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posted September 17, 2006 05:59 PM            

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This is done in a rush but I notice:

*Your sun, pluto, merc and ura all sit in the 8th - so these planets falling there indicates that you like to penetrate and have some sort of sco flavour to these planets. Maybe a sco obsessively attracts you because of this.

25 Oct 1969 - jup conj venus - not an obsessive thing but his pluto sits 5 deg from your SN. Although nep is an outer planet, it it is sextile with pluto and there is also a squ (albeit very wide) between your mars and his pluto. His mars also sits in your 1st house - sexual attraction of some sort.

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posted September 17, 2006 06:04 PM            

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23 Oct 1969 - as with 25 Oct 1969

Also, a lot their planets fall in your 8th. I realise that things like Ura and Plu are generational and would be slow to move out but maybe these planets would trigger you to be obsessive when there is another trigger in the chart is touched (eg mars in the 1st).

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posted September 17, 2006 06:20 PM              

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;-) Thanks, 23! However, I'm not very astute in knowing what houses or planets or anything means....sorry. But I do like to penetrate things. I'm sure that's where my obessessiveness comes from. That need spills over into all avenues of my life. I guess that can be a not so good thing.

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posted September 17, 2006 10:42 PM              

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One Scorpio men sometimes comes to me at the office to chat and he often tells that his Virgin wife has very difficult nature :"If not 3 (adult!)children i'd devorce from her, i often run to the sons and ask them to hide me from her." I don't know what is the reason, but may be the difference in aducation - he is well - educated, she is not.
As for Scorps, i'm sure not only Virgin are attracted, i knew Aqua,Pisces,Sags and as for Aries myself i also know what it is - pain, sufferings and passion in one bottle...

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posted September 18, 2006 01:30 PM              

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Elena, sounds like she's unhappy and they have serious communication problems, which has been known to be a VIrgo trait. Right Virgos? And from what I learned Scorpios have communication problems too. I think the two just can't communicate. You should sort of hint at telling him that instead of talking to you about these things that he should speak to her about them. He'd be surprise how well she'll respond to him.

Well..... Wait a minute.

The only thing is they have to open to what each other says and really consider the others position. That's hard for a Virgo to do. It took me a long time to get to the point wherein I can do that. Lots of trials and tests and overcoming. But if he's got one of those bullheaded Virgos that can only hear herself, then maybe she may not respond well to him. But at least he can give it a try.

Here's another thing he can try. Tell her! If she's opinionated, bullheaded and unable to hear anyone but herself, he should tell her. Because we are introspective and for us to hear about a part of ourselves we haven't considered can spark a major journey for us wherein we try to find that rank part of ourselves and change it. That's what I did.

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posted September 18, 2006 01:35 PM              

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Oh, I have to disagree about the communication. The only time I really have direct, honest and comfortable communications is with Virgos. I find them really easy to talk to. I like their "no nonsense" approach. I also find Virgo men are the only ones that treat me as an equal (in bed and out of bed .

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posted September 18, 2006 01:44 PM              

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I just wanted to say that I love Vigos! They are direct, extremely intelligent, and not defensive!

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The only other sound's the sweep
Of easy wind and downy flake.

The woods are lovely, dark and deep.
But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep.- Robert Frost~

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posted September 18, 2006 02:51 PM              

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Lady Dee, you are totally right! We are easy to communciate with! But when junk is bad, it's bad and I found that it usually stems from some sort of communcation problems. Or something about us that we haven't figured out yet. And a person can't be too timid to tell us. I have this girlfriend who's a Virgo, like me, and boy we were having coffee one day and had this interesting discussion. I have another friend who's a Taurus, I believe, anyway my Virgo friend rubs her the wrong way. And I can totally see how and why the Taurus would feel the way she does about the Virgo. The Virgo is very opinionated but in a caring way, she only wants to help. Also, the Virgo needs to know every little detail before offering information. Well, my Taurus friend took my Virgo friend's behavior as a sign of arrogance. So, basically I told both of them that they're just not compatible as friends. Well, the Virgo friend took that hard. She was like, why not? Where did that come from? She said, she had no problem with the Taurus. So, me, knowing my Virgo friend, and knowing, that part of her that turned the Taurus off, tried to explain it to her as easy as possible. I basically told her that her style of helping is totally not the way the other person likes to recieve help. The Taurus, when she asks for something, she doesn't need the other stuff, only what she asks for and that's it. the Taurus didn't want her to probe, ask all these extraneous question, only give her the data she asked for. Well, my Virgo friend is unable to do that! I know. But where I welcome that because I love deep interaction, my Taurus friend doesn't. But here's the clincher, my Virgo friend had no idea that she does this. To EVERYBODY! Even her son's friends. And that it can be invasive and turn some people off. But you know, I'm still not sure if she gets it. I don't think so. Maybe. However, what I'm saying is the man definitely needs to communicate with the Virgo, but if she's like my friend, she may not get it or be ready to get it or care to get it but she'll at least hear it and try to reason it out. I think a lot has to do with what's at stake, though. For the Scorpio Elena mentioned, it's his marriage. But it's just my experience. Other Virgos tend to get on my nerves after a certain point because they seem to know so much. And believe me, if we believe something, we may be easy to communciate with, talk to, and stuff, but if we believe something, like the moon is green, we will argue or position so well that you'll question whether the moon is green or not :-) Ahhh... the old days. Oh, and I've been out with a few Virgo men, and though the sex was "sensual" (7 big "O"s in 1 hour, I KID YOU NOT!!! -- ahhh...Memories :-) out side of bed, in conversation, man, did they get on my nerves. And Was like, am I this way?!?! Really, am I :-) Opinionated. Knew everything. Had a suggestion for every little itty bitty situation. Geesh. BUT, the sex was.....7 BIG O's in less than an hour!!! Ahhh memories :-)

