posted February 07, 2006 02:35 PM              

He seems sincere but I'm always suspicious of anyone thats open with their feelings (especially a Scorpio). Scorpio Sun, Mars & Uranus. SAG moon/Venus/Neptune, all conjunct. I guess the Venus conj. Neptune worries me. The only other negative aspects he has are Mars Square Saturn & Venus opp. Jupiter (I have this too). No other afflicted or negative planetary placements. I don't know birth time so can't do any deep analysis..sigh..

posted February 07, 2006 04:38 PM              

Well unlike Sue I don't NEED intensity all the time --what I need and crave is security that the person I love will be there when I need it just like I am for them. The intensity part for me comes in for how much I love and care for them. When I find someone that I feel is trustworthy and worth my time and energy and if I fall in love with them I fall hard and deep. I give them unconditional love I would do anything for them , protect them nurture them etc etc its all or nothing for me I can't just give "a little bit" I give it my all. The same is true with people whom I consider friends I do what I can for them and I have a high level of commitment to them. I am extremely loyal and would never do anything intentionally to hurt them. I don't play games with people I care about. I think my intensity is what scared my Crab. and I even tempered it quite a bit the behaviour not the feeling I still love him with all my being and I would wait another lifetime for him. That might be stupid of me but that is still how I feel right now.

posted February 07, 2006 05:36 PM              

I just hope my Scorp is intense & loyal too! I wish there was an easy way to tell!

posted February 07, 2006 10:56 PM              

Is this possible? Yes, but I don't think Neil Young's wife, Pegi, has time to play on the net and write a post!

I have scorp sun/merc/venus/neptune.
Gemini rising (thank GOD) and taurus moon.

My b'friend is scorp sun/neptune, venus in cappy and also a taurus moon. He has a Leo AC--my Jupiter sits in there. His sun and moon directly oppose at 16 degrees, and my south node is in scorp--16 degrees. What is the karma here? Wow! I need to find out. . .I guess I am. there have been too many similarities in our childhoods, and now our children are mirrors (his daughters mirror my childhood and my son mirrors his) --so much opportunity for karmic healing between us.

I have NEVER been more deeply involved with anyone in my life. It's heavy it's intense and it's beautiful--and I am a complete basketcase. He can be critical and overbearning--I have TRIED to leave him twice, and so far, CAN'T.

He is (IMO) drop dead beautiful, oozes of raw sexual energy AND doesn't disclose much at all. We are both very self protective. But don't get me wrong--he doesn't disclose much with words. Weird as this sounds, he does "speak" in other ways. But at times, the darned WORDS would be nice to HEAR. He's certainly not cold--he's very firey--so much so, at times I forget he's a scorp, and think he's a leo. Very warm. Hot. Affectionate--luckily, our taurus moons usually need the same things (physically and emotionally) at the same time.

Like me, when he's down, he gets a little more needy (but his version of needy is not like most)--very reserved--but he calls more often. What's bothersome, is when he's feeling good and confident, it's as though he doesn't need me anymore. This plays big time on my need for security. I want to share his joys -- not just his depressive states.

My Pisces Sun/scorp AC bfriend was the same way. What is this? For two weeks I've been very unsettled wondering if it's my pattern to hang in there with a man in transition, only to have him become stable and leave.

Arrgghh.
Has anyone else gone through pluto transiting the 7th? How do you handle this? I have always prided myself on being independent, but . . . I really am a much happier person when Im involved with someone. My astrologer tells me pluto in the 7th is nothing less than very deep, meaningful, life-changing, intense relationships--only to tell me I should probably take the next 3-4 years by myself.

I'm not the by myself type! I have sun and venus in the 5th, and I'm 40 this October--okay! I cannot bear to think of 3-4 years w/out a man at THIS age!

I intend to die with the juiciest memoirs ever. . .

posted February 09, 2006 09:42 AM              

So sorry, well at least you know the answer and can move on. One thing about Scorpios if they are done with something they are done. If they do go back....they weren't really done in the first place, if they don't-- they are really done.

posted February 09, 2006 12:19 PM              

As seriously as we expect (yes, EXPECT, demand) others take our own hearts--it's another story sometimes with these men.

They can be self-serving, with no consideration of the other person, and with absolutely NO apologies. I have been on the receiving end of a it. Nothing like falling head over heels for them, and then having them tell you,"get over it" only to be made invisible by them.

Being made invisible is the worst, most hurtful thing, because at least when you are arguing with them, you are engaged. Not healthy, but . . . they could learn to be more delicate with others feelings.