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BlueEyes24
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posted November 05, 2006 09:49 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is a question for anyone with a Cancer moon OR moon in the 4th house....And Cancer Venus OR Venus in the 4th house.

Do you find yourselves very clingy in relationships? I'm not talking about jealous or posessive, just really attatched to your partner?

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LuLu
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posted November 05, 2006 10:27 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus in Taurus in the 4th house. I do get very attached to my partners. But I also have Chiron in the 4th house that corresponds to the crazy childhood I had at home. I think my attachment to my partners has something to do with wanting to have a more safe and secure relationship with my partner than I had growing up with my family.

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Lady Macbeth
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posted November 05, 2006 10:52 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Blue Eyes,

4th house Cancer Moon here...yes, I become very attached to my partners and find it difficult to let go of them. I have never been the one to end a relationship because of this.

I've also got a 5th house Mars in Leo, an Aries Ascendant and four planets in Scorp, so that jealous and possessive aspect surfaces from time to time, as well.

I really do love my Moon placement, but there have been a couple of times when I have wished that I could've had been born with a Moon that would allow me to move on and release more quickly.

Interestingly, 99% of my relationships have been with folks who have Moon in Sag. I was so drawn to their spirit and spunk and was fascinated by their ability to cut and run with such ease. My little Cancer Moon just could never do that.

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Inner depths
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posted November 05, 2006 11:48 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmmmmmm I have a Cancer moon in the 2/3rd house. Maybe in my younger years I may have been clingy and now I'm anything but clingy. I even have a Pisces Venus in the 10th square to my Jupiter/Neptune conj in Sag. For the longest time I had rose tinted glasses in love relationships settling for the first guy that pops up. I don't do that any more.

My Sun (Aries) in the 11th opposite my Uranus (Libra) in the 5th really takes away from the cancer clinginess. Sometimes I view relationships as a death sentence and strongly insist on living my life and having my freedom. Most of the time I feel strongly Uranian/Aquarian. I have MC and North Node in Aquarius too.

My last boyfriend was an Aquarian with a cancer moon - he seemed more cancerlike than anything. He would phone me 50 million times each day...day after day and want to see me everyday too. I got to the point where I was really needing to recharge my batteries and go off into my solitude. He then got all panick striken cause he thought I was gonna dump him.....

Feelings of possessiveness or jealousy rarely do rear it's ulgy head. I usually go with the flow and let things lie, untill something is brought to my attention or seems highly unusual. Then I will dissect it and figure stuff out.

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sthenri
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posted November 05, 2006 11:48 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer moon in the 8th and chiron in the 4th here. Clingy and steady, but not really jealous. Can relate to wanting steady partner thing, and ditto on liking fire moons.

Natasha

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themysteryclub
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posted November 05, 2006 12:29 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
cancer moon and sun conj in the eighth here:

I only tend to want to cling to those I can't have...but I don't cling because then I feel like a loser because when I can't stand on my own two feet and feel alright. So I don't cling to people, and would rather be free than dependant on someone else to fill me up. But it is very important to me that I feel SAFE and VALUED in a relationship of any sort. That is of the utmost importance.

peace!!!
TMC

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neptune5
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posted November 05, 2006 12:34 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm Venus in 4th (with venus conjunct sun conjunct my IC of sagittarius)

um, well yea i'm quite clingy in relationships, i'm usually the one that wants to "caretake" for the other person and too nurturing at times (venus/IC sextile ceres in 2nd)

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libraschoice7
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posted November 05, 2006 01:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon in Cancer in 12th and Sun in Libra in 4th here. Yes I do get attached real easy to someone, over time you start to relate alot of your emotions to your significant other. It also makes me want to prefer staying at home cuddling on the couch and watching movies with my boyfriend rather than going out on the town with friends. People find that strange that I'm Libra and a homebody, but I don't care. Oh and I have a tendency to attract other water moons, or earth moons(mostly Capricorn)boyfriends Sun in Scorpio and Moon in Capricorn making us sort of opposites in some ways.

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

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ScorpioRising
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posted November 05, 2006 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioRising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Natasha and I seem to have a lot in common...

Cancer moon in the 8th. Clingy and steady, but not really too jealous. Can relate to wanting steady partner thing, and ditto on liking fire moons. My man is a double aries-2nd house. sun and moon.

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taurean_scorpion
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posted November 05, 2006 03:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My brother has Venus in Cancer at 29degrees, in the 10th house. Moon in Virgo in the 11th. Regardless of his (detached) placements, he's clingy and (needy). He also has Venus Sqaure Pluto and a Libra rising.
He joined the Army a year ago, but he calls my mom more than I do when she's out. Like 10 times a day. I don't want to call him a mamma's boy but sadly, he is. He's needier than I am! I am a Taurus/Scorpio/Cancer,

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posted November 06, 2006 07:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peripatus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm an Aquarian with Cancer Moon (in 6th house). I also have venus in pisces and venus opposition mars.

I would describe myself as an incurable romantic (sigh) with a tendency to be clingy in most relationships (love or otherwise). I'm aware of this fact and have tried to counter this by being more self sufficient (probably my capricorn ascendant). I've also been very cautious so far and haven't had any 'real' love/romantic relationships thus far. That said, I'm still forever hoping for 'true love' to come my way. The only thing I'm afraid of is that I might scare someone off with what I perceive is my 'emotional neediness'.

Alas, is there hope for this Aquarian?

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themysteryclub
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posted November 06, 2006 11:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
it is a fine line between unconditional love for self and surrender to the one you love

there is hope

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lovely*
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posted November 07, 2006 01:30 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my moon is "at the end of the 3rd house" but interpreted as the 4th/ conjunct venus.

i'm not clingy, but my thoughts are a split second away from my loved one.

