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Topic: The House your Sun is in- the point of your life?
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The Mutable Night Force
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From: England
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posted December 27, 2005 09:28 AM
  
I read that the house your sun is placed in is the area of life where you can express yourself fully and take great interest. So, how many of you agree/disagree that the point of an individual's life rests on how fulfilled someone is in that area of their life.
I know that seems fairly bleak and shallow, but sadly, it appears to be true in cases I've seen. To be fair, I'll start on myself. I've, rather depressingly, recently discovered I'm only happy when I have something to fixate on. My sun is in 8th house. Now that I'm getting older and naturally comparing myself to other people, I've realised my interest in things relating to sex is much stronger than other inexperienced people my age, and occasionally some adults too. Not long ago I was getting an unbelievable high by flirting with this guy I like. Now he is trying to tone down conversations and I don't speak to him as much everything seems so dull. I've started thinking nothing matters unless I have someone to be horny with. Or nothing matters as long as I'm horny. Sad, I know. I also have Mercury in 8th as well which doesn't help.
My mum has sun in 7th. She has recently broken up with a long-term partner and is feeling desolate not being with someone. She admits herself she needs to be part of a couple to feel happy in life.
Someone else I know, not an especially nice person, who also has sun in 8th, happens to be a bit of a sex addict.
I have a friend whose sun is in 4th and she is greatly affected by how her home life is going.
What does everyone think?------------------
I'll sail the stygian swamp to the duties of this momentry life
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shop22much
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posted December 27, 2005 09:32 AM
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The Mutable Night Force
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posted December 27, 2005 09:34 AM
I have Venus in 7th. That stinks enough. Poor shop22much and my mother  IP: Logged |
hot_ice
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posted December 27, 2005 09:51 AM
Yup I'm freaking addicted to sex too,cant help thinking about it,I got an 8th sun,merc,moon and mars...then I guess I should be awesome! lucky girls!the house your sun is placed in is the area of life where you can express yourself fully and take great interest. So,
I'm throwing away my engineering degree and I'm gonna become a gigolo!  Noticed something,I think a lot about sex,esp. while studying... I dont know if this is because of the 8th house sun,but I sometimes feel like the "lone wolf",in my pack/gang/whatever even though I know i'm not... Just weird...
But I dont like fixing on things,started to do that a bit now,But I'm stopping myself,It's not like me and heard fixating on things can become a habit,dont want that to happen.... IP: Logged |
MoonDuchess88
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posted December 27, 2005 10:47 AM
I have my sun in the seventh, but I don't jump into relationships easily because I don't trust people so easily. I think that learning how to trust another is my life lesson or something like that. That's how I interpret my sun in the seventh. Hey, I'm workin' on it  IP: Logged |
Stargazer
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From: just left of center
Registered: May 2009
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posted December 27, 2005 11:25 AM
Sun in the 7th as part of a stellium with merc and venus... I've always been in a relationship... have a hard time staying and it's even harder to finally get out... Aries moon here too.... so it is a contradiction..... and with my mars in Scorpio.. I can find myself in relationship never never land very quickly...lol IP: Logged |
shop22much
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posted December 27, 2005 11:29 AM
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boo
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posted December 27, 2005 11:36 AM
Sun in 8th here.
I am interested in all that lies beneath.
And I am always the most highly sexed one in the relationship.I dont know if this has anything to do with the 8th house, but my life lesson probably has to do with complete acceptance of myself. IP: Logged |
Stargazer
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From: just left of center
Registered: May 2009
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posted December 27, 2005 11:43 AM
shops... your 7th house stellium in virgo? yes? I agree.... picky! I find that the relationship for me is someone very self aware.. already realized... no nooks and crannies for me to fill... When there is no need to fix anything... then the energy i spend on a relationship can be channeled into the more intimate stuff and my independence doesn't freak them out... very hard to find??? IP: Logged |
Taurus80
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posted December 27, 2005 12:07 PM
anyone know anything about the sun in the 11th house?IP: Logged |
Stargazer
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posted December 27, 2005 12:26 PM
Sun in 11th....-Usually have many friends
-interested in occult matters
-desire group leadership
-very humanitarian placement
-If the sun is afflicted... could have a tendancy to dominate others. IP: Logged |
nove731
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From: Strasbourg, France
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted December 27, 2005 01:20 PM
Haha, yeah, my Sun is at the very end of my 7th House. A lot of systems just put it straight in the 8th House.I need someone close all the time. It doesn't necessarily have to be a significant other, but I at least need a best friend. Always. If I don't, life just isn't worth living at all, really. IP: Logged |
Rede411
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Registered: Jan 2010
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posted December 27, 2005 01:24 PM
Hey Taurus80, I also have Sun in the 11th house. I do feel most at ease with community/group events. My friends and doing social things with them is of UPMOST importance to me. Obviously I'm interested in the occult. Also what's interesting and tell me if you feel this too. Wordly events seem to effect me so much more than personal ones. 9/11, tsunami, Katrine etc...seem to move me more prfoundly. I also live for office parties etc...IP: Logged |
