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Topic: Money or True Love which one???
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Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 117 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted November 04, 2005 05:21 PM
You are talking in circles and you sound confused!!!1 LOL!!!IP: Logged |
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posted November 04, 2005 07:48 PM
It comes down to value of your relationship and your mate. If your mate is happy with no money, you have to be too. So if you are really in love and value yourself you are good. Doubt your love and that's evil.just pick one person and go with it. I know the hard thing is when your mate starts to complain about the nicer things in his life that aren't there, but sometimes he or she just needs a bit more attention or a vacation. Natasha
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alanabelle86 Knowflake Posts: 40 From: Somewhere over the rainbow Registered: May 2009
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posted November 04, 2005 09:02 PM
Sorry, I was only bitter because I'm happier w/o Love than with it. I've never had a truely content relationship. I'm in one now and i love him to death but idk.Scorp venus either makes me die for love, or HATE it all together. I go back and forth like 7 times a day.. lol sorry all, damned Libra Asc. thinkin about it now, definitely True Love 
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posted November 04, 2005 11:17 PM
I'd pick love everytime... course I'm something of an incurable romantic. LOLVenus in Taurus in 11th House IP: Logged |
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posted November 04, 2005 11:44 PM
Wouldn't hesitate...there wouldn't be a decision to make...couldn't even imagine myself pondering this question... definately True Love.  If a man is wealthy, I tend to be more wary of him if anything~ aware that he must have made it a priority in his life to have aquired it. It's never impressive in any way to me. Quite the opposite. Makes me question his character. Venus in Libra/Sagittarian Sun  IP: Logged |
Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 982 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2005 12:35 AM
Door #1 for me -- the eternal optimist and incurable romantic!Not concerned about his money -- I have my own! Money would only be a concern with Lover #1 if the fact that I would out-earn him bothered him..... 'Zala IP: Logged |
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posted November 05, 2005 01:50 AM
Love of course! Although I've never had money, never dated anybody with money, but if you want it bad enough you'll get it I guess. true love is forever. Love and friendship are more important than material things.Venus in Libra 2nd house (surprise!) IP: Logged |
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posted November 05, 2005 06:12 AM
Hey MM,Being a Piscean + Venus in Aries 5th House I think Love would definately win over the extra comfort of money. Don't recollect exactly, but the wordings for some of my favorite songs go like this (haven't heard for quiet a while ) - "Money can't buy me love ..." probably by Beatles and second one "Golden needles & silver threads can't mend my broken heart"... Hope for the best. V IP: Logged |
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posted November 07, 2005 12:36 PM
I'm a Libra with Venus in Virgo in the 4th.I ALWAYS GO FOR LOVE... But ... If you want money, go for the money. Just don't think you can truly love someone when you know you're going for the money. Don't see how anyone can really mix the two because you can say love with money ain't bad. But if you lose sight of the love because of money issues, you're screwed ... so it's not love. You let the money issues get in the way of love. ------------------ ... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness IP: Logged |
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posted November 07, 2005 04:31 PM
Mama Mia - I AM confused. IP: Logged |
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posted November 07, 2005 05:06 PM
Love Love Love  of course.......what else is there...... i have never ever been with a rich man.......but have been wealthy in love.... materialism isnt fulfulling......love is everything  I thank God for it every day......  Venus in Scorpio in 7th house x x x IP: Logged |
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posted November 09, 2005 08:53 PM
Wow, I've noticed a lot of you have venus in the 7th or the second...that's pretty interesting. Anyway, I'd love to be intoxicated with love, except I seem to grow mad with the sickness every time- just litterally bitterly poisoned every time. I think it's because my feelings are always unrequited. I don't know if it definitely has to do with my venus or not (hey-who knows if all this astrology is precisely true or not!) but it's squared by both Uranus and Saturn- how lovely! MY Venus is in the 8th in Pisces. INextricably, I think I actually do tend to be quite self-sacrificing for the ones I love even if I don't always openly say it- but the proof's there. I'd do anything and I do, even for my selfish sister. But despite it, I'd rather love than not because I'd be a heartless listless corpse otherwise. At least, when I love I feel...emotional landscapes...Besides, even if my venus is in the eighth and thus in a business house, I wouldn't really care about money as much as love. IN fact, I think I'd be more likely to exhibit different stereotypical features of the house, like I'd be more inclined to be extremely suicidal or euphoric...kinda like being manic, except, normally, I'm not! lol. I feel insane now. ------------------
