posted October 14, 2005 03:35 PM              

In synastry Node-Saturn conjunctions lean toward the Node person learning and growing a lot from the relationship with the Saturn person actign as teacher, role model or guide in this growth. If this is a romantic relationship, the relationships tends to last only as long as the Node person needs to learn (or shorter, if other aspects are adverse, and the lessons are learned in retrospection). Once the Node person learns the needed lesson, the relationships tends to naturally ends because it has served its karmic purpose, and each partner needs to move on.

posted October 14, 2005 06:11 PM            

As far as Saturn Oppose South Node, Conjunct North Node, I would say that it is quite significant.

According to Steven Forest a planet oppose your SN indicate a trait that hurt you and held you back in your past lifecycle, and Conjunct your NN a planet that shows you the way to grow in this lifecycle.

posted October 25, 2005 10:24 PM              

South node conjunct Saturn between charts: Indicates very strong ties to the past and or will play out relationships from the past that may have felt safe and very secure but required new energy to allow growth. An excellent source of learning for the south node person who can find a sense of safety within the saturnian relationship to examine where growth and movement needs to be embraced in their lives.

posted December 11, 2007 03:03 AM              

From Cafe Astrology:

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Venus conjunct other person's South Node (opposite other person's North Node), or square the other person's Nodes
A feeling of instant affection is likely between the two of you. A powerful feeling of needing to be with one another is present, although over time, difficulties and challenges arise that could pull you apart. There may be a time when one or both of you feels that they have "outgrown" the relationship in some way, or that the other person is holding them back--and this is generally felt by the Node person. This combination is sometimes considered an aspect of star-crossed lovers.

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SO TRUE.

posted December 10, 2011 05:19 AM            

His Venus conjunct my SN-the challenges for us to be together were present from the start.

posted December 18, 2011 05:24 PM            

For the last while, I've been attracting many men who's planets hit all those various degrees but particularly my north node (all between 2-5 cap) as well as the other cardinal degrees so I finally asked a psychic friend of mine what was going on. (None of these guys were good choices.)

She said I've been in a multiple choice phase for over last 6 or so years and I'm closing a 12 year chapter and letting go certain karmic patterns in love. (For last 6 years, I've mostly attracted unhappily married/separated guys, weird dishonest guys and a few plain crazy guys. One guy I was dating actually finalized his divorce and then actually got BACK together w/ his wife who BTW I later found out, had the same b-day as me but 7 years younger!) They remarried, then broke up again within a year - lol. Talk about having a hard time breaking up! Interesting, his north node was conjunct my moon & venus but the rest of our synastry was full of saturn venus squares and his venus right on my DES, opposite my Sun/Pluto and squared my Saturn and nodes. But the synastry directly reflected the transits and our progressed charts.
In general, I have been meeting people with the same b-days and planets over and over that reflect the patterns forming in my progressed chart with a lot of Saturn thrown in. Then you know you're in a karmic cycle!

While my friend claims that there has to be some kind of Saturn contacts between charts for them to even last, she said that Saturn conjunct North node in synastry is karmic but can be really tough, it is often a sign of unrequited love or folks just can't make the click. I know Cafe Astrology mentions it as a separative aspect as well. I think the whole chart has to be taken into account as well as each person's relationship to a planet like Saturn. Many times the connection is almost parental, or there is an age difference or some baked-in restrictions that could get frustrating over time.
Typically if it's a major theme, you'll see it repeated 3 times: in the natals, in the synastry, and then in the composite and then you know it's a significant part of the connection.

I can only imagine that the composite - if the relationship gets off the ground - will have some of those same qualities. In general, it would signify a heavy level of karma/responsibility together. How you experience that depends how each of you deal with Saturn energy in general.