posted February 07, 2006 04:16 PM            

teasel- thanks for being interested! haha
......him.......me.....
sun Cap Virgo
moon Sag Aries
mercury Cap Virgo
venus Pisces Leo
mars Pisces Gemini
Asc Scorpio Cap

posted February 07, 2006 05:03 PM            

*edited

posted February 07, 2006 05:16 PM            

Sounds like you and this guy have a lot of aspects going on with each other which is probably very confusing... personally, (I just checked) our Mars are at 3 and 17 degrees so pretty damn far apart thankfully

posted February 12, 2006 06:07 PM              

Allow me to try and shed light on the mystique of this keen, domineering & intense persona..First and foremost, we are concerned with physicality (my mars) and intensity of experience. Our eroticism is ever-present and just below the surface, waiting for an outlet to explode-either good or bad. Many of us are slaves to bodily impulses. We are broody at times and very, very deep. However, we are very good at concealing our emotions when displaying them would have an adverse effect on a given situation (if our evolutionary stage permits this type of personal control & restraint). We live for the adrenaline rush of the intensity of all experiences, whether they are good or bad may not be as important to us as whether we had them at all, or not. We want them, as frequently as possible. We are hard to read but our presence is very intimidating, especially our piercing, detached, heartless gaze. Depending on our scorpionic evolutionary progress, we may be a saint or a sinner. We have no middle ground and tend to see matters as black or white with little grayscale in between. The person you are describing is most likely of the lesser evolved variety. More likely than not, he will have to be born multiple times to properly use the scorpio gift of being a spiritual leader or uncovering spiritual revelation for the benefit of the lot of humanity (which is scorpio's ultimate goal from an evolutionary standpoint)

It sounds like the SR in question is still caught up on the basic, destructive, rudimentary aspects of this sign and not even close to becoming an eagle or phoenix and evolving out of human form.

Don't sweat it. He just needs more time to become aware of his depth and stores of energy, using them in a more collectively beneficial, positive light; less focused on ego, destruction, and hurt. There can be no understanding him or where he is coming from a logical standpoint except to say that he is in his own dark place and nobody else is allowed because it probably would never make any sense to anyone other than himself.

In a response made earlier, to my defense, some SR's have a keen understanding of human psychology and make excellent detectives, investigators, and crisis managers. Our goal is to pierce the illusions of a physical world and to understand the underlying truths of existence. When the worst of all fears is actualized, it is the SR that keeps his calm and is able to stay coherent and functional, helping others seek refuge and safety out of their desperation and confusion. There is strength in solitude for an SR. It is necessary for us to have quiet time to reflect on the bigger picture and how we fit into cosmic jungle we call daily life. If our quiet time needs are not met through reflection and meditation (as I suspect for your male colleague) then we become negative, spiteful, and full of p.i.s.s. and vinegar. Tell him he needs to set-up some quiet time each day to reflect each day to get in touch with his stores of energy and power. It does not appear he is in-touch with his Higher Power. If he were, he'd have no need to treat others in the way that he does. You can make this suggestion, for it is the only truth that will lead to his salvation. He will scoff at you. But the truth is if he did, he would start to make the necessary progress for his soul evolution, without it, he is lost, destined to repeat old, destructive patterns (a scorpio trait)and remain a pawn to the deeper (potentially negative) feelings inside of him. I hope this was of some service to you.