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Topic: Virgo Obssession with Scorpio?
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Natural111
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posted September 13, 2006 06:40 PM
 
For 3 years I have been obsessed with this Scorpio and I wonder why. I've read where Virgo can easily be obsessed with Scorpio. Well, I raise my hand, that has been me. I know that he has with-held himself fully from me in those 3 years, has given me mixed messages. I wonder if it's because I couldn't get a full hold on him and I wanted to. I mean when I first met him, there was much I didn't like about him but I was extremely sexually attracted to him. It was crazy! I've never been so sexually attracted to someone in my life! Anyway, can anyone shed some light on that so it won't happen again. It has ruined my love life thus far. B-day is Sept 2, 4:28pm.IP: Logged |
Isis
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posted September 13, 2006 07:16 PM
The obsession can go both ways. Maybe it's just that both signs are prone to lacking detatchment? I mean, Virgos have always appeared more detached to me, but when I get to know them I've found that isn't at all the case.Welcome, by the way.  IP: Logged |
Natural111
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posted September 13, 2006 07:28 PM
Yeah, I appear very detached. It's a defense mechanism. Self preservation, I guess. Could that be the reason? I know what I was feeling. I liked the fact that we were soooo much alike. Even down to the foods we eat. We respond the same. And we had great sex! But I have great sex with everybody :-) He seemed like a safe bet. I guess. But now the spell is broken, and in a sense I still feel tied to him. I just want him gone! And it's not happening fast enough.IP: Logged |
Lady Dee
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posted September 13, 2006 07:51 PM
I think that there is a special bond between Scorpio and Virgo. I'm a Scorpio and most of my very close friends and current obsession  are Virgo. I seem to be able to trust them very quickly, which is a big thing for me. I also like their "handbrake" nature, which I NEED! IP: Logged |
scorpiopride
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posted September 14, 2006 02:18 AM
That's weird about virgos and scorps. I have only ever had two guys get obsessed with me and both were virgos. My current boyfriend has his moon in virgo but we are in love, I wouldn't call him obsessed though. interesting.IP: Logged |
steelrose
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posted September 14, 2006 04:09 AM
I know what you are talking about… It happens both ways… As a Virgo myself I have been there twice  I think it’s a kind of fascination and deep trust that works both ways…This thread has a good insight: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001634.html However, I must say that in my experience, they got fascinated with me initially and won me over… Then, when they just left I got devastated. They get obsessed first and then we do... You never fully get over a Scorpio. Virgos get to love Scorpios in ways we never even knew that were possible. Still wondering if there is any who would stay with me forever… Are we, Virgos, boring to them in the long run? Why do they leave?
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posted September 14, 2006 05:31 AM
There is definitely a Scorp/Virgo attraction. For me, it was the Virgos quiet nature and even thinking. But deep inside Virgos are a passionate cauldron...which definitely appeals to my Scorp side (evil laugh)...I must say, my virgo--many moons ago--was equally obsessed with me... IP: Logged |
Natural111
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posted September 14, 2006 11:42 AM
Steel Rose, that's a good question. It's definitely a strange phenamenon. I can remember our first real date. He was sitting across from, telling me this long story about something in the past and I didn't hear one word. All I wanted to do was jump his bones! And then later we were in this beach side club and all he wanted to do was kiss me. It's that strong sexual attraction that lingers. But I think Scorpios are more perceptive than us. I think he can see things that may not fit between us. Only now I'm starting to see them. And believe me, he was right because he definitely has to change some of those things about himself before I can be with him. He's like a kid who can't communicate wtihout raising his voice or backing out of a conversation before it ends if he doesn't like how it's going. Ticks me off. It feels abusive to me. And he can't be genuinely happy for me. I hate that too. And he keeps going on about how I'm his friend and that I'm the only friend he does this for or that for, and he can't sit in a room alone with me for more than five minutes. Did I mention we live together? Oh, we do. But we've only been roommates, he has his room I have mine. And we hadn't had sex in way over a year. And he has a girlfriend/ex girlfriend he's all tied into. And he's moving out next month and that will be that. For sure this time.IP: Logged |
Natural111
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posted September 14, 2006 12:12 PM
Woe. Steelrose, I read that other string you suggested. Woe. You answered it all for me. The obsession came from the intense trust I had in him. It was and maybe still is, like we are the same person. We even pout the same. Which is why we haven't spoken to each other in two weeks. I haven't even looked at him. But of course that trust is gone because I believe he did use me over the course of the years. He told me he never had any romantic feelings for me and we were just hanging out, having sex, having fun and that's it. I felt betrayed and used. And he said it so bitingly. So now the obsession has ended. But yep it was the trust. THANK YOU Steelrose for the information you put out there :-) You are definitely a Virgo! One of my good friends is a Virgo too and she's my unofficial shrink :-) Another good friend of mine is a Scorpio and she's my unofficial teacher. Take care!IP: Logged |
