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Mystic Gemini
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posted September 25, 2005 08:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What aspects would cause this? And I am not talking about sexual aspects.

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pixelpixie
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posted September 25, 2005 08:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Probably strong contacts between your personal planets and angles. Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars. Ascendant/IC/Desc/MC.
Strong Pluto would be good too. Squares are oddly magnetizing. Conjunctions would bring familiarity.
Usually 'sexual aspects' come into it. Whether you want me to talk about them or not.

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WaterNymph
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posted September 26, 2005 08:21 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How about Sun or Moon forming a hard aspect with the other's Sun/Moon midpoint?

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GemStar
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posted September 26, 2005 08:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Transiting Venus conjunct natal Uranus...

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Mystic Gemini
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posted September 26, 2005 08:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I meant synastry.


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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

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proxieme
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posted September 26, 2005 09:06 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"Classic" Aspects:

Sun conj. Moon.
(My 1d Aqua Moon's conj. my Husband's 1d Aqua Sun)...
But that's really kinda more like, "Dude! I know you!" at first sight.

Happy Moon/Venus things don't hurt, either - in my experience, they seem to make for a bit of an emotional understanding.
(Me: Aqua Moon, Taurean Venus; He: Taurean Moon, Aqua Venus)

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Mama Mia
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posted September 26, 2005 10:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh yes I would say Sun/Moon Conjunctions and Venus/Sun Cinjunctions and Moon/Venus conjunctions somewhat..

Ive had this in a few relationships and it has always been real powerful when we first met, we kinda of just gazed at each other for a minute b4 even saying hi,,, LOL..

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Mystic Gemini
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posted September 26, 2005 11:02 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have sun trine venus with a scorpio. Would that be an aspect that I can include in this?


I had Sun conj. Moon with my ex cappy.

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pixelpixie
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posted September 26, 2005 12:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
( i was talking synastry)

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Mystic Gemini
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posted September 26, 2005 01:29 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes I know. I meant to say it to Gem Star.


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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

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(¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity
Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start

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MoonDuchess88
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posted September 26, 2005 05:33 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun/moon midpoint hard aspects

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Jazzebel
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posted September 26, 2005 08:27 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus of one conjuncting Uranus of another, instant sparks! Been there, done that- its irresistible

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Mystic Gemini
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posted September 26, 2005 09:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had venus conjucnt uranus with my ex cappy.


That messed up everything.

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

*´¨)
¸.·´¸.·*´¨) ¸.·*¨)
(¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity
Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start

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posted September 06, 2012 10:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jovian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I echo the Venus-Uranus connections as being electric at first sight.

How about Venus conj Asc? Felt by the Venus person, that is. The Ascendant partner appears to be your "ideal."

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posted September 09, 2012 01:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CRCRINCON     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had love at first sight with my husband (been together 8 years and married 4) I'm still so inlove with him it's ridiculous...Not sure what created it??? I am not sure if we share the "common" themes astrologically people speak of.

Intuitively I know it has something to do with his Sun Gemini/Taurus Moon. That combo has always attracted me to people. But with him, the moment I met him, I couldn't stop thinking about him. I was even with someone else when we first met. And for months it ate me up because I knew I was falling inlove with him and wasn't sure if we would ever get a chance to be together romantically.

We have Venus Square Uranus.

His moon squares my Venus, trine my mars, inconjunct my NN and Widely (7degree) trine my ASC. My moon sextile his ASC. My pluto opposed to his ASC.

We also have:
Sun Conjunct SN
Moon Trine Pluto
Moon Opposed Venus
Mars opposed Pluto
Venus Trine Mars

Okay - So we have MC inconjunct ASC
ASC conjunct MC (large orb of 8 though)

Think those aspects would affect "love at first sight"???

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libragemmale
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posted September 11, 2012 09:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libragemmale     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My partner and I have Sun conj. Pluto and we had love at first sight . I always thought Venus conjunct mars or venus conjunct moon to be pretty darn powerful among the active planets.
I had my venus stuck in a woman's Moon and found her incredibly irrisistable on a sexual and emotional level.

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Randall
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posted September 13, 2012 10:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Pinkie&TheBrain
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posted September 13, 2012 01:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pinkie&TheBrain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by CRCRINCON:
I had love at first sight with my husband (been together 8 years and married 4) I'm still so inlove with him it's ridiculous...Not sure what created it??? I am not sure if we share the "common" themes astrologically people speak of.

Intuitively I know it has something to do with his Sun Gemini/Taurus Moon. That combo has always attracted me to people. But with him, the moment I met him, I couldn't stop thinking about him. I was even with someone else when we first met. And for months it ate me up because I knew I was falling inlove with him and wasn't sure if we would ever get a chance to be together romantically.

We have Venus Square Uranus.

His moon squares my Venus, trine my mars, inconjunct my NN and Widely (7degree) trine my ASC. My moon sextile his ASC. My pluto opposed to his ASC.

We also have:
Sun Conjunct SN
Moon Trine Pluto
Moon Opposed Venus
Mars opposed Pluto
Venus Trine Mars

Okay - So we have MC inconjunct ASC
ASC conjunct MC (large orb of 8 though)

Think those aspects would affect "love at first sight"???


yes, sun conjunct south node. Node conjunctions get my no.1 vote in terms of creating "love at first sight".

