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Topic: Two Leo parents
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lioneye68
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posted December 26, 2006 02:02 AM
 
I'm a Leo mom, and I feel sad for those who have a bad parent, mom or dad Leo or what-have-you, who can't see you for who you are. You are mearly a reflection of them so you have to think, feel, and believe everything they believe. I've always known immature Leos to be inconsiderate of the individual, and obsessed with mutual agreement (meaning, you have to agree with them on all levels)
I've had the gift of astrology, and because of that I know my faults, and I see them. My daughter, a very Capricorn Taurus, won't come to anyone but me with her life issues. She feels I am open-minded and always on her side, unlike her Cancer dad - She hides everything from him, but tells me everything - even things I don't really want to know lol...
I know the immature Leo, though. And I don't like them either. I can't be in the same room with them. But the good Leo, well that's another story.And I have to add, my Taurus daughter has some very strong principles, and they do mimmick my own principles. thedivinesky, I suggest you subtley introduce your parents to Astrology, and I also have to suggest you get a backbone. IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted December 26, 2006 02:55 AM
Okay leo trashers, funs over.
This is lioneye68's daughter, i am a taurus with loads of capricorn mixed into my chart,therefore I am obviously very aggressive and driven.
Now for my point. My entire life I have had no closer relationship then with the leo mother I have, also i have often flourished in relationships between leos (EVEN MALES)although they can be quite egotistical and quite often seated very high on their horse. i find their strong and pleasant personalities intrigueing and motivational. My mother has never been controlling, nor has she ever in any way supressed me. She is completely down to earth and truly cares more for me then anything else existing in her life, and you know what? She shows that to me every single day.
Dont get the wrong idea, my mother never lets me walk over her and take advantage of her kindness, she has raised me, to my knowledge, with exceptional morals and promising motivation. Also, her motherly instinct is ALWAYS right, i've tried to deny it but there is no sense because it is proven regularily.
My mother has been told many times that she has done an exceptional job raising me to have confidence, but a very polite manor.
And for you virgos, if you feel you're being overpowered by a leo, grow a backbone (as said by my mother)my step father is a virgo and he definately is not over powered by my mothers personality. You guys are powerful (you can hold a grudge for a ridiculous amount of time over the most simple things, and that'll shut a leo up pretty good. they need your input to feel powerful, so dont give them so much power)Trust, both my step-parents are virgos and act identically. So if you're a virgo with a leo's respect you should have no problem standing up to that leo. However if you're heading nowhere a leo cant help but to point you in the right direction.
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Motherkonfessor
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posted December 26, 2006 02:55 AM
I just want everyone to know I wasn't looking for a pity party with that post...reading VTT's response about the Leo dad just unleashed something... because I do normally like Leos. I usually can feel that underlayer of aloneness and insecurity so many of them have, and I am gentle with them. I can't change the past, so I just roll with it. but believe me, i was ANGRYGIRL for many, many years. I used to say "i don't have a father, I had a dictator." tux... I am sorry for your experiences. In no way would I think you were 'one up-ing' me. Going through all of these feelings- and sharing them- will hopefully bring you some sense of your path in this life. I can't say I know my path, but I now recognize the signposts! MK
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karmafx
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posted January 08, 2007 04:38 PM
Is that it? Is there anyone else who would like to whine or display their ugliness, inability to cope, lack of class, and lack of understanding of even basic sun sign astrology? Be sure to leave your sun sign as well. A pattern has already been established. Help prove that sun sign is correlated with what I described above. Come on, you will get to simultaneously show us your hate and help further our understanding of the signs. < sarcasm >
Or maybe a scorpio could chime in because "they do know everything?"
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/012064.html
< /sarcasm > Anyway, keep exposing yourself. This is interesting.
Thanks,
karmafx
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thedividedsky
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posted January 08, 2007 05:51 PM
wow.........it all started so innocently. please forgive me, leo the lion.....i hope i ne'er say a bad word against you again.(like we were talking to YOU) I know how thee doesn't like it.  IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted January 08, 2007 06:15 PM
Why do people take things so PERSONALLY?I am a Scorpio and see loads of bashing here of my sign....some of it is probably true and i hope to learn from it. And I think we should be careful when we are over confident of our parenting skills. My mother told me my whole life what a good mother she was...and "you wouldnt have me any different would you" Well actually Mum.....now that I am a parent myself, I wouldnt dream of presuming I am a great mother, although our son says differently....but then again he is a Scorpio, like minded and all. Just because a child grows up to be outwardly "successful" doesnt mean we have done a great job.....they could have other issues too, feeling under pressure, etc Watch those egos people, nobody is perfect Not even Leos.....  And definatley not Scorpios.... 
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sue g
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posted January 09, 2007 06:19 AM
"""Good God, grow up and face the fact that if you grow up in a Leo household you are not going to be in charge. Nor should you expect to be.You are likely to be held to a higher standard than your friends and it's quite likely you will not be permitted to do all the things your friends do"""".
I just saw the above... 
How worrying...especially if the child concerned was of a sensitive disposiiton....a water sign maybe....? Not permitted to do all the things your friends do??? Mmm.....i wasnt allowed either (because my mother was religious). I felt angry and deprived. I rebelled...big time....did all those things I wasnt permitted to do....and MORE!!! I also had two broken marriages...maybe I feared control? LOVE isnt about domination or control....its about guiding gently and allowing...and only stepping in if harm is likely. Freedom of expression is SO important. Some parents dont get this. They think if they lose control they have lost their kids...whereas the opposite is true....letting go and allowing a person to BE is far more powerful . When a psychic told me years ago that I would have a son and we would be best friends I was delighted. Now he is here, I begin to understand. We are respectful and kind to each other. If he steps out of line, I tell him....and him me. I say sorry when i am wrong, so does he. Its a very healthy bond. I would be mortified if he grew up seeing me as a control freak. He talks of love often....he is 8 years old. He is allowed to show his feelings but he isnt alowed to disrespect anyone... The most troubled of clients Ive treated have either had domineering mothers or fathers...some were crushed by them How very sad IP: Logged | |
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