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posted September 14, 2006 12:25 PM
Welcome Natural111!We share the same b-day, so~ happy belated birthday to ya! I read your words and feel your pain, know it well......d--- them Scorp men!! lol Can you explain your name, why the three lll's? just curious. Noreen IP: Logged |
Natural111
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posted September 14, 2006 02:49 PM
LOL, Noreen, yes it's a trip. I can't believe I've been and am going through this. But it's almost the end, yay :-)Well, normally I would use a rendition of my own name but I decided not to but still capture something that describes me. I'm a quite natural person. And since I thought someone would've already thought to use Natural as a username, I added the 111, just so I can remember it. See, it's quite cereberal once you think about it, no pun intended :-) Thanks Noreen, and Happy Belated Birthday to you too! I'm hoping for a good year! IP: Logged |
Stargazer
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posted September 14, 2006 03:19 PM
Been there... and there again....done it.. many times... now own about 5 t-shirts... all at a very high price...All i seem to attract are Scorpions...not that I'm complaining ...
It's easy to become obsessed.. there is an unexplainable connection on the deepest of levels... a knowing that won't go away...
best not to fight it... just try to move forward... I've found this to be easier than moving on...It will always be there...
Oh! but there's nothing like a good Saturn transit or two to jolt you out of it...lol
God, I need therapy.... Lots of love your way.... Virgo sun, merc, venus, uranus, and pluto ------------------
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Natural111
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posted September 14, 2006 03:32 PM
LOL, Stargazer. 5 tee shirts!!! :-) I can't handle the one! You're a strong woman :-)Thanks for the encouraging words. You're right, I just need to move forward, and I will! You've all been such a help, I must say. It's good to hear from people who just basically gets it and understands it. I might even look at him when I get home tonight for the first time in two weeks... LOL!! :-) IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted September 14, 2006 03:34 PM
I think both signs are a little mysterious and secretive in their own ways.I am Scorp woman with Virgo man for almost 18 years. We have both been with no others during that time..... Although he wouldnt admit it, he is very pulled by me and I him. When we first got together we used to lock the door draw the curtains and hide from the world. To a point we are still like that now....we are choosy who we let into our life... When I was married to an Aqua it was a bit of a nightmare, cos our house was like Clapham train station...  I hated it....!! But with Mr Virgo its easier cos we both are very private....and sexy and honest and loyal and share the same sense of humour.... IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted September 14, 2006 03:41 PM
I have heard it said that at one time  and  were the same sign until Libra came along and split them up.The symbols look very similar dont they, except Virgo has his legs closed and Scorpio has hers open... IP: Logged |
Natural111
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posted September 14, 2006 06:18 PM
Wow, Sue G, Congratulations on having a lasting love!!!
I guess when two compatible people let one love the other, then it can be REAL GOOD. I hate that I've lost it for my Scorpio. I wanted to hold on to it forever. But alas.... You know I told him when I first met him that we met at the wrong time. At the time I'd been out of the dating market for 6 years (long story). So when I got in I did the internet thing for 1 year (that's all I needed to be turned off by it). But I always thought fate would bring us together in the future, when he's ready for a love like me. I don't think he is or was ever ready for me. I think I blindsided him. He told me once that he knows we're exactly alike and that's why he can't leave me alone, or something to that effect. I don't know. But congratulations on your love. It sounds beautiful. :-)IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted September 15, 2006 01:13 AM
Welcome Natural111IP: Logged |
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posted September 15, 2006 02:32 AM
***Pluto-Persephone relationship***IP: Logged |
Elena P
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posted September 15, 2006 04:07 AM
Happy birthday lovly virgos!!! Interesting subject, because virgo - it's a great mystery for me...
What is not clear in Scorp - Virgo relation is their advantage and many quarrels eitherIP: Logged |
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posted September 15, 2006 04:14 AM
Natural - is it possible you could tell us the year you were born in and the birthdates of the other 3 scos? Is it possible that there is a pluto contact to your sun or venus? IP: Logged |
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posted September 15, 2006 09:55 AM
Capricorn's have the type of effect over me that SueG mentioned. I've never been bored with a Virgo. They can keep me mentally engaged to such an extent that I have to detach a little at times... I could easily spend all day just talking and picking their brain.  _________________________________________
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posted September 15, 2006 10:42 AM
Virgo - scorpio...thats dangerous guys!! hahahhaaa
My ex-scorpio boyfriend was so obssesed with me..passionate..in love...CRAZY!!!
