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Topic: Libra and Capricorn clashes.
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Kabes unregistered
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posted January 16, 2007 11:43 PM
Hey, my first post and its very interesting what you guys talk about here! Are there any libra and capricorn couples out there? I think theres too many clashes and diff love styles but both are very much attracted to each other and love each other alot. I am a cappy and I feel insecure most of the time when shes not around but I do make my gf feel secured. Cappies are committed and they are very loyal. This loyalty can be a bad thing coz Im feeling so much hurt sometimes. It is true that cappies get better with age and overcome insecurities in future but the moment when Im not arnd, my Libra gf will start looking somewhere...haha. Any suggestions my friends?  IP: Logged |
lotusheartone unregistered
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posted January 17, 2007 12:02 AM
hehe, I think Capricorns think too much..and for too long...Love is made of feelings, and intuitions..matters of the Heart to Mind and Soul. ...I think communication is key..tell her when you feel hurt, or insecure..I'm sure she'd try harder..to make you feel more secure... Ah, True LOve requires Trust Honesty and Understanding! Oh, and Welcome Kabes, hope I remembered your name correctly! IP: Logged |
Kabes unregistered
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posted January 17, 2007 12:25 AM
Thanks Alot Lotus! Sometimes I wonder why did she chose to be with a capricorn hahaBeing possessive, jealous and 'loyal' is not good...but being a cappie is nice! Cappies, dont you agree?  IP: Logged |
lotusheartone unregistered
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posted January 17, 2007 12:29 AM
No Worries, I LOve GOats!  I just think of them as "The Thinker"
and geez, it's like, come on come play with me, let's have some fun All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. ... ahahahaha Loyalty, IS AweSome  IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 8743 From: Dublin, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 17, 2007 02:46 AM
I'm a Capricorn, and I tried a Libra once. It didn't work out, and was over quite quickly. It wasn't really astrological, though. It was just that I couldn't handle how much she drank. Capricorn are interested in Libra careers. Notice how Capricorns are artistic, into law, into politics, etc? If you put your Sun sign in the 1st house, and read all the other houses accordingly you'll gain insight into your Sun sign. If you do this with Capricorn, you'll find Libra occupying the 10th house, which is the house of career. IP: Logged |
Kabes unregistered
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posted January 17, 2007 03:06 AM
I agree too that loyalty is awesome. Even if its uncomfortable at times Caps are like non-quitters  Sometimes I wonder if a Libra and Cap relationship can last. Its only been 10mnths for me ald Im feeling insecure and a lil possessive haha. Hey acoustic, ure right that Caps are careerminded and artistic. I am a graphic artist myself! Too much passion has its good and bad.  IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 8743 From: Dublin, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 17, 2007 03:13 AM
Have you done any astrological reports for the both of you?Eatbooks has a thread where she'll do one for you if you're interested. You need date, TIME, and PLACE of birth in order to get a good report. IP: Logged |
bo unregistered
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posted January 17, 2007 05:15 AM
Kabes: It's true capricorns get better with age. That's because they will often achieve the security they work so hard and so long for. But then they also realise how much they have been worrying and how much they have been missing in life because of all that worrying. So they loosen up and start to enjoy life.IP: Logged |
Yang unregistered
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posted January 17, 2007 09:16 AM
Welcome  I am a Libra, but never had a date with a Capricorn. I like Cappies alot! IP: Logged |
Kabes unregistered
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posted January 17, 2007 11:53 AM
Havent done any reports yet Acoustic but thanks for the recommendation.  It makes sense what you said Bo that cappies worry alot and somehow we achieve to overcome thru perseverance and hardwork. Yang, Caps can be quite a hard one for Libras. But I dated a Libra and we are still together. Very diff love and working styles but very affectionate. I realised that if the Cap can overcome the securities with Libra's cooperation and Cap can be decisive and give Libra balance and space, things will turn out great. The up side of it is that Libra values harmony and always want to be by the partner's side but can give space to Cap while Cap is a great provider and can be funny at times. But its very exhausting though. It has to start with a good friendship I believe. My sister was a Libra and I grew up with her thus I understand Libra alot and it helped me in my relationship even though Lib and Cap are totally incompatible. IP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 17, 2007 12:14 PM
I've only seen one Cap/Libra couple in my life and it was male Libra to a female Cap combo. They worked out just fine were married for 23 years. There is a famous Libra/Cap combo that I've heard of, Paul Hogan(Libra) and Linda Kozlowsky(Capricorn), the two played together in the movie 'Crocodile Dundee'...What it could be is the male Libra is very attracted to the regal and social grace of the Capricorn woman(I can honestly picture a Libra male showing up with a bunch of flowers or jewelry gift for the Cap female). Personally I could really never see myself in a relationship with any earth sign(even though Caps are attracted to me for some reason).------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged |
lotusheartone unregistered
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posted January 17, 2007 12:22 PM
Kabes, it sure sounds like you know..how to make it work, and that you are very much in LOve...Sweet  Made me smile to see a man express the relationship in such a logical way... The Thinker LOL LOts of LOve to EveryOne
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Kabes unregistered
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posted January 17, 2007 12:40 PM
I havent come across other male Caps with a Libra myself. Hey Libraschoice, I didnt know the two stars in crocodile dundee are actually couples?  Thanks for the encouragement Lotus! Its true Caps are very deep thinkers but we are a big Doer too! The disadvantage to that is we expect others to have such high standards similar to ours which I find quite unreasonable but I have such expectations myself haha. What sign are you btw Lotus? IP: Logged |
lotusheartone unregistered
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posted January 17, 2007 12:54 PM
if you fail to plan then you plan to failI am a Taurus, and yes you better keep up, and work hard too! lol but I do find time to relax, it's a must  I have Libra ascending, and Moon in Scorpio IP: Logged |
Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 1008 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 17, 2007 01:21 PM
Welcome to LL, Kabes ~I spent almost 5 years with a Cappy fella. We split up for reasons other than basic compatibility (substance abuse), but if you go by the *generalization* of Sun sign to Sun sign, we were good together. Linda Goodman said that with Libra and Cappy the biggest problem will be who's going to drive the bus or lead the parade As Libra is a "masculine" sign and Cap a "feminine" sign I think it gave us a good balance of yin/yang Sun energies. Since Librans will *generally* do their utmost to arrive at compromise and fairness in any relationship situation or concern, letting Cappy lead the parade is a non-issue Unlike lc7, I enjoy and am attracted to Earthling-energy, probably because I have an Earthy Mars..... Zala **edited** PS: Kabes ~ quote: My sister was a Libra and I grew up with her thus I understand Libra alot and it helped me in my relationship even though Lib and Cap are totally incompatible.