neptune's mermaid
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posted December 27, 2005 01:36 PM
Ugh yes!!! God, now I know where my diva…ness comes from!! I have to be the centre of attention, or I’ll break in two. There’s nothing I dislike more than someone upstaging me  @ me.Everything’s about me me me…I’m sure someone noticed from my posts  *edited to add Oh right…forgot, got Sun in the 1st which is *I think* gives you Leo traits. As for Aries trait…got enough of ‘em ------------------
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Lousianagrl
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posted December 27, 2005 02:05 PM
I have sun in 12th. It sort of scares me; the whole 'leading a lonely life' thing. Anybody have sun in 12th? how is your life?IP: Logged |
thosa
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posted December 27, 2005 02:34 PM
Sun in 10th, Pluto 2nd...good career, fame, wealth, recognition, being established...all this means a LOT to me. IP: Logged |
Planet_Soul
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posted December 27, 2005 02:44 PM
I do LG,
I wouldn't call myself a hermit, but I do require "alone time". As a child, I had a special "alone" place under my favorite tree. I'd go there to write stories, read books, think, and even pray. The solitary time blesses me with inner harmony. I love my inner life, finding ways to feel connected to nature and the all. I would say the challenge with the 12th house Sun is to not fixate on the inner self to the exclusion of the outer world. Balance, so as not to become reclusive. I am very into most metaphysical areas, and my own view of divinity. As a adult I have my own personal space in our room. A little altar with my books, my journal, and a sea horse figure my nana gave me. I go there to do the same things I'd do when I was little under the tree On a broader level, I am very interested in psychology and healing. I also have Mercury and Neptune in the 12th and a Pisces Moon. Neptune is the strongest planet/energy in my chart.
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Yang
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posted December 27, 2005 03:37 PM
Anyone know about sun house in 3rd?IP: Logged |
MoonPixie
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posted December 27, 2005 04:15 PM
Cancer Sun in the 9th house here. I express my Cancerian traits in a Sag way:[1] I love going to different friends house not because I'm adventurous but because I like going to their home and making it a happy place. In past lives, I can imagine myself being one of those travelling healers or even a hippie, lol. I just visit my friends house for a couple of afternoons: clean up a few messes, cook for everyone, help kids with their homework, talk about spirituality and religion (DEBATE TIME!!!!), and then when everyone's spirits are high and I've got to know everyone, I stop going to that person's house constantly and probably don't go back for awhile.
[2] I repeat the "process" a month later at another friend's house. I don't really think that the house your sun is in is the point of their life, but I do agree that it's the way our *characterstics* within express themselves. Eh. Cancer blabble. IP: Logged |
taurean_scorpion
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posted December 27, 2005 06:18 PM
sun in 12th herei get scared too, i keep having thoughts that i'm gonna have to be alone for the rest of my life...i have trouble making friends esp. as i'm getting older...Planet_Soul said "the 12th house Sun is to not fixate on the inner self to the exclusion of the outer world." but i lost BALANCE. i feel SO vulnerable when i'm with people other than my family...(my merc. venus. jupiter. chiron and plenty of other asteroids in 12th). i do okay, then all of a sudden i feel like they're intruding...then i hide. i have lots of virgo, and a scorpio moon...Mutual Night, if it helps..., (i think about sex a lot too). but i feel guilty afterwards...because my dad's a pervert. he disgusts me so much, that i feel like he's raped me when he didn't...i know that's extreme but my dad....(i won't get into the details because i couldn't possibly explain everything.) don't all sun in 12th's have trouble w/ their dads? IP: Logged |
luna*tic12
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posted December 27, 2005 07:26 PM
sun AND moon in the 12th here.
i pretty much feel like a genuine loner. i feel truly alone and isolated, even when surrounded by people. i have alot of friends, but i still feel like i will never belong anywhere and that no one will ever understand me. i spend alot of time alone. i like small, enclosed spaces where i can hide from the world. IP: Logged |
luna*tic12
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posted December 27, 2005 07:28 PM
oh yeah, and i have serious issues getting along with my father too.IP: Logged |
Taurus80
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posted December 27, 2005 11:08 PM
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histrionix
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posted December 27, 2005 11:23 PM
LOl Nep's Mermaid - Sun and Mars in 1st here, too, and you said it - I want to scream like a dick if anyone upstages me. I seethe, rage, and throw tantrums inside, whilst keeping an aloof, disinterested and sarcastic exterior. Grrr, do you struggle with envy? IP: Logged |
SecretGardenAgain
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posted December 28, 2005 01:28 AM
hey MoonPixie whats up? Im a ninth house sun too yay It is fun being a 9th house sun. Despite my occasional dark moments (scorp stellium) , I always bounce back. If theres one word that has been used to describe me a LOT it is resilient. Thank goodness otherwise that Pluto opp. Venus would totally have me fixated... But I think Im very obviously Gemini (cynical and sarcastic, a communicator and a thinker, philosophical and very flirty etc.), but express those traits in a very Sag way: love to travel
love to learn new languages (aim to learn 12 by two years, at the half mark )
love to meet new people and make people laugh
optimistic when it comes to others at least hehe
very blunt (Sag) and caustic (Gemini), a painful combination to say the least
I have at least four different personas if not more, even I dont know what Im going to wake up as each morning! ah, the life of a dual Sun in a dual house! Love
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