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a_may_gemini
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posted September 15, 2012 06:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for a_may_gemini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My ex Leo and I had very few synastry aspects. Because he and I were only born 2.5 months apart, much of our chart planetary positions were the same. However, when we met, it was love at first sight.

These are the aspects we have:

Venus trine Pluto (mine to his)
Mars conjunct MC (his to mine)
Sun conjunct MC (mines to his)
Sun trine Saturn and Jupiter (mine to his)
Moon trine Uranus (mine to his).

We both have the same NN, his is Leo in 1 degree and mine is in Leo 3 degrees.

Astrologically, his chart and mine completely miss each other but we were together for over 7 yrs and we hardly argued. We had a very intense love.

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geea
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posted September 15, 2012 01:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is my chart w/ my ex. We met in highschool.
He was the new guy and the first moment we looked at each other we froze both without saying a word. We didn't even talked, I came to my sense and left, lol- It was instant and yes, I'd call this love at first sight. I fell in love with him the moment I saw him. The first time we talked was days after when a friend introduced us "officialy":P
It never happened with anyone, not even with my actual boyfriend who's got almost the same chart as him, only the moon is different.

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punisher91
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posted September 15, 2012 02:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for punisher91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
can be caused by having their sun or venus in your fifth house. also can be caused by your venus having aspects to uranus or neptune

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posted October 10, 2012 11:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for starfairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you ever fallen in love at first sight? You know, that exciting, heart-stopping feeling you experienced the first time you laid your eyes on that special someone? You might have had a Venus-Uranus synastry aspect with that person. You likely met this person when one of you was searching for something new and exciting, completely out of the norm of your other relationships. Maybe this person came from a different cultural background than you. Maybe you felt stuck in your stale marriage, and you then met an interesting, intriguing younger man who completely swept you off your feet. Uranus serves to jolt us awake, making us aware of our need for independence, individuality, and stimulates our desire for the unique. Uranus beckons us to take the road less traveled, to step out of our comfort zone and into new, fresh experiences.

Venus-Uranus in Synastry

When Venus meets Uranus, the chemistry is unmistakable. You probably met suddenly, and unexpectedly. The Uranus person is enamored by the Venus person’s grace and beauty, while the Venus person is intrigued by the excitement and unpredictability the Uranus person promises. You feel you have met your soul mate, and the relationship starts with a bang. The intellectual connection is through the roof; you feel you have met someone with whom you can share your unusual interests. Along with this connection is a strong physical and sexual attraction.

As with all outer planet to inner planet synastry aspects, the outer planet person usually has the upper hand in this relationship. As the relationship progresses and things start to get comfortable, Uranus may begin to withdraw. Why is this? Well, Uranus represents freedom and independence, and has a disdain for tradition, while Venus seeks harmony and cooperation. Venus wants romance and peace, while Uranus wants excitement and freedom. When Venus gets too close to Uranus, Uranus may distance himself from Venus. Uranus may begin to feel Venus wants more of a commitment than he can handle. Venus brings out Uranus' desire for freedom, which makes settling down into a commitment very difficult. Perhaps as the two settle into a routine, Uranus gets bored and seeks excitement elsewhere. Uranus is a rebellious planet, and may resent the fact that Venus wants to “tie him down.” Indeed, what started out as a torrid, exciting love affair can quickly degenerate into an unstable, unpredictable situation.

Venus-Uranus relationships are marked by an on-off energy between the couple. Numerous separations, often at key moments, characterize this relationship. Indeed, the ability to count on one another is tarnished with this aspect. Venus finds it difficult to get Uranus to commit, and becomes frustrated by Uranus’ inconstancy. Venus’ initial feelings of excitement soon turn into feelings of frustration and disappointment at the perceived lack of interest on Uranus’ part. Indeed, this relationship has the potential of ending just as quickly as it began.

This aspect is also found in the synastry charts of long-distance relationships, interracial relationships, or relationships in which there exists a large age difference. Either way, the relationship itself is unconventional in some manner.

This description relates especially to hard aspects between Venus and Uranus in synastry. The trine and sextile are far more manageable; they inject excitement and unpredictability into the relationship, but are not as destabilizing and upsetting as we would experience in the case of hard aspects.

Note: Hard aspects between Venus and Uranus on their own do not spell doom for a couple. With the right amount of stabilizing aspects (e.g. Saturn), this relationship can last for a long time. Individuals with Venus in Earth or Water will have a more difficult handling this aspect than individual with Venus in Fire or Air.
http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!venus-uranus-in-synastry-electric-love/cktj

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posted October 22, 2012 09:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Long - standing     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus (my) opposite husband's Uranus, i couldn't stop thinking about him from the very begining, we more then 20 years together, and he is very often on business trips, nearly every month, it keeps the relations fresh and i think its Venus - uranus plays.

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posted October 23, 2012 10:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awww...

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posted October 31, 2012 12:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrofan123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would think it involves the ascendant as it is the first thing people see.
in my 13 yr relationship:
my uranus trine his venus (Out of sign aspect)
my moon conjunct his asc
my venus conjunct his moon

edit:
my Eros conjunct his vertex
his IC conjunct my vertex
I think vertex is also significant. fated meeting. romantic or not. but both our vertexes happen to be in the natal 5th house

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