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Topic: Gossip aspects?
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Lauren
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From: Colorado Springs, CO, USA
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posted January 13, 2007 07:03 PM
  
you can skip the rant and go to the question lolWhen I don't talk about relationships everyone assumes I'm very secretive or introverted or that I'm hiding something. When I don't act stuck up and cold so men chase me, everyone finds this extremely weird and assumes I have low self esteem. If I distance myself from someone because they don't seem like my kind of person, everyone assumes I'm playing hard to get. If I'm nice everyone thinks I'm a hippy and love everything. If I stop talking to someone they think I'm doing it to spite them when I'm actually just doing it because I'm hurt and can't open my mouth and get words out. When I leave things up to others and say "I don't mind what we do", they see me as indecisive or (un)opinionated. When I want things done my way the same people call me controlling lol
There are those who say I get everything I want/need handed to me on a platter. Then there are those who think I'm too much of a workaholic and should chill every so often. My friend thinks I'm too uptight about relationshpy things. My ex thought I was too open-minded, as in nothing really bothered me. the question
For some reason people think that there is an interesting ulterior motive (either good or bad) behind everything I do - though maybe it happens to everyone. Are there any aspects that indicate people gossip about you? Also, what aspects do you think would indicate someone is very gossipy? IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
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From: The Asylum, NC
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 13, 2007 07:10 PM
Ummm, I've got pluto in the 10th and an 8th house moon...everyone usually assumes that there's an ulterior motive behind everything I do. Guess it comes with the territory.And gossip is a gemini/mercury thing. Can't say I've never done it...but I can't say I'm addicted to it either. Gem venus IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted January 13, 2007 07:13 PM
I worked with three women over the years.....all of them were gossips and quite deadly at times...No idea what their charts looked like, but they all shared the same sun sign..... Aries.... They all made my life a misery...two of them were my bosses and one a co-worker... I have Aries rising, so maybe I should have gained an understanding of them....but i never did... They just scared the sh!t out of me   IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph
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posted January 13, 2007 07:18 PM
Strong Pluto in a chart can make weak-minnded people suspecious and distrustful for you. And gossips always are weak-minded. But beyond that, it's really their charts that would indicate their propensity to gossip.Watch out for cross aspects to your 12H though. That's the house of "hidden enemies" (and that would include people who secretly talk about you behind you back) and if someone's planet falls in your 12H, and aspects badly with your chart, it may inidacte that they have a hidden agenda against you. IP: Logged |
alanabelle86
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From: somewhere over the rainbow
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posted January 13, 2007 07:45 PM
the first thing that would come to my mind would be cross aspects to Mercury/3rd house & it's ruler...also possibly the Moon?..Neptune/Pisces/12th house things going on...------------------
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alanabelle86
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posted January 13, 2007 07:48 PM
adding.. could be some strong pluto like GN mentioned...I know I used to gossip a LOT, (got me in some huge trouble, lost a few friends..) when I was younger... the main thing for me was jealous/envy/spite...not powerful enough for me to dislike someone but with Jupiter in the 3rd...it just kinda comes up, and I run with it.. so yea pluto..maybe if its about ppl not trusting YOU, id look for cross aspects with the MC possibly?? It's the public image of you after all...maybe if it had a negative aspect from neptune or pluto... IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
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posted January 13, 2007 07:49 PM
GN, would having Moon conjunction Jupiter in the 12th, be bad as well(because I know I have a screaming Pluto ascendant)?------------------
Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged |
neptune5
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posted January 13, 2007 07:58 PM
they say libra is gossipy, like 3rd cusp or something?IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
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posted January 13, 2007 08:07 PM
Yeah good point, I also have a stellium in the 12th. Sucks to be me.....  IP: Logged |
Lauren
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From: Colorado Springs, CO, USA
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted January 13, 2007 08:21 PM
