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libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 19, 2007 07:01 PM Does anyone know what combination of aspects and placements, make someone a fantastic lover? Sort of like Casanova, He was Sun in Aries though...I posted a chart of what I think makes for a good lover, feel free to post/mention your ideal aspects of a great lover as well! ------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 19, 2007 07:06 PM Here is Casanova's chart... ------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged
Gemini Nymph unregistered	posted January 19, 2007 07:09 PM It's relative to what you like in a lover, I guess. IP: Logged
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 19, 2007 07:26 PM It's getting closer to Valentines Day, I figured I'd get a head start, on the 14th of next month I hope to share works of Ovid with everyone, within reason ------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged
IamLove unregistered	posted January 19, 2007 08:15 PM He surely has a lot of signs in pisces! Katie IP: Logged
sthenri unregistered	posted January 19, 2007 08:28 PM deleting old posts IP: Logged
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 19, 2007 08:36 PM I got it from AstroTheme, they say around 8pm for birthtime... ------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged
eatbooks unregistered	posted January 19, 2007 08:38 PM this question is way too subjective. IP: Logged
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 19, 2007 09:04 PM Ok...but I still want to hear others' opinions. ------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged
Lauren unregistered	posted January 20, 2007 02:22 AM I reckon.. In men.. Taurus/Scorpio/Aries influence In women.. Cancer/Taurus influence Overall, nice Venus/Mars aspects and nice Venus/Pluto aspects help. IP: Logged
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 20, 2007 02:31 AM It's all in everyone's comfort zone I think...up to personal opinion. Its like the old saying "What's one man's trash is another treasure." I'd have to look at the charts of the guys I've had the best relationships with to see for my personal taste. edit Actually, there was a thread on this a while back. A survey on who was your worst lover (of course, always the bad first:rolleye: ), and who was your best one. IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted January 20, 2007 03:50 AM """In men.. Taurus/Scorpio/Aries influence"""" I have this in my chart.... Maybe I would be a great Cassanova..... I am a very passionate lover, you would have to ask my lover/s whether I am great or not.... Of course, I feel I am Great thread!!!! IP: Logged
Venus De Milo Knowflake Posts: 167 From: Registered: Jul 2009	posted January 20, 2007 06:23 AM I have to say, Casanova's chart doesn't inspire me. It's very eerily similar to that egomaniacal Piscean's chart, the one who I rant about quite often, that is the biggest womanizer and liar I have ever met in my life. I promise, I'm not saying this out of bitterness, but he was also hands down THE WORST lover I have ever had. TWO-PUMP CHUMP!!! Seriously!!! We only ever have sex once and he had to keep stopping, and we never really got started and he came like an over-excited school boy, within about 5 minutes... I am so serious. I wish I was lying about it. I was so disappointed! This is someone I thought there would be fireworks with, and I have to admit, he's the best kisser. It felt ethereal. Amazing. Dream-like. Check it out, though... similarities to Casanova's chart are eerie... and this guy IS a total womanizer, liar, manipulator extraordinaire. He has Scorpio rising... at 2 degrees. Exactly conjunct his ASC is Uranus. He's a Pisces, with Venus in Aries. This guy had a Virgo Moon though (11th house). WORST LAY EVER. HANDS DOWN. And later on when he tried to get started again, it he lasted a teeny bit longer, but still, nowhere near anything remotely satisfying and again... lots of stopping. He also seemed very inhibited and rehearsed, I hate that worse than anything. Every movement was so formalized and stiff. Bad sex!!! Bad lover!!! Yuck. Yuck. Yuck. And I'm one of those people who thinks sex is like pizza... even when it's "bad", it's still good! So, it takes a lot for me to say that. On the other hand, the best I've had has an 8th house Pisces moon and in our composite, we have a packed 8th house + venus/mars sextile... plus we have double whammy Juno & Moon aspects in synastry... his Juno is conjunct my Moon and my Juno is conjunct his Moon. This was the realtionship that has me convinced Magi astrology is right about Juno being a sexual planet... heheh. He is a Leo rising, Cancer Sun and a 5th house Mars, which I think helps matters. Hes really uninhibited and skillful and you can tell he's really, really enjoying himself in everything he does... and he's really low maintenence and straight forward and we have a great time! Ha. I'm honestly suprised that he's so laid back and "low maintenence", because my experience with Cancer/Pisces men has been anything but!!! Well, that's my buck fifty on the subject, heheheh. IP: Logged
LILYGIRL unregistered	posted January 20, 2007 10:56 AM Venus...rofl....Your are so funny...that description is ... It's so different for everyone. I don't like casanovas or womanizers because I despise the notion of being controlled by a repeated fake ritualized process. I like men who are gentle but who are secretly voracious. I like dreaminess coupled with take sudden charge. And I like slow gentle moaners who lose them selves entirely. NOT a pound pound show off athletic animal. I like to hear and see the other person enjoying what's happening; I like to see him turned on. And frankly I do not like men who just Erectile Missile-itis go on and on forever thinking they are doing me a favor--especially if ts straight plunder away. I come fast and furious and often (aries mars moon) and I enjoy all the warm up and aftermath. I do not want a Viagra case on my hands (Look Ma no hands I'm pounding this woman's uterus into oblvion--it's a 60 minute cycle...yuck..) because I get extremely turned on by little things, sights, smells , words in my ears, a hand stroking the base of my spine, a hand moving a hair off my face. That is erotic to me and that can happen in a blink of an eye. I am defintely someone who could be washing dishes with you and then find myself in the pantry against the wall, blouse open. IP: Logged
