posted December 06, 2012 12:09 PM            

Needs to form relationships and open up to people, romantically and platonically. Needs to stop getting angry and using peace and balance instead... enough conflict...

It is a karmic placement;

My boyfriend has his Chiron and North node conjunct his Libra ASC, I think his whole life lesson and his relationships with people will be about this. Chiron in Libra his pain comes from his relationships I think.

posted December 06, 2012 04:15 PM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
North Node in Libra

Needs to form relationships and open up to people, romantically and platonically. Needs to stop getting angry and using peace and balance instead... enough conflict...

It is a karmic placement;

My boyfriend has his Chiron and North node conjunct his Libra ASC, I think his whole life lesson and his relationships with people will be about this. Chiron in Libra his pain comes from his relationships I think.

What do u think North node Libras???

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I agree, I have chiron in libra too. Relationships are not my forte lol. Even though I'm nice and friendly and I'm known by that trait from others, I still keep people at a distance and I still have loner tendencies to where I just go off by myself if I feel slighted or unneeded/unwanted.

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Libra North Node people can be painfully self-conscious and judgmental of what they deem to be their "negative" qualities. This is why they lose power when they focus on the self. All they see are their "unacceptable" qualities, which they focus on hiding. But this process prevents others from getting close to them. Not knowing what these folks are hiding, others don't trust them and back away. Then Libra North Node people get the feedback that something is wrong with them — which is exactly what they suspected in the first place!

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Part of their reluctance to include others comes from the former battlefield mentality that "people are basically against me."

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Just recently I made a post about feeling like nobody likes you (me) and now that I think about it it's probably because I'm the one who rejects them! Instead of asking why someone has grown distant I instead grow distant myself rather than talking to them (me first attitude again).

posted December 06, 2012 11:52 PM            

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Originally posted by jenfullmoon:
This one kind of depresses me. Why is it that all of the LNN examples of people here seem so...jerktastic? I don't think we're ALL running people over with the emotional equivalent of 18-wheelers here.

And as for the wife that wanted babies- why wasn't it considered HER own responsibility to figure out if she could live with what he wanted or to dump him, and to SPEAK UP about it before it was too late? Instead, it's his fault that he didn't figure out she was lying to him and he should have KNOWN not to believe that she said it was fine. Ouch. Not every sign conceals things, and some are blunt- how was he to know the difference?

I think I'd rather have another "warrior" lifetime than learn to be a Care Bear who shares and makes other people feel warm and fuzzy and is the wind beneath people's wings that everyone ignores. I can't say I've enjoyed attempts at that role with other people- I just feel like they are sucking me dry, plus it's pretty thankless to support someone. Yeah, I know I probably shouldn't expect people to be able to do the things I do, but they should at least try in their own way instead of sitting around whining, "That's haaaaard! Take care of me, I don't wanna!" Gah.

I think I'd rather go towards the South Node in this life and be lonely than have other people sucking me dry. Switching from being "the needy one" to the supportive one hasn't made things any better, I swear.

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