Making a generalization like "Libra and Cappy are totally incompatible" is like waving a red flag in front of a Bull -- that's a flagrant invitation to a debate!! Judging the "incompatibility" of two human souls by just one attribute -- their Sun sign -- seems a very narrow way of slotting the complexity of human beings (who are MUCH MORE than their Sun sign) into a conveniently labeled box..... btw, Using absolutes like "never" and "always" or "it's black or white, you're with us or you're against us" will also yank our chains IP: Logged |
mysticaldream unregistered
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posted January 17, 2007 10:46 PM
Making a generalization like "Libra and Cappy are totally incompatible" is like waving a red flag in front of a Bull -- that's a flagrant invitation to a debate!! Judging the "incompatibility" of two human souls by just one attribute -- their Sun sign -- seems a very narrow way of slotting the complexity of human beings (who are MUCH MORE than their Sun sign) into a conveniently labeled box..... btw, Using absolutes like "never" and "always" or "it's black or white, you're with us or you're against us" will also yank our chains Yes and amen! It's great to read something that is logical, true and well-written. Indeed, people ARE much more than their sun signs and far too complex to be put in such a small box. Each person has many different facets that make up who they are. In my opinion, this is what makes the study of astrology interesting -- looking at the whole chart and studying interplays of energies that make each person as unique as a fingerprint -- not boxing someone in by their Sun sign alone.
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Kabes unregistered
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posted January 17, 2007 11:28 PM
Hey Lotus, my brother is a Taurus too and we get along very well!  Aza and Mystical, I agree that it is just more than sun signs and I was about to mention about fingerprints, how no one has an identical one to another! I feel that learning about these signs is a very good knowledge and guides. Great to know but how we apply it depends on the individual. Its like Photoshop.  IP: Logged |
lotusheartone unregistered
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posted January 17, 2007 11:37 PM
Kabes, Earth signs need logic and common sense..they see eye to eye, hehe yet our biggest thing is to learn to understand the opposite...the mystical, and what we can't prove... I LOve all the signs, all individual knowflakes, none the same  yet all equal and born with the same divine gifts if we choose to Master OurSelves, Overcome our charts, and then use these said gifts with the wisdom and guidance of GOD. ... LOve to ALL of U... . IP: Logged |
Kabes unregistered
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posted January 18, 2007 12:36 AM
Well said Lotus.. *hugs*IP: Logged |
lotusheartone unregistered
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posted January 18, 2007 12:42 AM
Why thank-you, kind Sir..Kabes!LOve to ALL. ... IP: Logged |
Billiebee Newflake Posts: 2 From: Winter Haven, Florida, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted April 04, 2012 11:20 PM
Im a libra and my mate is a capricorn. Things are going great so far even though we have only just started dating, I just posted a new topic wondering about sun/ Asc combos. The most recent in soul unions thread I am a libra sun cappy Asc and he is a cappy sun libra Asc. Within 2 degrees of each other. Ithink that's positive right? best of luck to all the couples out there libra/ cap combo or not IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 15170 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 04, 2012 11:47 PM
Hi, I'm a Cap sun, nice to meet you.I think it's hard to generalize here, so many variables are involved. I dated a Libra once and really tried to sustain it but couldn't. The one Cap-Libra marriage I know of personally is a long, unhappy one. But Sting (Libra) and his wife Trudie Styler (Cap) seem really happy. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 61448 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 05, 2012 11:35 AM
Welcome, Billiebee!------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
FireMoon unregistered
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posted April 06, 2012 12:44 AM
Hi Kabes, I'm a Capricorn as well. Like most people have said there are so many other factors to consider with compatibility... Speaking in very general terms, I feel the clash much more with Aries than Libra. Not that I have anything against Aries, I have a close Aries friend who I enjoy having good debates with... I usually get along pretty well with Libras actually (but maybe that's because they fall in my 4th house), and I appreciate their balanced way of approaching things. Libra is much more of a social butterfly than Capricorn though, and even though I enjoy socializing just as much when I'm comfortable in the situation, I still have my insecurities that hold me back. I also think it's true that Capricorns get better with age, because time allows us to overcome our fears and build our confidence. If you're worried about your gf socializing or flirting with other people, the best way to overcome this is to work on building your self-esteem and the relationship you have with yourself. Turn some of that Capricorn ambition inwards and try to learn as much as possible about who you are as a person and how to appreciate all the intagible things that make life worth living. And think positively! IP: Logged |
Stars_Melody Knowflake Posts: 104 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 06, 2012 09:31 PM
I'm a cappy and I've dated a Libra before. The attraction was VERY strong, but it didn't work out. I think a lot of things in the chart should be considered, but it seemed like we wanted similar things and just went about them in VERY different ways.IP: Logged |