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posted November 09, 2005 09:07 PM
Oh wait- Peace, looks like I'm about to comment on your love of money is the root of all evil quote like some other people who did...lol. But I was totally thinking the same thing. The whole love of money thing reminded me of the Pardonner's Tale from the Canterbury Tales...if you remember/ know?? I'm guessing you do know, but it's the translation of "Radix malorum est cupiditas"! ------------------ Who wouldn't be the one you love and live for Who wouldn't stand inside your love and die for Who wouldn't be the one you love -BC IP: Logged |
Rede411 Newflake Posts: 4 From: Framingham, MA USA Registered: Jan 2010
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posted November 09, 2005 10:56 PM
LOVE makes the world go 'round...Why can't I have both? Venus in Aries in the 11th house IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 09, 2005 11:08 PM
Brooding Moodlin, if I may... The eighth house is ruled by Scorpio.... When was the last time you heard Scorpio being non sexual/deep in relation with others and sensuality.. and only for business... The eighth is a rich hotbed of depth, and meaningful relationship potentials.. bordering on obsession in love.. real, grown up love. Birth, death, regeneration, other people's money, etc.Venus in the eighth house is in detriment giving a love of energy, sexual relations, the fruits of partnership, and working with others. One may have an easy or peaceful death and be attracted to psychic and mystical experiences. Venus in Pisces is exalted making the affections kind, sympathetic, gentle, sensitive, self-sacrificing, devoted, helpful, changeable, yielding, impressionable, charitable, and compassionate. One often loves the unfortunate, peace, and can be attracted to the arts, poetry, and spiritual things. IP: Logged |
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posted November 10, 2005 12:25 AM
Pixel, are Venus in Scorpio and the 8th in detriment or fall?villy-that song, silver threads and golden needles won't buy this love of mine..and I dare not drink your wine..is beautiful and I sang it to a rich ex b/f-he didn't like it much. Silver Threads And Golden Needles I don't want your lonely mansion With a tear in every rooom All I want's the love you promised Beneath the halo'd moon But you think I should be happy With your money and your name And hide myself in sorrow While you play your cheating game Silver thread and golden needles Cannot mend this heart of mine And I dare not drown my sorrows In the warm glow of your wine You can't buy my love with money For I never was that kind Silver thread and golden needles Cannot mend this heart of mine. I grew up in faded gingham Where love is a sacred thing You grew up in silk and satin Where love's a passing game I know now you never loved me And I know I was a fool To think your pride would let you Live by the Golden Rule. Natasha
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pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 10, 2005 12:39 AM
I guess because Venus is, well.. Venus, and Mars is 'co-ruler' of Scorpio, that would technically be disharmonious.. but the way I see it, having a water sign in a water house, is a good thing, in terms of trine energy manifesting through house position. So, a bit of fall, moderated by positive house/sign. Traditional Mars influence on a Venus isn't easily blended within a chart. IN synastry, thats another thing entirely!I wanted to defend her own idea of the house position, and show it in a different light, as she said; "Besides, even if my venus is in the eighth and thus in a business house, I wouldn't really care about money as much as love. " I think of the eighth house as business and pleasure.. as in, naughty secretary who lets her garters show at happy hour.  IP: Logged |
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posted November 10, 2005 04:43 PM
LOVE!!!! Money is so easy to come by.. but true love you won't get unless you deserve it. Besides.. money doesn't really make you happy. I'm hoping love will.. IP: Logged |
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posted November 14, 2005 12:24 PM
Thanks Natasha for refreshing my memory with the song. Need to find some time and listen to that again ...IP: Logged |
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posted November 14, 2005 01:26 PM
True Love...but does that translate to steamy sex scenes?Venus in Leo & 8th House (trine) Neptune in Sagittarius & 12th House My version is that I fantasize women through magazines & the like. IP: Logged |