posted March 06, 2006 08:56 PM
I've been busy...
*nervous here*
And a quick question:
Cause, I know I've heard it, but do not recall the info...
The blue connecting lines, are favorable, and the red connecting lines are not so favorable, right?
What are the dotted, and divided lines?
I must have missed that somewhere.
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Ok, the Libra sun, trining the Aquarius influenced, Venus & Mars.
I believe within me, they are at work in enabling, me to be one of those type that 'deeply, loves a great deal', yet understands that for the growth of all concerned, that setting something you love free, is the best path to follow.
Venus lending favor to really loving other's, no matter where they fall in my list of aquaintances.
Mars being the totally unexpected, since my persona is normally observant, held in check.
It's just another day, to suprise someone with an unexpected comment or gesture. {people who know me well, and i'm comfortable with know this to just be part of who I am, but other's have been sitting on a fence, wondering where the heck it came from while they are rolling with laughter, or trying to connect, what is so funny.}
It also serves well in the reverse situation, by me being able to be finished, and dust my feet on the way out, never to turn back again.
It also effects me, in the way that I am of the nature, to forgive and forget {sooner than most}, very rarely, do I hold a grudge.
I'm one of those that goes to sleep before my head hits the pillow (unless of course, something is weighing on my mind).
I'm able to understand all different types of viewpoints, and take them into consideration.
I do not care for 'meddling', but if asked, or brought into the conversation, i do try to help other's to take into consideration, different senario's. {sometimes it helps to disarm hostility (and lend in someone/s understanding of other's), and sometimes, it's just a waste of breath. [and i hate a waste, no matter what it may be...]}
I feel, that anything is subject to being settled in a proper, respectful manner, everyone taking turns to listen, and to talk, {yet do not think that i wouldn't throw down with the rest of you if the situation lead to that type resolve.} {but more than likely, I'd just walk away...after, having my say, in the topic.}
In the past, I'd have kept the thoughts to myself, rather than to lay ground for hurting other's feelings, though, as I've gotten older, i realised that holding what i was thinking, was one contributing factor to making me ill.
So, now, I figure; since i'm usually tactful in my approach of conversation (especially in dealing with uncomfortable situations), and when i'm finished saying what I think, the offender usually knows 'they've been told', as well as anyone within earshot, and that usually brings the issue of conversation to a halt {at least till I'm out of earshot}.
I hate conflict, actually, i feel allergic to conflict, it bother's me so.
so either working it out by talking, or totally leaving the premise.
I'm one of those, who do not care to start trouble, but rather, one to gather everyone together, and conferrence over the topic, so things are no longer hidden. {some folks do not like this approach, and some think it's a great idea}
I am usually calm, when there is alarm {in all sorts of matter's}.
Yet, I'm the one that the heart is quite nearly, torn from (hurt as deeply, as love), when things are not as they appear, or suggested/implied to be.
oh, I bet they have a good deal with my being able to catch a glimpse of the good in everyone, 'their potential', I call it.
I am usually able to find the good things amoung the not so good things...
Being friendly, and dreading the thought of hurting other's, and not really understanding why other's would want to hurt me,(anyone hurt for any reason) I have a hard time with the idea that other's do not like me, for whatever their reason may be.
I am myself, and am able to understand other's pov's, and expect other's to be themselves, and understand mine as well.
It has to do with the spark inside me, for taking up for the underdog.{I may not have done it for myself, but will step forward first, for other's. [absolutely, can not stand a bully!]}
Mercury is in Aquarius as well in this harmoninc chart.
This has to do with the ability, to comprehend things that other's may not be able to.
Also, with the stance I feel about 'truth'.
The truth may hurt, this is true, but it will not spin webs of harmful, deceit.
I have a really hard time, trying to tell a lie, and would rather not answer, or use a coded answer, to get out of having to lie.
And I realise now, how this involves, my being able to outwardly seem as if I'm indifferent while certain, situations are in play.
To seem as if I do not care, when actually I do care, very much.
It's kind of a protective shield, of sorts...
It also aids, in being able to learn, and communicate with other's.
It has to do with my wit, being quick to catch on, and also with being able to know things, and turn an enlightening phrase, when the urge strikes.
I'm thinking, that this has alot to do with the empathic, intution, quailites, that are naturally gifted to me.
Though, Saturn in Libra, plays a part here.
In mental, and intellectual, choices, of whether to open my mouth, or keep it shut.
The occurance of inhibition of speaking, with my quick wit, is held back here...
With Libra influencing both the Sun, and Saturn, I always strive for balance in sharing, and fairness, and am ever so charming & charismatic, and fear being left behind, by having no companion.
Uranus in Saggitarius, and Pluto in Aries, Neptune, in Cancer.
Uranus in Sagittarius, deals with the wacky side of me, being open to all sorts of different, sitmulus, idea's, role play, unusual, and exciting.
Fun loving, perhaps my sense of humor comes from this, as I am able to find all sorts of silly/sexual relationship, with simple things & words, that no one, even related to the relationship of their words, while speaking them, a.k.a. 'dirty minded' {but not 'sick minded'}.
With Saturn, eyeballing the situation, and i usually keep it to myself, and wear a questioning grin 
, unless, I feel comfortable in relating the gist.
Pluto in Aries, well, normally, I'm quite shy, as in first appearances.
Pluto is basically extremes, and Aries is action.
Yep, extreme, unexpected action, once I'm comfortable in knowing that my differences aren't gonna set someone running in the opposite direction, by showing that side of myself.
Uranus in Sagittarius, trines my Pluto in Aries.
Both fire elements.
I do get a kick out of shocking tales, and qips.
Love to see the look of a dropped jaw. {I'm so bad!}
Maybe the Aries Pluto, gives me the confidence to do so.
I can be very optimistic, and inspiring, and have strong convictions about the way things should work, and all sorts of ideas, that would help things be the way they should.
And I'm always open to other ideas...
Have I forgotten anything? hmmm...
And I can't help but to be curious...
If you were to lay a chart over this one, what would be the best placement to compliment each other?
Lindaland
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