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Topic: best synastry for passion and sex
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cute crab unregistered
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posted September 17, 2006 11:48 AM
can ayone tell me what aspects in synastry really signify real passion and sexIP: Logged |
darkdreamer unregistered
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posted September 17, 2006 12:16 PM
That is something, I also would like to know.I`d say, following combinations could be a good indicator for passionate love: Venus / Mars Venus / Pluto Mars / Pluto Moon / Mars Moon / Pluto Venus / AC Mars / AC Pluto / AC I guess, the hard aspects would create very extreme feelings: attraction near to insanity or absolute repulson (especially with Pluto involved). But I wonder: does a Moon-Mars-trine also points towards sexual attraction? Oh and I think it`s important to look at the natal charts, because you can have a wonderful Venus-Pluto-conjunction with someone and maybe get scared by the depth of passion, if your own Venus is maybe located in Aquarius and square Uranus. Also I think, you can see certain sparks flying, by comparing the placements of Venus and Mars in the horoscopes. EX: She: Venus in Scorpio He: Mars conjunction Pluto I`ve often seen similiar connections, created in the natals, without even looking at synastry. EX: My Venus is square my Pluto His Ascendant (Mars-point) is in Scorpio. So, I have Venus-Pluto, which shows that I am attracted (Venus) to Plutonians. And his Ascendant in Scorpio shows that he has many plutonion traits; this might be the reason I feel a nearly insane attraction towards him, even though there is no aspect between Pluto and Venus or Mars in our synastry. DD
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starflower Newflake Posts: 15 From: UK Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2006 04:31 PM
I cant add much to what darkdreamer has written, I can just verify from my own experience that these are particularly hot connections  Moon opp Pluto- can be an obssessive, extremely intense link, but hot and very sparky too Venus conj Mars - (I've seen it written that this is the greatest indicator of all for sexual attraction) Venus opp Pluto Venus trine Uranus Mars trine Pluto Here's a link to one of my favourite synastry pages http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html#Moon%20trine
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libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2006 04:51 PM
Had these aspects with an old boyfriend, pretty HOT!!!Venus square Mars Mars conjunction Ascendant Venus opposite Pluto Mars square Mars Sun square Mars Mars opposite Sun Mars square Pluto Pluto square Moon Pluto opposite Mars
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23 Knowflake Posts: 714 From: The Strand Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2006 04:56 PM
As LC7 said, you go for those hard squares and conjunctions for instant attraction but not necessarily lasting attraction. IP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2006 05:00 PM
Oh it was great in the bedroom, it's just outside we were at each others throats, we would argue about the smallest things too(it also felt like we were both keeping score of things, like "I answered the phone 10 times this week now it's your turn to answer 10 times" real stupid stuff)!IP: Logged |
23 Knowflake Posts: 714 From: The Strand Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2006 05:14 PM
LC7 - well I think you just described perfectly the effect of those aspects; can't stand each other out of the bed but can't resist each other in it. Friction is the key, friction produces heatIP: Logged |
23 Knowflake Posts: 714 From: The Strand Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2006 05:15 PM
Otherwise, your mars in the 5th or 8th house of the partner's chart is a killer too. IP: Logged |
and Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted September 17, 2006 05:19 PM
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23 Knowflake Posts: 714 From: The Strand Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2006 05:23 PM
And also the other person's asc running through the 8th can be bad, esp if it hits a node or vertex. IP: Logged |
WaterNymph unregistered
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posted September 17, 2006 06:18 PM
The best is Venus/Uranus - although often fleeting…perhaps that’s why it’s so desirableMoon/Mars is on fire  IP: Logged |
OzMeg222 Newflake Posts: 0 From: victoria, australia Registered: Aug 2009
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posted September 17, 2006 06:48 PM
We have (amongst others): moon trine venus moon trine mars moon sex ac venus square mars venus trine pluto venus opp pluto venus opp ac venus sex ac mars opp pluto mars sex ac mars sex acUnbeleivably hot. It amuses me cos sometimes I could strangle him but are still turned on by him. We can't say no to one another. Not sure which aspects are the hot ones though. My guess its a combination of the lot. IP: Logged |
cute crab unregistered
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posted September 18, 2006 02:31 AM
my boyfriend n i have these aspects... its really passionate n i feel like this should never get over....very friendly otherwise in public,but very passionate alone...u know.. Sun Opposition Moon Sun Square Saturn Sun Square Pluto Moon Conjunction Mercury Moon Sextile Midheaven Mercury Trine Neptune Mercury Sextile Pluto Venus Sextile Sun Venus Sextile Mars Venus Trine Uranus Mars Opposition Mercury Mars Trine Midheaven Uranus Opposition Sun Uranus Opposition Mars Uranus Conjunction Jupiter Uranus Conjunction Uranus Neptune Sextile Saturn Neptune Conjunction Neptune Neptune Opposition Ascendant Pluto Square Moon Pluto Conjunction Saturn Pluto Sextile Neptune Pluto Conjunction Pluto Pluto Trine Ascendant
i get turned on by what he speaks...it shocks me sometimes.. mars in the 5th house really ROCKS. IP: Logged |
Atlenta unregistered
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posted September 18, 2006 03:23 AM
Also, venus in the 8th and mercury in the 7th or 8th...as they say, passion and sex is about communication, without which is just the movements. Mercury aspecting uranus in synastry is good for mental sparks too. IP: Logged |
darkdreamer unregistered