carlfloydfan unregistered	posted January 20, 2007 10:59 AM wow VDM!! damn.. was he a virgin before hand or something? that could explain a lot. I know the girl I lost my virginity to would likely have some harsh words for me sexually. I am sure it is quite common for boys new to love. but my current gf is blown away for sure. to be honest I feel I am an eratic lover sometimes, even now, but much less than when I first lost my virginity of course. sometimes I can go tantric practically (okay an hour) and ... make her reach multiple (6 or 7 once)... and other times I am almost like that boy, five minutes..sometimes its all in the mind for me. others I just let loose and I feel great. I don't know why I am so eratic. But she is very supportive in those periods (sometimes it will last a day or two or three). I think sometimes it has to do with my surrounding and I get afraid that someone might walk in, like when she was at my moms. but I feel most of the time I am a good lover, even though i stick to the same 3 or 4 or 5 positions, I can be sensual and kiss a lot and make it special. soo... scorpio sun aries moon cap asc sag venus/mercury cap mars/jupiter scorp saturn TN taurus (maybe where comfort level in sex comes from and being fine with the same few positions) IP: Logged
Venus De Milo Knowflake Posts: 167 From: Registered: Jul 2009	posted January 20, 2007 11:37 AM LOL... Carlfloydfan... no, no, no... he is a grown, 31-year-old man, a womanizer, he constantly has several women going at a time. He's very good-looking, athletic... I have no idea what is up with his over-excited school boy sexual performance. He loves the chase, the adoration and he will say anything to get you to fall for him. In fact, it's not about sex to him (obviously, lol)... he thrives on the ego gratification and getting women to fall hard for him. He used to tell me women constantly get obsessed with him and he doesn't know why. It's because he lies to them, and they think they have something very special with him. It's not the sex. And now I see he has an eerily similar chart to Casanova. Yikes. Personally, I'm betting Casanova was not such a great lover. Womanizer extraordinaire? Sure. But lover? I'm going to say probably not. IP: Logged
Venus De Milo Knowflake Posts: 167 From: Registered: Jul 2009	posted January 20, 2007 11:47 AM Anyhow, I think 8th and 5th house placements would make you a great lover, as well as Mars and Pluto aspects. Also, have a look at aspects to the 5th & 8th house ruler, there is probably some good stuff going on there! Further to that, I believe it would also depend on your chemistry with your partner in synastry and the composite... Mars-Venus aspects, Pluto-Venus aspects, house placements, etc. Edited to add: I just looked up the asteriod Lust (4386) in my chart, and I notice that's it's opposed my natal Moon. Which means in synastry, it's conjunct Mr Cancer/Pisces Sun and opposed his Juno. Like I said, BEST SEX EVER... in technique, chemistry, kink, everything. It's really amazing. So, I would check the asteriods too, lik Juno, Lust and perhaps some others anyone can suggest. Asteriods can be very powerful. IP: Logged
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 20, 2007 12:09 PM Cassanova wasn't a great lover...he was just a womanizer who liked to have sex alot. Being a sex-feign does not make you a good lover...sorry. IP: Logged
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libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 20, 2007 01:17 PM Wow, you guys had some interesting experiences, VDM your story was combination of woe and humor(two pump chomp)lol...No I picked Casanovas chart because I was looking for someone who was a famous lover and he was an Aries so I posted him. So there is a big difference between being a fantastic lay and satisfying and just 'getten yours' sexorama type I suppose. I know personally if a guy doesn't give me an orgasm(or even try)I won't keep him period(no shake and moan your out the door). Both people need to be feeling the pleasure ------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged
Dulce Luna Newflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 20, 2007 01:21 PM quote: Maybe Casanova was in a love with a lot of women and that's why they loved him back? Venus, Ascendant, and Mars all in the same element, his feelings were all over the place and he needed to express himself instantly, love would come fast and hard and he couldn't stop himself. Or he most likely lied to them....like most womanizers do. Sorry, I just don't buy the whole "poor Casanova" story. IP: Logged
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libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: the city so nice they named it twice! Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 20, 2007 01:55 PM Natasha thats great that you feel you can express yourself sexually being a woman! The thing is I also come from a very religious household(sex was bad and dirty)I didn't know what masturbation was till I was what almost 18(I am not joking)and contribute it to my sheltered 4th house Sun conjunct Pluto. ------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged
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