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Topic: Cancer man and Sag woman
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ranjani
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posted October 21, 2005 03:58 AM
 
Hi everyone,
I ve been visisting this site for a while and u all seem like lovely freindly ppl....i am looking fwd to talking /reading ur inputs...
i am a sagi female and goin to tie the knot with a cancer man who has been my lover and friend...Does anyone have any insights into how it works with this partciluar combo? What is it about cancer that make me feel at ease?
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cappyme
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posted October 21, 2005 05:08 AM
Welcome ranjini  .. you'll really enjoy the place, anyways from my experience the cancers and saggis go along well, because they're kind of opposites in a way, cancers like saggi because of thier supposedly childish, happy go lucky nature and saggis like cancers because they're tolerating and patient etc.... atleast in my experience, however to analyse the whole compatability, the sun is not enough, you need to find out where his and yours other placements is, go to astro and you'll find out and then you can post it here .------------------
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histrionix
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posted October 21, 2005 05:18 AM
I actually think that Cancer can really let loose with Sag, because Sag are so easy to spend time with. With Sag, Cancer never feels judged, depressed, or somehow rained down on, and so Cancer then becomes the truly fun, witty, and adventurous creatures they really are (which really pleases Sag).Congrats on your union. IP: Logged |
MoonDuchess88
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posted October 21, 2005 07:34 AM
yeah, we can let loose with you guys, but just watch the foot-in-mouth syndrome you sags have (no offense, but I've bared it from many a sag). Other than that, it should be just fine.  I like sags optimism, its refreshing.IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted October 21, 2005 11:01 AM
infact a lot of things . if u ask me . i am a cancer man . and i basically attract , water, libras , gems , sags . and to lesser extent aquas and caps . well , about sags , if u ask me , i feel i am real self in front of cancers , libras and sags. one of the basic reason is the may be because we share the same kind of sense of humour . a cancer and sags's humour is basically funny , not very witty or sarcatic . u may find them doing the weirdest things when in jovial mood . someone told me , marry a sag , 'mohabbat hamesha jawan rahege ' . one of fav. lady is a sag . she was my gf's mom . and i seriously think , if i had not fallen for my cancerian , i might have fallen for her sag mom .heheheheheheheh.........  they are different in alot of ways but thier similariteies are very very compatible kind . even thier diffs are not big enough , that can not be filled up . we like your optimism , starightforwardness , kindness , looks ( noramlly sags are good dressers and cancers like thier woemen to be good loookers) when are u marrying ? are we invited?
are u from secuendrabad . i met an aries friend from there when i went for the army psycho tests last time . shaadi mubarak ho! IP: Logged |
Hexxie
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posted October 21, 2005 11:21 AM
hey! isn't tom cruise a cancer and katie holmes a sagittarius??  ------------------
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miss_muffet
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posted October 21, 2005 11:24 AM
This combination depends largely on communication skills between you. If communication is open, all is go. Otherwise, as someone already pointed out, sagittarians have a tendency to be blunt and cancers can really sulk when hurt by sagittarian's arrows of truth.Can't tell you unless your whole chart (yours and your fiance's) can be compared.
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XMelanieXy
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posted October 22, 2005 04:31 AM
I am a Cancer female and I have known quite a few Saggitarius males. I think the biggest thing a Cancers like about Sags is that they put them in a good mood and we can let there goofy sense of humor show through. There's nothing I'll hold back with a Sag since they know anything that I say is all in fun. I have been in a horrible mood before, one that people can't get me out of and somehow my Sag guy friend managed. Nearly an impossible feat. I also have Venus in Gemini, not sure if that would have anything to do with it. Sag guys have been some of my best guy friends in spite of the fact a lot of compatibility sites never comment on how well they can get on.IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted October 22, 2005 02:37 PM
Great sex... is what happens between a Sag woman and Mr. Crab.  IP: Logged |
SecretGardenAgain
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posted October 23, 2005 11:41 PM
 Yin! stop that...im like mesmerized by the licking.  i havent really seen any super tight cancer/sags. there tends to be communication difficulties as someone already pointed out. also, i have seen some sag women feel suffocated in this relationship, or the cancer man thinks some of the sag womans ideas are inappropriate. in any case, it depends on the individual charts, and since a lot of ppl here have seen good cancer/sag relationships i wud pay more attention there. Love
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MoonPixie
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posted October 25, 2005 07:42 PM
I find that Sag and Cancer get along great but only as friends. Of course, it always goes beyond the sun sign, but from experience I've found that it's sometimes difficult for these two particular signs to find a middle ground regarding communcation emotions. Middle ground is achievable (anything is) but it really matters if Cancer can let go of nameless insecurities and Sag can be more tactful.As I ponder upon this subject, I realized that no amount of philosophical thought can really determine a definite answer. So, I'll end with this: Communication. It's an art. IP: Logged |
nove731
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posted October 25, 2005 08:33 PM