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posted September 18, 2006 11:10 AM
OzMeg222,you wrote: "sometimes I could strangle him but are still turned on by him" That describes exactly, what I feel for a certain guy. He really gets under my skin, in every kind of way. I checked your aspects and saw that you included some aspects with very wide orb. Everyone has their own opinion on that matter, but I think that the narrower the orb is, the more clearly the aspect is felt. That is especially true with aspects by Uranus, Neptune and Pluto. (I`m just voicing my opinion here). Pluto moves so slowly that everyone of your age and a bit older or younger will have a certain aspect to your Venus, and personally I keep the orb on Pluto quite small. I still think an nearly exact Pluto-aspect will have a powerful effect, but if it`s an aspect with an orb of 4 or 5° it`s just not that individual. So, I listed your aspects in the order of their degree of exactness; I only list the strongest ones (according to their exactness): Moon trine Mars 0°41 Mars square Venus 1°45 AC sextile Mars 2°17 I also looked at the declinations, and here you have Mars contraparallel Venus 0°04 Pluto parallel Mars 0°54 Also, you have some interesting midpoints-configurations: Your Sun / Mars = his Mercury,AC-ruler Your Moon / Mars = his Jupiter, DC-ruler your Moon / Pluto = his Jupiter, DC-ruler His Venus / Mars = your Mars So you see, you have a Venus-Mars-connection on different levels (square, contraparallel, midpoint), and the other combinations also point to a powerful attraction. I`m new to the concept of midpoints and declinations, but they seem to be important; at least it`s the only way to explain my attraction to that guy, I wrote about. In the longitudes we have (among others): Sun trine Moon 1°31 Sun sextile Venus 1°53 Moon trine Mars 1°10 Venus sextile Uranus 1°00 Those are the most important relationship-aspects we have; as you can see there are very few of them, and they don`t explain the strong attraction I feel. In the declinations we have: Pluto contraparallel Moon (Moon - Pluto definitely is a hot aspect) And there are some interesting midpoints: His Sun-Moon = my AC-ruler His Venus-Mars = my Sun-Moon = my Vertex = my AC My Venus-Mars = his Node My Venus-Uranus = his Mars My Moon-Pluto parallel his Sun (declinational midpoint) And this feels more like a true reflection of my feelings for him. Oh I nearly forgot: We have Venus solstice Mars; in Transpersonal astrology (German astrology school) it`s among the strongest aspects. Another idea I`ve been toying around with is to look what strong aspects the ruler of certain houses make. This would be very individual (and you could even include Pluto here). I`d look at the 1st, 7nth, 5th and 8th house for romantic and sexual attraction.
For example the ruler of his 8th house (Venus) squares your Mars. Since the ruler of the 8th house is similiar to Pluto, that would be like another strong Mars-Pluto-connection. I`d consider that as VERY hot, even though not easy outside the bedroom.  But of course, everything I wrote here, is just theories. DD IP: Logged |
lovegoblin Knowflake Posts: 28 From: miami Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 18, 2006 03:27 PM
since some were talking about venus/mars making different types of aspects-would mars with 167 degrees of someone's venus form any type of aspect?IP: Logged |
Alisa unregistered
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posted September 18, 2006 03:48 PM
Lovegoblin 167 is quindecile aspect with 2 allowed orb. How do you feel? Obsessive?IP: Logged |
tbone unregistered
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posted September 18, 2006 03:56 PM
OPPOSITES ATTRACT! :0 i FOUND that Venus square (opposite) Mars is quite the "sexual connection" But, also attributes to fighting out of the bedroom..IP: Logged |
lovegoblin Knowflake Posts: 28 From: miami Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 18, 2006 03:56 PM
Alisa: i didn't at first but now i do. its hard to tell if he feels the same. but i'm good at masking my emotions due to all the pluto in my chart. who feels what with the quindecile? sometimes i get really confused.
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Alisa unregistered
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posted September 18, 2006 04:05 PM
lovegoblin quote: who feels what with the quindecile?
I think you can interpret the aspect as normal but add "obsessive" feeling into the interpretation.I found a gay couple with venus quindecile mar in synastry. However, one of the partner refuse to have sex with another one since he personally does not like sex at all. So, I think that one aspect cannot tell the whole story. I also found a couple with venus quindecile mar. They still love to have sex with each other although they already broke up. For them, it is irresistable. IP: Logged |
lovegoblin Knowflake Posts: 28 From: miami Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 18, 2006 04:08 PM
alisa- that's very funny about the gay couple~ lol yes i do find him irresistable. its funny because at first i wasn't attracted-liked him as a friend, but really not attracted "in that way" my but how things changed.IP: Logged |
Atlenta unregistered
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posted September 18, 2006 04:15 PM
Its funny because aspects are made between alot of people.. so what actually makes you pass someone by and hook with others. I've always wondered that.------------------ The kingdom of Heaven lies within - J.C IP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 18, 2006 04:20 PM
You know what it could be, this is only a theory though. It could be certain people are attracted or react better to certain aspects. Similiar to how people are attracted to a certain look or style an another person presents to them(some respond to it while others don't notice). In another thread it was called an attraction pattern!IP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 18, 2006 04:22 PM
Some people like it hot and rough, while others prefer smooth sailing!  IP: Logged |
lovegoblin Knowflake Posts: 28 From: miami Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 18, 2006 04:23 PM
yes i have wondered also! i also wonder if there is one aspect of synastry that would absolutely explain this, but probably not.
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