as he or they, would still be around and talk when approached (prob can't spell that word either!)or in company

When offended or hurt, they would vanish my dear. Often followed by a slight period of licking one's wounds and ignoring the offending individual, whether by ignoring phone calls, e-mails etc.. almost as far as litteraly ignoring the person should they be in the same place! - but they would not be rude with it. They would aknowledge them by saying godd morning or whatever, but then nothing more.

Oh, and very little eye contact, a shy fish will look at you quite contently, an offended one will avoid all eye contact

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I must be an odd ball fish then. I avoid eye contact with everyone?? virtually always. Only make strong eye contact with the other half, very very rarely with anyone else

maybe I'm just insane!!

posted September 06, 2005 10:25 AM              

Regarding the above post...what does 'disappear' entail?? Taking a few days off if offended?? Then coming around again? Or is that a permanent disappearance you are talking about?? There seem to be different levels of pulling back or disappearing with Pisces I feel.

I am asking more about when a Pis guy pulls back a little...not calling for a day...if a rather assertive sexual remark is made in a message perhaps...and then comes around again...like nothing ever happened. What is that about?? Do you know??? I feel that this action has more to do with shyness because of emotion involved...him being afraid of the depth of his desire perhaps...and maybe not so much offended...just being shy?

Would that fit a Pisces in Love? Or an offended Pisces??

posted September 06, 2005 11:48 AM            

A bit like being introduced to someone for the first time and then their stairing straight into your eyes almost like burning into you without removing their gaze.......no no no no no.......I find it
really rude of them, so in turn I guess I try not to do it to other people incase, they feel the same way? don't know.

Once I've met them a couple of times or got to know them, is not so bad.
But even at work, I can listen quite intently to a colleague and act on the info without the need for eye contact.

Mind you I work in a very male oriented environment so there may be a bit too much macho testosterone kicking around to keep starring lovingly into each others eyes....Ha ha ha ha LOL

Now back to my dear Gem - Firstly something tells me you are trying to answer something for yourself here? Have you upset someone? or do think you may have?

Personally, If I were to not call my partner for a day or so it would be due to one of three things.

Firstly, I'd gone off her suddenly - which just doesn't happen - no siree - it takes days and days to really hate them ha ha ha ha ha LOL - no seriously, is not really a thing pisces tend to do, they usually love their partner, period.

Secondly, I'd been kidnapped and the bugg**s had stolen my mobile phone!! - which again, is quite a rare occurance - in fact, thinking about it, can't say it's EVER happened!!!! so again is probabally not that serious

And thirdly, If they're feeling suffocated or being forced into something, they may pull away and hide for a day or two, returning with some oh, sorry I fell asleep and before I knew it, it was morning, type total lie!!! - it may happen on the very odd occasion but usually it is a sign that something deeper is going on and they're not happy about something.

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'If a rather assertive sexual remark is made in a message perhaps...and then comes around again...like nothing ever happened'

Never known this to baffle or scare off the usual fish.....dare I ask what was asked?

They can usually take anything said to them without fear of an uproar or even a comment on some occassions.

So in truth - I'm stuck on this one!!!!!

Give me some time, I shal ponder for a while

posted September 06, 2005 12:02 PM              

With him, when he takes a step back, it is usually him being overwhelmed....we have some very powerful aspects between us that can cause an imbalance occasionally when deeper emotions are revealed. (His Moon opposed my Pluto...and his Pluto sq my Venus). Sometimes I throw him a left curve just to see how he will react!! He is always fine with it...my gut usually tells me he is re-grouping his emotions! He has too much going on right now...and seems a bit overwhelmed by Life at the moment...and understandably so...he has Uranus transiting over his ASC back and forth currently so I can feel him nearly ready to break out into a new level in his Life!!

Thanks for your ideas....
I also understand your need to not overwhelm someone by 'staring' at them....not polite at all!
But staring and connecting are two different things. Connecting with quick glances is a way to acknowledge and build trust with someone...even another man.
However, not meeting someone's brief gaze is a sign of passivity...and insecurity usually...
(At least that is how it might be seen).
Do you agree?? Just my thoughts...

posted October 02, 2005 04:13 AM              

I think if Pisces is in love, he would himself make moves and if you go along, you are for it. As Mamamia said, "we offer our whole complete selves no halves at all and gift the time..." and thats the sign
I don't go in mood swings, that would be rare, however I am a quiet person and do like quiet moments. But when I think of me going away in my quiet land without my sweety, is it a possible thing.
I think if your pisces guy isn't yet fully involved in you, then his moodines would probably be normal and would be same with everyone (whether its you or someone else).

Hey viper, I too avoid eye contacts...noooo not insanity, maybe having eye contact is like getting close to other person, which we don't want...or maybe other person would get to know your self or maybe just lack of confidence or maybe the thoughts going in our minds not letting us concentrate or maybe we are not used to such long long eye contacts ... I still sometimes try to figure out. Short glance is fine, but I can't put my eyes fixed for a long interval while interacting with someone ...
This has sometimes led me in quiet embarrassing situtations with females... the moment I try to avoid the eye contact, it is natural that it goes down & u know what other female's reaction would be ... she becomes concious that she showing off something down ... ohh when will I learn to fix my eyes to be focussed

ciao

posted November 29, 2022 06:34 PM            

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Originally posted by LILYGIRL:
I have Gem sun and mercury and am upbeat about 85% of the time. That might also be the Aries and Sag in the chart.

I am not familiar with the Gemini Moon but I know Pisces regardless of how long they have been involved with someone can get sad, withdraw go into a shell. It's WATER baby. The thing that I think is tough for Aries ( I have Moon and Mars) is that Fire wooshes in and whisks out moods with great speed and fervor. I know alot of Aries and they generally-- do not stay angry or depressed for extended periods of time. They almost think, "If I get in motion I will eventually feel better." And eventually for them, is sooner rather than later. I think Pisces can get very contemplative and absent for periods.

I wish a Pisces --like Mama Mia or a few Pisces gentlemen would chime in for you.

But I concur that a MOON really alters the basic write up on a SUN!

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posted November 29, 2022 06:35 PM            

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Originally posted by nove731:
I have my Venus, Vertex, and Descendant in Pisces. If that counts for anything, really. I don't know. I generally don't go out on a limb and chase people. I guess that makes me rather atypical for a guy. Hrm. I don't know. I just let people come to me. I figure if something is meant to happen it'll come to me. Maybe that's a mistake, or wishful thinking. I'm not sure. I guess it's even odder, considering, that I have an Aries Sun, and a Sag. Moon...

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