My daughter has a cancer moon in the 12th. She's not clingy at-all and her ascendant is cancer/ I always felt robbed because she never seemed to need me.

psssst. I'm a virgo, i adore being needed.

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mother_nyx
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posted November 07, 2006 01:49 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello! I'm new to the boards, but am really enjoying the topics presented. I for one am a Taurus/Taurus rising with an Aries Moon in the 12th, but have a Cancer Venus in the 2nd house. My daughter, a Capricorn, has a Cancer Moon in the 10th house. Of the two of us, she is the clingier by far. My friends like to joke that having a Cancer Venus in the 2nd is a "Gold Digger" placement, but I have yet to hear my husband complain, lol! Actually, with the Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars and Jupiter in the 12th house, I'm pretty aloof, and tend to need my space.

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Full-fifthhouse-loulou
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posted November 07, 2006 05:07 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ah bless you Lovely, your daughter may not be clingy but she will love you to bits with those placings! I have those exact placings and I adored my mother as a child. I thought she was an angel. If she cried I died inside. But I probably didn't act outwardly clingy.

I'm not actually a clingy person which very much surprises me with a cancer moon in the 12th plus cancer ascendant. I'm actually very proud and non-clingy. However I do get very attached to those I love and I'm fiercely loyal. But not clingy. I don't need to know where my hubby is or what he's doing cos I'm happy doing my own thing.

However I do have uranus and pluto and mars in the fourth house so this might account for my independent nature.

Don't get me wrong though. The cancer influences are there. I'm a sucker for my kids (any kids!) And secretly I'm a softie. But shhhh don't tell anyone it'll do my tough reputation no good!!!!!!!!!!

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ASCENDANT CANCER
CANCER MOON 12TH HOUSE

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astro junkie
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posted November 13, 2006 03:09 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome mother_nyx

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astro junkie
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posted November 13, 2006 03:21 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
BlueEyes24 -

My Cancer Moon is in my 3rd House. I'm best when the person I'm hanging with is making an effort to be there for me when my moods are low. When my mood is not low, I've got helping after helping of support and kindness in return. My Moon wants very much to be understood, but when I'm having a little trouble expressing myself or describing how I feel, or if I'm being misunderstood due to my words or actions, it really bothers me.

When I feel like they are making decisions based on my real feelings, I am comfortable with whatever actions they take. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.

When I was much younger, my Moon would get the best of me, clouding my perception of myself and others, making waves when there's no need to.

Deep down, all Cancer Mooners feel jealousy and a need for reassurance, sometimes voraciously. For me it's similar to not wanting to feel left out of the party, or the loop. Sort of how an Gemini or Aquarius needs that social contact, except the Cancer Moon doesn't always know how to take the first step.

Also important, Natal Aspects to the Moon. Opposite my Saturn in Capricorn and part of my T-Square, it can make me look like I don't give a damn. I've never been comfortable with my Moon, but I realize I need to take the time to honor my feelings rather than act the fool and regret it later.

As long as I'm reflecting myself they way I had intended, I'm accepting of how others interpret me. You can't control what others think of you. The Cancer Mooner has to know when their feelings end and when other's free will begin.

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posted November 09, 2007 11:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've got Venus in Aries in the fourth house. I like to have a strong bond with my partners, but I'm far from clingy. I'll call them once a week (multiple times if I sense that they're stressed) and I have my own life. Usually my partners are the ones who end up very clingy. The clingiest was strangely an Aquarius sun and Gemini moon. I never thought any guy with that combo could be clingy. Maybe he had a cancer ascendant?

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NeptuneLove
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posted November 09, 2007 11:39 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sometimes yes, sometimes no
My Cancer Venus trines a 4th house Uranus, i guess that`s why !

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Swerve
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posted November 09, 2007 12:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sometimes clingy can be attractive. If you love the person who is clinging.

Obviously respect for boundaries has to be observed as in any relationship.

Not always a bad thing.

I like sentimentality and loyalty.

They tick both those boxes quite nicely.

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libraschoice7
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posted November 09, 2007 03:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Emotionally clingy is only attractive to a few ..not many people find that a quality that want in their partner(of course I personal don't mind). Actually I prefer someone who will get attached to me

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

I "FEEL" therefor I am

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SweetCappie
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posted November 11, 2007 03:05 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer Moon & Jupiter, 1st house.
Not sure what clingy means.
If I really like or love someone, I get very attached to my loved one and need emotional security and reassurance often. I am sentimental & romantic. I prefer partners that are emotional & sensitive like Scorpios or Cancers. I need affection, attention and I am jealous & possesive. But I have my own life and am not the type to call or appear everyday. I may act aloof but inside I'll be bursting with intense love. Eventually the intensity will erupt and my passion will too. If I am not wanted, I will definitely let go easily. I have too much pride & independence to depend on anyone.

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Kermeez Shroff
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posted November 11, 2007 03:21 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i hav a cancer moon in my third house. i do not clinge on to my partner that much though yes i do need to be made feel special every now and then. i need a lot of romance to keep me going. possessive no but jealous yes probably coz of my aries sun

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NAM
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posted November 11, 2007 08:23 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer moon in the 7th house.

Yes, you can say that but to a certain extend, although I tend to nurture I also want the other person to have his own individuality, if he can not be a productive complete being on his own and I have to babysit then I loose respect and move on.
If he is a whole then I like to nurture him and I get clingy and you can say dependent on him, although I know I can function on my own I still like him to be the man and make decisions for us.

My 10 yr old has a moon in Cancer as well and he does attach to me more than my 12 yr old.

I hope this helps.

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posted November 15, 2007 05:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer Moon in the 12th.Aqua Sun.
I get very attached in my relationships. I dont act clingy but I sure feel like I want to cling!
For me the issues are how deep I feel things and how intense my attachments become.

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