Great answers guys! I’m thinking it’s my 8th house moon, Pluto aspects and my Mars/Neptune conjunction. Also the 10th – public image is in Pisces so it’s ruled by Neptune. I don’t know if it’s distrust as much as complete confusion. They get very curious. Like they’re on a treasure hunt and there’s something they just have to find. The funny thing is I’m not interesting at all and they won’t find anything. It’s just so strange to me lol I have Mercury and Jupiter in Pisces as well and I hate getting asked a million questions so I can become evasive if someone won’t stop bugging me. This might make it seem like I’m hiding something, though I’m not at all. I just think certain things are personal. IP: Logged |
bo
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posted January 14, 2007 11:22 AM
Neptune in aspect to your AC gives people the impression there's some kind of foggy thing around you .. so they could start gossiping.IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
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posted January 14, 2007 12:26 PM
This thread reminds me of the time when saturn squared my 10th house pluto....oh, the horror!  IP: Logged |
nove731
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posted January 14, 2007 12:51 PM
A lot of people tend to think that I'm a gossip, but I don't really agree. I don't talk about other people all that much - it's usually other people that come to me. It's like I'm some sort of information magnet - it seems like everyone always tells me everything, including that which I would rather not hear.IP: Logged |
Lauren
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posted January 16, 2007 03:53 AM
Bo, I actually have Neptune conjunct DC, so it's opposite my Ascendant. Plus Neptune rules my MC lol Yep sounds right. IP: Logged |
Jan_A
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posted January 16, 2007 04:37 AM
As you are Aries Sun, just thump the table and all gossips will shut up! 
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Kay Libra
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posted January 16, 2007 09:27 AM
Hey I have a Libra stellium in the 3rd house. I've found that people like to tell me everything. I mean there whole life stories and I don't really want to know their business. I do keep somethings to myself and other times I do tell unless the person says don't tell this and usually they never say that so I don't know. But I don't like to think that I'm a gossiper. It is human nature to gossip, but when you're doing it to be malicious than that's where it's wrong.IP: Logged |
1scorp
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posted January 16, 2007 10:00 AM
I'm not sure about the gossip aspects, but I can identify with some of the issues that you explained. I'm always getting misread. So I just let people think what they want.  __________________________________________
Scorpio sun, venus, mars, mercury, and uranus
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Lauren
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posted January 17, 2007 09:38 PM
Air's been mentioned a few times and GemNymph you mentioned the 12th for secret enemies.. Funny thing is I have lots of Gemini friends, specially these days. They're an air sign + it's my 12th ahhhhh lol Na I still love'em..but they do the gossiping thing sometimes. LOL Jan, but then I'd scare them and give them more to gossip about  IP: Logged |
diamondbaby
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posted December 09, 2018 11:04 PM
Gemini Moon, hands down. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted December 10, 2018 01:04 PM
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Originally posted by diamondbaby:
Gemini Moon, hands down.
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Somna7H
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posted December 10, 2018 11:47 PM
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Originally posted by diamondbaby:
Gemini Moon, hands down.
Hands ✋ up!
Gemini Venus and Moon 2nd H.
Also Eros, Saturn,Mars, Pluto and Vertex in Libra. I'm Damn Serious.  ------------------
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Randall
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posted December 22, 2018 05:42 PM
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Randall
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posted December 31, 2018 06:19 PM
One hand up, one hand down.IP: Logged |
MermaidDreamz
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posted February 02, 2019 03:48 PM
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Dons2angelss
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posted February 02, 2019 04:06 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Dulce Luna:
Ummm, I've got pluto in the 10th and an 8th house moon...everyone usually assumes that there's an ulterior motive behind everything I do. Guess it comes with the territory.And gossip is a gemini/mercury thing. Can't say I've never done it...but I can't say I'm addicted to it either. Gem venus
I also have a "hades" moon and I get the same thing all of the time! I can literally be 100% authentic in what I'm saying and they'll accuse me of having an ulterior motive. I think a lot of air in a chart, or a dominant planet in an air sign like gemini with some aspects to jupiter and mercury. IP: Logged |
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