posted January 10, 2006 04:01 AM              

Where is your Venus Rx-ing? Mine in the 7th house Aqua then it is supposed to go to the 6th Cappy or the other way around Cappy first? But irregardless, I have been FEELING less regarding all the fatedness of things, is it truly meant to be? And all the WHAT IFs in the world? I guess it is a good slap to make us re-think and test what we have if it is real or not. I read that during the Venus Rx, relationships that are not meant to be will be discarded, in a sense, the drugging feeling of relationship is lifted and you are no longer blinded, so you see things the way they are, black and white, so at the end of the day, it is a test! Who thought Venus could test us, she has been spotted keeping Saturn's company, a protege during her Rxs!

I feel the same way too, if it is any consolation.

posted January 11, 2006 04:18 PM              

Transiting Venus Retrograde Conjunct Transiting Sun in Capricorn is right over my Natal Jupiter Conjunct Saturn in Capricorn (9th House).

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE - someone give me their take on this. The proverbial doo doo just hit the fan. I've been given devasting news and I too feel like I am no longer grounded (which is a understatement). It has to do with all things Venus, and feels like I'm want to give up.

THANK YOU VERY MUCH

posted January 11, 2006 06:42 PM              

the links were at the top of a google search list ..

venus retro. links
http://www.astrologycom.com/venusret.html
http://accessnewage.com/felissa/VEN05RET.HTM
http://www.cafeastrology.com/venusretrograde.html
http://www.cainer.com/monthly/capric.html

posted January 12, 2006 01:48 AM              

Whew! Was that a Cancer Mooner moment or what? ...

posted January 12, 2006 01:34 PM              

kinda scarey though, cuz it makes me wonder is my current venus in cappy guy is thinking the same thing about me... and he's pretty much perfect to me... it doesn't make sense why I would be feeling that way...

should reltionships end during a venus retro? would i have the same feeling and want him back when it goes direct? that's what i'm wondering--if I should wait it out.

posted January 13, 2006 02:24 PM              

She never showed at the exhibition this year, probably deliberately.

Quite frankly, I don't blame her. From her point of view it wouldn't have been a good move. So, in a way we both have come to the end, me mentally (4 months late!), and her physically.

Healing can be very painful sometimes. I've learnt a lot over this time. This is the first time I can honestly say I have understood what letting go is rather than just carry the unfinished emotion on for a year or so and then falling into another nightmare.

It feels like crap, but I will look back on this as a major turning point in my life.

I hope all of you guys are doing ok and are able to get that happiness in your life again soon.

posted January 13, 2006 05:53 PM            

Oh.. honey, I know you are hurting during this time. I think it is a major Venus retrograde. I never thought it would really affect me.. but it hit hard...

I finally cut the cord with my Ex Taurus Fiance. He had talked about getting back together and seemed to really be getting his life back on track. I think he will be very successful this go round. He tells me how sorry he was about our break up and how confused he had been..etc.. and he wants me to move to Texas to be with him and get married.

As much as I love him.. and I still do. It is just impossible. There were so many lies, so much mistrust and yes.. I even invaded his privacy and found out information that he was keeping from me. I hate myself for doing that.. but what I hate more is the fact that I still do not trust him nor do I feel I ever will.

Even when we speak I wonder how much is truth or if he is lying. I keep thinking there are others he is with and should I relocate I worry I would be back in the same relationship. We both hurt each other.. and I don't want to blame him for my outbursts, but had he be honest I would not have responded as I did. It would be unfair for us to live under those circumstances because once trust is lost... a deep relationship cannot exist (at least for this Saggie)

Venus went retro and I cut the cord.. it hurts deeply - but sometimes there is no other way.

At this point I am happy not dating anyone.. or even going out with anyone. I need this time to focus on other ventures, yet it doesn't lessen the hurt. Venus is currently retrograding in my 4th house, sharing space with T Mercury and Pluto (and conjuncting my natal Mercury and Sun / IC respectively).

Venus in Cappy (in his 9th house) is completing his T-square with his Venus / Saturn in Cancer, Pluto in Libra and Jupiter in Aries.