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Topic: Aries females: how do you know they are into you???
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bodysnatcher unregistered
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posted May 18, 2006 05:29 PM
ok ladies i'm a sun sagg moon in cap ascen taurus ... my question is the Aries female mind, they seem so aloof to me so how can i detect if one is into me or not. I mean hey from where i stand it seems like this female may be real into all my male buddys, what gives, please shed some light on this subject.IP: Logged |
Salisa unregistered
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posted May 18, 2006 06:03 PM
Are you talking about solar Aries or Lunar Aries or both?IP: Logged |
ariestiger unregistered
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posted May 18, 2006 06:25 PM
If they are into you, trust me, they will let you know (i.e. they will tell you so: "I LIKE/FANCY YOU/I AM DEFINETELY INTERESTED" within a fairly short time, or stroke your arm gently, which is a signal for you to reciprocate). They are upfront, direct, and tend not to play games unless they are unevolved or the relationship just isn't right (i.e. they aren't into you). Hope this helps.  AT IP: Logged |
Ausra unregistered
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posted May 18, 2006 08:57 PM
Hi Bodysnatcher, being an Aries, I can say that I have been described as being aloof, rather than fully direct. I am direct though, and it took me a while to figure out why guys thought I was aloof. I never chased anyone ever because I felt fully comfortable with myself. So I think the self confidence comes across as being aloof. Also I think an Aries gal likes to know that you are a little bit interested yourself, as if there is nothing an Aries won't bite. I guess it is a bit of a game, but us Aries don't like having our pride and ego shot down, so if there is a hint of a possiblity they will run with it. Hope this helps!!! IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 1335 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 18, 2006 09:08 PM
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shop22much Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 18, 2006 09:40 PM
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Lauren unregistered
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posted May 19, 2006 03:57 AM
You sound like an earthy Sag..with Cappy moon and Taurus Asc.. is she earthy? Do you know her chart?I'm an Aries and in my experience my Moon/Asc/Mercury have affected the way I act in relationships a lot more than my Sun. Women are very much so in tune with the Moon. For instance, my moon is in Capricorn, so men who have planets in Aries conjunct my Sun, also square my Moon. I have to say dealing with male Arien energy squaring my Moon is so scary and sometimes hurtful to me, not so much Aries suns.. but definitely Aries Mercury.. Talking to them is like being constantly stabbed. That’s one of the ways I can tell my Moon affects me more.. With Capricorn on the other hand, it squares my Sun.. but these people (any placements in Capricorn) never normally hurt me, and they always have respect which is the main thing that matters to me in any relationship. My bf has Moon/Asc in Cap and almost NO fire in his chart (only Uranus). Yes, lack of fire gets annoying to me at times (though everything else is pretty perfect).. but not even close to how I’d feel dating someone with Aries planets who has no earth. I’ve been in that position before and it was a very bad experience. So if you can get a hold of her chart, check her Moon sign. It’s important! IP: Logged |
Stargazer Knowflake Posts: 46 From: just left of center Registered: May 2009
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posted May 19, 2006 04:30 PM
Aries Woman: an excerpt from "Zodiac Athena's Sunsigns" by, Athena Starwoman. Athena comes from a whole family of Astrologers. I find her writing unique... Hope this helps with your Aries expedition  And Welcome!!!!  Aries Woman "She can be quite a head-turner (even in her older years) and men are often floored by her appearance. When she walks down the street she usually creates quite an impact. However, no matter pretty, sweet or beguiling she may appear outwardly (usually applies when she is on her best behavior), if you're dealing with an Aries woman, do not race in- instead, tread warily. Like playing with a loaded pistol, it isn't wise to take your chances or rely on luck with her. Ms. Aries definitely has a mind of her own and she can be forceful at times (in both hidden and obvious way) that more fragile souls may find her overwhelming. She is unique in her ability to have her way, come hell or high water. Saying no to an Aries can be just like raising the red flag. She sees weakness as a lack of character. And she won't tolerate or put up with weakness of her own or in others in a compassionate manner. If you want to delve into the depths of her soul and get to know her better, it may take you some time. Don't judge her by her initial actions, appearance or beliefs. Keep looking, watch her eyes, and her body language instead of the performance, and you'll see an extremely feminine. sensitive, and sometimes insecure and complex woman. If you look close enough and see the occasions when tears well up in her eyes, you'll know that she's also one of the most vulnerable women of the zodiac. But you won't see her tender side unless she really trusts you. She often doesn't even appreciate her more tender side herself. She prefers to be calm, cool and collected and while this isn't always easy for her- she skillfully conceals her true feelings with clever humor and hides her heart behind many different masks. This woman's strong belief in herself and complete confidence in miracals spurs her on to jump from one new experience to another. She seeks adventure and her impulsive nature urges her to take some whopper risks. She's daring enthusiastic, dramatic and , on occasion, she's openly selfish. She drives herself forward, rather than looking back-secretly afraid of what she might see. She has a great attitude that the past and the future are two different things. She doesn't necessaritly carry the burdens of the past on her shoulders- the way some other signs do. The Aries woman is an idealist who values truth, fairness and justice. She's fiercely loyal and will take on any challenger to defend her family or friends or to fight for a worthy cause. And if she loves you, she will die for you if necessary- such is her devotion." As an Aries moon myself, I would say that if she's interested in anything more than a fleeting romance, she'll let you know. Otherwise, hold onto your pride. Aries women can "love em and leave em". Its sometimes a good thing for her because she has the uncanny ability to fall madly in love-- for a month or two at a time! Good luck!!
