posted March 31, 2006 02:51 PM              

It is difficult to tell much about a relationship with only one inter-aspect to look at. Your Pluto (transformation, also control) conjunct his Ascendant (self) could indicate he feels you control him in some way. This may be his way of indicating he is in control of himself. Also take a look at his birth chart and see if he wants to have conflict in relationships, or if there is something in his energy that conflicts with yours in some way.

In control,

posted March 31, 2006 03:21 PM              

Here is a copy of his chart at astro.com. Now he has an absolute fear of control in any way within relationships...it gets to the point of paranoia sometimes. When he said the thing about putting me off balance or to "distabilize me", which were his exact words, I thought that revealing. We also have a saturn squaring venus in our synastry, which I definitely also feel in our interaction.

Would love some help in getting to the bottom of this...cause he isn't mean as a person, or so I think

posted March 31, 2006 04:48 PM              

What about Pluto conjunct someones Sun in Synastry...what about pluto conjunct mars?

posted March 31, 2006 05:12 PM              

In his chart he has Pluto (transformation, also control) focused in his 12th house (spirituality, also confusion) conjunct (energy is combined with) Ascendant (self). So, perhaps on one level he is confused about control issues, or on another level feels that he needs to "get control" (connect Pluto into his Ascendant).

Your Pluto aspects his:
- Sun (self-expression)
- Moon (home, also emotions)
- Mars (being, also action)
- Uranus (friends, also rebellions)

These aspects are NOT in his birth chart, so this is a NEW source of Pluto control power...coming from YOU. While this could be OK when you and he are together, when he can "sort of" feel in control. But, out in the open, he may feel a need to PROVE he has some control over the relationship.

On your side of things, his Saturn (duty, also restriction, authority) squares (energy needs to be combined with) your Moon (home, also emotions) and Venus (relationships - which you mentioned). So he can be harsh to both your emotions and to the relationship. This is also NEW energy to you, not to be found in your birth chart.

Taking a look just at his birth chart we see he has Gemini (thinking, also talking) modifying Mars (being, also action, anger) conjunct Venus conjunct Saturn trine (energy goes easily with) his Libra (relationships) modifying Ascendant (self), so he might easily use restrictive, relationship, talking-anger in his personal relationships.

Not exactly "mean" but certainly not the most pleasant experience! If you DID decide to get "serious", this sort of behavior could get real old real fast!

Relating,

Tim

posted March 31, 2006 05:14 PM              

Pluto in a synastry is about "power", specifically the power one person has over another. The conjunction indicates a combination of energies. One person's Pluto conjuncting ANYTHING in a synastry chart will indicate that this person "overpowers" the other person in some way. And, for some people, they might ENJOY this!

Powerfully,

posted December 06, 2015 05:55 AM            

quote:

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Is there anything positive about this aspect?

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Wilson adeptly covered that didn't he?
some people like being in control and some people like being controlled,lol, balance is key

posted December 06, 2015 12:41 PM            

Ps. Sorry I answered that as composite.