It was too much..! Way too much!!My mother is a scorpio ...my best friend is a scorpio..my two ex were scorpios!!
Im overdosed but still love them!! hehehhee For sure there is an attraction and a special bond between scorpios and Virgos!
I believe it 100% !! ------------------
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Natural111
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posted September 15, 2006 11:53 AM
Thanks for the welcome, Astro Junkie!23, my birthdate is Sept 2, 1969. I was brorn at 4:28p in Riverside California. I think his birthday is October 25, 1969 too. Don't know his time of birth though or where he was born. He's another Southern Californian transplant trying to make it in the fillm industry. Out here that's 1 out of every 3 people you meet! :-) Here's another crazy thing that recently happened with a Scorpio. This guy I used to see moved to Idaho from California. Idaho of all places! :-) So, I'm a city girl and he's a mountain man, which has always been the dividing factor between us. But he's a Scorpio! Again, when we met there was a strong sexual attraction. He's a surfer too so we met at Malibu beach. :-) Nice. Anyway, we had this crazy incident that happened back in May where my lack of communicating caused such a dramatic rip between is (long story there). So, two days ago, I email him to apologize because I missed him for some reason. And I thought, he'd never forgive me. But something just told me to check my caller ID, and so I did and he called on the same day I sent the email! AND, he didn't even read my email because the keyboard on his computer is out so he hasn't been checking email. It was like on the same day we both had the inclination to contact each other! Crazy. His birthday is October 23, 1969. He's barely a Scorpio :-) He's a native Southern Californian just like me. We talked about how crazy that was. But thanks to my new friends here :-) I realized that I needed to communicate what went wrong to him in May. And guess what? He understood! Crazy. So, the good thing is we're all squared up and I'm so happy to have him back in my life. Like, really happy. Communicaton is the key :-) I think that'll solve some of the problems I have with Scorpios, communication. 1scorp, I have great conversation with both Scorps. However, the one in Idaho lets me get close. The one I live with, he's always kept me at a safe distance. When we have a great conversation, he usually tells me, how great it was. He's always fought good times with me. Oh, well. But, I got to say, if there is a Scorpio in the room, he will be attracted to me. Physically. Or maybe it's the deep mysterious thing to why. Now, sustaining that attraction is a different story. I think when we get into the depths of each other that stops it. Because I can usually see through the act, to what they really are. Like when one approached me at a late night museum party last month. He insisted on buying me a drink. And I'm looking at him thinking, aren't you a little too old to be dressed like a 1980's deejay. But he was cute and interesting but I just saw something else. I didn't buy his coollness but if he wanted to get to know me then the cool guy wasn't who I wanted to get to know, I wanted to get to the real him the one I saw, and I think he saw that and didn't want to deal. Same thing with this actor I went out with once. He was "acting" all night long. Like his conversation was a script. Kept going in and out of voices and I just kept probing. Asking him questions about where he's from and his home life and stuff. And at a certain point in the night he said, he knows what I'm trying to do but he's not going to let me uncover him. That was interesting that he said that. That's exactly what I was trying to do! See behind the act because I knew there was a real person there and he was just going to have to know me at the real level or not at all. Anyway, those have been more Scorpion experiences I've had. IP: Logged |
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posted September 17, 2006 07:42 AM
If virgos' seem's to be "obsessed" with Scorpios.What happens if his Pluto is in Virgo and her Venus is in Scorpio?Fireworks or extremely heavy feelings.  IP: Logged |
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posted September 17, 2006 11:33 AM
If his Pluto say is at 8' Virgo and her venus at 8' Scorpio...then that would be a sextile...And yes, that would be a powerful, fated, obsessive, can't live without you.. kind of feeling...But.. if you read Relationship signs, Linda puts more umph.. in the conjunction. So, his pluto at 8' virgo and her venus at 8' virgo would be the most powerful for a Virgo/Scorpio couple as I can attest... especially, if one's own pluto is in Virgo in the 8th house. It is usually Venus that is the most obsessed..Left with the feeling of being posessed... the whole chart would need to be looked at...Pluto definitely wields the power.... not to be taken lightly at all... ------------------
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