posted July 15, 2012 11:41 AM
ok. let's do this! lolunfortunately there is no set formula for men, but i decided to thoroughly check my father (since i have his exact time of birth) lol!
in the solar return there needs to be lots of Saturn stuff going on (10th-father), as well as important Jupiter and Venus aspects!
2012 :
pregnancy of wife/partner
my dad had SR Moon on natal Jupiter
your guy has SR Jupiter on natal Moon
my dad SRPOFortune conjunct natal Saturn(2degrees)
your guy SRVenus conjunct natal POF (2degrees)
my dad SRvertex conjunct MC
your guy SRvertex conjunct AC (SRACnatalVertex too)
my dad SRVenus 29degreeCapricorn
your guy SR Moon conjunct natal Venus
my dad SRCeres square natal Ceres(4degrees)
your guy SRCeres square natal Ceres (4degrees) lol wow
your guy also has SR Ceres square natal Sun
my dad SRNerthus conjunct SRMars(water signs)
your guy SRNerthus trine SRmars(water signs)
i like what i see so far. 
2013
(the big year) lmao!
now my dad had no big aspects that women have except one:
my dad SRMars conjunct SRJupiter
your guy SR Mars semi-sextile SRJupiter
(they count all aspects including semi-sextile)
your guy also has SR Mars sextile natal Jupiter
my dad SRVenus conjunct natal Venus
your guy SRVenus conjunct natal Venus
my dad SR Moon conjunct SR Saturn both quincunx his natal Venus
your guy SR Venus/SRNNode/SRSaturn all conjunct !! his natal Venus (karmic stuff)!
my dad SR AC conjunct natal Saturn
your guy SR AC conjunct natal MC(Saturn house)
my dad SRCeres conjunct natal AC
your guy SRCeres conjunct natal MC
my dad SRPOF conjunct natal PallasAthene
your guy SRPallasAthene conjunct his natal Sun/Moon midpoint!
your guy also has:
SRMercury conjunct natal Jupiter
(hisSR10thhouseruler-Saturn)
SRMC conjunct natal Moon
SR in Gemini, SR ruler Mercury conjunct natal Jupiter (i see twins again) lol ; his natal Moon in Gemini trines his natal Saturn(father) , his 5th house ruler Mars(Leo) in 9th house sextile both Moon+Jupiter (i know you said you are not 100% on his time of birth, but i believe he has twins indicated in his birth chart as well).
ok that's all i've got! i hope it's okay i compared it like that my dad/your guy, i wanted too see clear patterns, and patterns i've found!
it has to mean something with all the patterns/similarities! ain't no other way! lol 
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wait! lol
i also checked my dad's Juno for the year of marriage
my dad SRJuno oppo SR NNode
your guy SR Juno oppo natal Sun/Moon midpoint (almost exact)!
my dad SR Pallas Athene conjunct natal NNode
your guy SR Pallas Athene conjunct natal S/M midpoint
Saturn is also very important for year of marriage for men!
my dad SR Saturn oppo natal Sun
your guy SR Saturn conjunct natal Venus/JUNO
i see marriage indicators for him too!
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i also saw some interesting SR 2013 (you) + SR 2013 (him) ...
his SR Jupiter conjuncts your SR Ceres
his SR Jupiter trine your natal Ceres
his SRMars (tight) sextile your natal Mercury(5thruler)
his SRMercury trine your natal Mercury(5thruler)
his SRVenus/NNode/Saturn largely conjunct your natal Ceres
his natal Sun trine your SRMars(+SRPAthene)
his natal Ceres trine your SRMars
his natal Moon largely conjunct your SRMercuy/Venus
his SRMercury conjunct your natal Saturn0.01
his SRNNode sextile your natal Juno 0.06
his SRVE/NN/Sat conjunct your DSC
his SRJuno trine your natal Sun 0.05
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ok i got a bit carried away now lmao! i got really into it. sorry. in my opinion there is no way for it to not mean something BIG. it's all interconnected!
i really think both of you have really STRONG indicators for childbirth indeed (am totally convinced of this!) and possibly marriage too!
=)