Virgo/ Aries/ Cappy rising
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Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 19, 2006 04:47 PM
Arian women do appear strong and independent, there's nothing strange about it and thats the way they are...but do you know her Moon and DSC signs?Welcome to LL!  ------------------ Sun - Taurus Moon - Sagittarius ASC - Capricorn IP: Logged |
bodysnatcher unregistered
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posted May 19, 2006 05:42 PM
ok i believe the moon position is Leo according to the book i checked if that helps, just getting mixed signals thats all! Hot and Cold vibes ya knowIP: Logged |
shop22much Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 19, 2006 06:15 PM
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Inner depths unregistered
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posted May 31, 2006 12:15 AM
I'm a Sun in Aries gal - I sort of think it could also depnd on the person's chart. I look at my chart and I see that I'm the hardest catch a guy could ever face and have to be gently over time, eased into a relationship. (I have Sun in Aries(11th) in a T square with uranus in Libra (5th) and mars in Capricorn (8th). I have Sagitarius ruling my 7th and my Jupiter is in Sag conj neptune - squaring venus in pisces in the 10th. I have an Aquarian MC and North node. They say the the freedom loving signs of the zodiac is Aries, Sagitarrius and Aquarius - they all have strong places in the chart. Uranus in the 5th gives my love affairs and on again off again tempo to it - well that was in my younger days.......Now I wouldn't go for that stuff. I'm an intensly private person who's number relationship is with myself. I need ample amounts of freedom cause I dread traditional relationships. Though my venus in pisces sometimes sucks me into relationships - if I really like the guy. Some guys tell me that I should open up more, but my intuition tells me different. Instinctivly I know who to open up to and who I should not open up to. there's my 2 cents worth Inner
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ScarlettSoul unregistered
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posted May 31, 2006 04:01 AM
Hi there - As an aries woman (leo rising, pisces moon), I have been told I'm a "tough crowd", or that I come off as aloof or as though I don't "need" a man. Well, that just ticks me off. Nothing is further from the truth! Usually, if I like someone a lot, I tend to freeze up and ignore them, I think for fear of saying the wrong thing. Those that I have NO romantic interest in I find myself treating differently - I am much friendlier b/c there's nothing really at risk. An outsider looking in may think I do not like the ONE man in the room that I actually am dying to talk to. Go figure. Aries represents the infant...I am the kind of aries that can be shy when someone has caught my eye...the baby that blushes and covers her face when a handsome stranger smiles at her through a crowd... the little one who hides behind mom's skirt but follows you with her eyes, she just doesn't want you to see her doing it... I personally like a man that comes after me and is persistent about spending time with me. I think you should ask for her number and give her a call. IP: Logged |
Charlotte unregistered
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posted May 31, 2006 05:30 AM
Hi! Bodysnatcher, well I'm an Aries and I have a Sag moon. I think most Aries believe in True love and spend our life wanting love at first sight. We are not known for our patience. I guess we pride ourselves on being very strong and independent, but deep down we are that frightened child, afraid of rejection. I think she is reaching out and then pulling back because she is unsure.BTW Kudos to my fellow Aries knowflakes, there are some awesome responses here. 
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