Hmmm, yeah. In my experience Cancers have a hard time with Sagittarians because often times, the Sagittarian can make the Cancer feel left out and not cared for. Cancers can be hypersensitive and Sagittarians can be completely unsensitive at times. IP: Logged |
SparklingSag
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posted October 25, 2005 09:49 PM
Dear all,
This topic is really interesting to me. I have gotten to know a great cancer guy...and i can safely say I ADORE him. But as a friend. I smile and laugh a lot with him, i make him laugh with my silly jokes and 'blonde' moments. However, he can be quiet and moody...so for once at those times, I try to limit my foot in mouth moments. He actually apolgised to me for being grumpy the other day. I do wonder about this relationship...I feel he is a great friend...and i totally adore him in so many ways. I respect him and try to be understanding when he is feeling down. I don't behave like this for everyone though...and a pisces guy I feel totally uncomfortable with but for cancer guy I would do anything. Funny huh? I think cancer guy has virgo asc, aries moon. I'm not sure why we get on so well?? Sparkling
Congrats on your union too! IP: Logged |
Planet_Soul
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posted October 26, 2005 12:37 AM
Yes, Congradualtions on your ucoming marriage. Everyone has given you great insight on what can be a challenging but rewarding combination. I'm also a Sag girl w a Cancer male, and yes to repeat communication is key. Whew, I don't know where we would be w/o it after two years... lol, likely not w each other. Yes, Cancers can be moody but they are sweethearts. My Cancer has woken up in the middle of the night to fetch me stranded by my car. He helps me with my gruesome homework, and he helps me clean up around the house. He is my best friend, and a cuddly one at that. When he gets grouchy, I just leave him be for awhile and then return and coax him out of his shell. He lets me know when one of my "arrows' has crossed the line, and we take it from there. He has grown to trust me, and I make sure to spend alone time and friend time so I don't feel suffocated which makes for one happy Archer always glad to come back home.IP: Logged |
ranjani
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posted November 08, 2005 06:07 AM
wow folks.....overwhelmed seeing ur responses though i wud love to know more aboutt the experiences /advises from fellow sags who are blessed with a cancer partner .Few have pointed that they sense danger wen it comes to communication between sag and cancer. Godforbid ,my cancer man claims he hasnt faced any problem till now in communicating withme. Is it too much of my typical sags direct ,ingenuous and at times blunt but guileless style of communicating or do u guys means the lack of open heart to heart communication between us? which is it.
But seeing so many posts alerting the same problem , i am a bit tensed and really wonder if sag woman is a succesful combo for a cancer man.I ve read in Lindagoodmans love signs that its a 6-8 relationship pattern and i am sure all u astro experts for sure know the benefits of that planetray vibrations. Besides we hav aslo analysed the relationship signs for both our charts and found that there were v few oppositions, sqaures aspects but quite a few trines sextiles &conjuncts which i understand are favourable .isnt it guys In yet another post it is said"cancer and sag get along great but only as friends".Was this thought passed having in mind the oft repeated remark abt communication difficluties ,unacring attitudes which sag may display or is there any other major bottleneck wen my learned pal wrote that ? plllllzzzzz clarify . To top it all i am a firm beleiver of dear linda's love signs and hey guys hasnt she mentioned all fairytale like good things out there in cancer man and sagitarius woman ?? Atleast till now i guess our relationship has happened and been pleasant like wats she predicted.
And cancergg u definately are invited to my wedding...will let u know the venue and date once fixed . so now i wait for the reply to my post from all the sweet ppl out there !
Me dying to know ...
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Planet_Soul
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posted November 08, 2005 02:02 PM
Well on communicating.... I am blunt, too much so (I am the Sag). I often say things without thinking about how the words will come across (Mercury also in Sag). This happens a lot. I have so many thoughts running fast and furious in my head, then I let them out by furiously running my mouth lol. After alls been said, I'm like "What did I just Say?" or "Does that sound as bad as I think it does?" etc. The worst part is, I really do hate hurting people's feelings. My Cancer is a softie, and so he doesn't allow just anyone to get close to him. He loves me and has given me full access to his "shell". So, when I make some flip comment it really, really hurts him. He lets his guard down, and I verbally swing one at him so to speak. It doesn't happen that much anymore, but I do have to constantly remind myself to think before speaking and he has learned that I really am sorry for saying dumb things.IP: Logged |
SparklingSag
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posted November 08, 2005 09:38 PM
I have the same problem! I am learning too - to speak before I speak....my cancer friend can be way too grumpy;-) But he doesnt quite know what to do when I am being quiet for once!IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted November 10, 2005 01:46 PM
Welcome ranjaniIP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted November 11, 2005 07:16 AM
Just adding to planet soul's post . i feel the cancers dont really have big problem with honest comments ( though the general feeling is , they can't withstand honest comments ) but these comments in no way show a hint of manipulation of any kind .
if u try to manipulate , you are loosing the faith (especially with cancers ). and i personally think , sags dont really try to manipulate . they are street smart but non manipulative.manipulation in a way is domintion or the desire to dominate and cancers dont really like being dominated . my own experience speaks thus . i had a sag friend in office , the first time that we spoke , it started with a weird comment from my side . he could have simply left me but he spoke up and was strightforward to say , i was rude .
i agreed , i was . we later on came very close within a few days .
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