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posted September 18, 2006 05:44 PM            

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I knew a Virgo male - Sco female couple. The female said that he would not communicate and as a result, his nickname became "The Rock". He would also deny her sex as punishment too.

Otherwise, you'd think they would be good at communicating with mercury their ruler. My best friend as a teenager was at least a sun/moon virgo and she could communicate well. Another one I knew did as well. Another one was a language teacher of mine. However, I have found that they could go nasty with words when they choose to.

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posted September 18, 2006 06:10 PM              

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I know, 23! That's interesting. I'm one of those Virgos who simply have the communication problem. It's not that I don't know how to communicate or what to say, for me it's the fall out. Because I've already probed the situation deeply and come to some sort of conclusion and maybe discussing it will take me to new levels I don't either feel like going or will eventually devestate me. Geesh, nothing is ever simple. I need to be one of those signs that just flies by the seat of their pants. Is that the Pisces? My 5 year old nephew is a Pisces and he just goes where the next moment takes him. And he'll make the most deepest emotionally charged statements as easy as flipping on a light switch. Same with my Pisces cousins, who are both sisters. They're loads of fun to be around. NOT PUNCTUAL THOUGH, which drives me nuts!

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posted September 18, 2006 06:13 PM            

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Become an Aquarian - you can say bizaare stuff and no one thinks anything about it

Plus I'm punctual!

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posted September 18, 2006 06:46 PM              

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Okay! I hereby dub me an Aquarian! From this day forth :-)
By the way, my two sisters and mother are Aquarians!

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posted September 18, 2006 10:03 PM              

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Natural111, thank you for advice, imagine: this Scorp is keen on one writer, his language, his live, books. He even won the quiz on the creation of this writer, and the writer himself awarded him. This writer has died already but the scorp tells he is still his teacher. Not long ago the museum in the honour of the writer was opening in the town, many people came from different places, of course the scorp recieved the invitation but his wife HID it because SHE thought he must be on the work , he was not young to miss the working day (or some hours of working day).

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posted September 19, 2006 12:30 PM              

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Wow, Elena, his wife seems to have other issues working there that stem from something that went waaaay left during the socialization process. Geesh. Basically, she sounds pretty nuts. But, then, I don't know. I always remember this when I hear someone's demonizing story of someone else; there are two sides to every tale. ;-)

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posted May 04, 2007 01:29 AM              

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Hmmmm...would this equal attraction work for Moon Signs as well??Y'all all know about the Virgo(Sun) guy I'm talkin to.He has A Virgo Moon as well and mine is Scorpio.

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posted May 04, 2007 12:10 PM            

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Oh blimey!! this IS interesting. I'm gemini, but have mars, jupiter and saturn in virgo - yet I feel this Scorpio thing!! Would it work for me?? I'm always fascinated by scorpio celebs as well..............

I feel the pull towards scorpios!!! I have a thing about them!!!

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posted May 06, 2007 05:49 AM              

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I agree, i have virgo moon and am completely obsessed with my other half.. a double scorpio. It works both ways though.. we're obsessed with each other, theres an unbreakable bond and a deep trust. Also just for the record, my nan - a virgo, cancer moon and scorpio ascendant has been married to my grandad - a scorpio, for sixty years.. that is the the strongest , longest relationship i have known. How fantastic is that? we could all take lessons from their book.. thats devotion for you

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